Momwe Mungapemphe Mnzanu Kuti Agonane Naye (Popanda Kuwakwiyitsa)

Zamkati

• Musamanene Zolakwa
• Chiritsani Mkwiyo
• Lankhulani
• Pangani Moyo Watsiku ndi Tsiku Kukhala Wokhutiritsa Kwambiri
• Onaninso za

Ma libido osagwirizana ndi osangalatsa kwa aliyense. Anthu awiri ayamba kukondana chifukwa cha chikondi chogawana cha Neil de Grasse Tyson komanso kudana ndi zoumba. Popanda chisamaliro padziko lapansi, zinthu zikutentha ndikulemera kuposa tsabola waku Texas.

Koma pamene ubale ukusintha, mphamvu zimayamba kusintha. Misonkho, ana, kusintha kwa mahomoni, kupsinjika kwa ntchito, ndi kutaya zinyalala zonse zimatha kugwa pazokongola zanu. Tsiku lina, mumadzuka ndikuzindikira zomwe mwachita posachedwa ndikungogundana ndi makina ochapira. (Zogwirizana: Low Libido? Nazi Momwe Mungakulitsire Kugonana Kwanu.)

Tsoka ilo, moyo sindiwo zolaula zazikulu. Anthu samathamanga mozungulira nthawi zonse. Moyo wathanzi wogonana umagwira ntchito. Ubale ndi chinthu chopumira chomwe chimafuna chisamaliro chanthawi zonse.

Ndipo si amuna okha amene amachita zonse zoyambilira, nthawi zina akazi amapezeka kuti akufuna nookie nthawi zambiri kuposa okondedwa awo. Kuchokera kwa mkazi yemwe wakhalapo kale, ndikhoza kunena molimba mtima: zimayamwa.

Ndiye mungamufunse bwanji mnzanuyo kuti agonane popanda kuwaika kumbuyo? Mwinamwake osati monga ine ndinachitira, komwe ndikufuula "vuto lanu ndi chiyani?" ndikugwedeza bwenzi langa latsopano, chimphona chachikulu cha phallic vibrator. (PS Awa Ndi Ma Vibrators Abwino Kwambiri Omwe Mungagwiritsire Ntchito Ndi Wothandizana Naye.)

Ndidafunsa a Cris Marie ndi a Susan Clarke, omwe adalemba bukuliKukongola Kwa Kusamvana Kwa Maanja kwa upangiri wopindulitsa kwambiri. Nazi zimene ndinaphunzira.

Musamanene Zolakwa

Zotsatira zake, anthu sakonda kutchulidwa ndi chala (kapena vibrator). Ndikuganiza kuti ndichifukwa chake njira yanga sinagwire. Malinga ndi CrisMarie Campbell, kunena zinthu monga "umangoganizira za momwe mukumvera," "simuyambitsa kugonana mokwanira," kapena "zonse zomwe mukufuna ndi ..." zidzangopangitsa anthu kuti azidzitchinjiriza.

M'malo mwa mawu akuti "inu", yesani mawu akuti "Ine". Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kuyeserera kwambiri zakugonana kwanga ndipo ndikufuna kuti mundiyanjane." Kapena "Ndikufuna kuti, monga mnzanga, mukhale ndi chidwi ndi momwe ndimamvera za moyo wathu wogonana. Sindingathe kudziwa ngati muli." Kuuza wokondedwa wanu zomwe amachita zomwe mumakonda kapena momwe mumamukondera, zingawapangitse kuti azikukondani kwambiri.

Chiritsani Mkwiyo

Moyo wogonana wocheperako si nthawi zonse wokhudzana ndi libidos zosagwirizana. Nthawi zambiri, m'modzi kapena onse awiri amasunga mkwiyo, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuti asakhale ndi chidwi chogonana. Nthawi ina ndinkakhala ndi munthu wina yemwe anali ndi anzanga ocheperako omwe amabwera ndikutuluka m'nyumba yathu. Pakati pa nthawi zonse kuyeretsa zonyansa zawo, kudyedwa ndi kumwera kunyumba ndi nyumba, ndi mikangano yathu pa izo, kukopeka kwanga kwa mnzanga kunatenga mphuno yaikulu. Muyenera kuthana ndi mavuto anu enanso.

Lankhulani

Ngati muli mbali yankhanza, kulankhula za kugonana kumakhala kovuta. Zomwe timawona zogonana paliponse pachikhalidwe chathu, kuzinena ndizovuta kwa anthu ambiri. Kuopa kukanidwa kungathenso kusokoneza luso lathu la kulankhula zosoŵa zathu ndi zokhumba zathu ngakhale titakhala paubwenzi wanthaŵi yaitali, wachikondi. Pogwira ntchito ndi maanja, a Susan Clarke akuti amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa kuti angawoneke ngati "ofooka kapena kuweruzidwa ngati olakwika ngati atulutsa nkhani zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa wawo."

"Nkhaniyi imakwezedwa tikayamba kuwunika momwe azimayi ang'onoang'ono amamvetsetsa matupi awo," akutero olemba. "Mukakhala kuti simukudziwa komwe g-spot yanu ili kapena momwe mitundu ingapo yakukhudzirani imakupangitsani kumva, simungathe kufunsa zomwe mukufuna."

Pangani Moyo Watsiku ndi Tsiku Kukhala Wokhutiritsa Kwambiri

Mwina mukuganiza, izi zonse zikumveka bwino, koma ndikufuna zadzidzidzi! Spice! Zocheperako pang'ono zopingasa mambo! Zambiri kuponyedwa patebulo lakukhitchini ana kulibe!

Kulankhula zakugonana sikuyenera kukhala kopha anthu. Kugonana sikungochitika kamodzi kokha. Kugonana komanso chidwi champhamvu zitha kuphatikizidwa m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, atero Clarke. Khalani opezekapo: sangalalani ndi madzi a sitiroberi, kuvina nyimbo yomwe mumakonda, pitani ku commando, yatsani makandulo ambiri, valani mafuta onunkhira - mumapeza lingaliro. Kumva zachiwerewere pafupipafupi kumatha kuthandizira inu ndi mnzanu kulumikizana ndi ziwonetsero zogonana zija - osatinkhasinkha mwamphamvu.

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