Chifukwa Chake Sizabwino Kutenga Mavidiyo Aanthu Olumala Popanda Chilolezo

Zamkati

• Chizolowezi chojambulira makanema ndikujambula zithunzi za anthu olumala popanda chilolezo ndizomwe tiyenera kusiya
• Koma chilichonse chomwe chimachitira chifundo ndi olumala komanso chimatichotsera ulemu. Zimatipangitsa kukhala ndi malingaliro ochepa m'malo mwa anthu okwanira.
• Kaya yakhazikika pachisoni kapena kudzoza, kugawana makanema ndi zithunzi za olumala popanda chilolezo kumatimana ufulu wolankhula nkhani zathu
• Yankho lophweka ndi ili: Osatenga zithunzi ndi makanema a aliyense ndikugawana nawo popanda chilolezo

Anthu olumala amafuna ndipo ayenera kukhala pachimake pa nkhani zathu.

Momwe timawonera mawonekedwe apadziko lapansi omwe timasankha kukhala - {textend} ndikugawana zokumana nazo zolimbikitsa zitha kupanga momwe tingachitirane wina ndi mnzake, kukhala abwinoko. Uku ndikuwona kwamphamvu.

Mwinamwake izi zikumveka bwino: Kanema wamayi akuyimirira kuchokera pa chikuku chake kuti akafike pa alumali yayikulu, ndi mawu owonetsa momwe akumvera ndipo ndi "waulesi" chabe.

Kapenanso chithunzi chomwe chidapezeka pa tsamba lanu la Facebook, chokhala ndi "chidwi" chomwe wina wachita kwa mnzake wa autistic, mitu yankhani yosangalatsa yomwe wachinyamata wa autistic amapita kukalimbikitsa "monga wina aliyense."

Mavidiyo ndi zithunzi ngati izi, zosonyeza olumala, zikuchulukirachulukira. Nthawi zina amayenera kusonkhezera malingaliro abwino - {textend} nthawi zina kukwiya ndi chisoni.

Nthawi zambiri, makanema ndi zithunzi izi ndi za anthu olumala omwe akuchita zinthu zomwe anthu olimba amachita nthawi zonse - {textend} monga kuyenda kudutsa msewu, kutenthetsa masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena kupemphedwa kuvina.

Ndipo nthawi zambiri? Nthawi zokondana zimalandidwa popanda munthu ameneyo.

Chizolowezi chojambulira makanema ndikujambula zithunzi za anthu olumala popanda chilolezo ndizomwe tiyenera kusiya

Anthu olumala - {textend} makamaka pomwe zolemala zathu zimadziwika kapena zimawoneka mwanjira ina - {textend} nthawi zambiri amayenera kuthana ndi izi zomwe zimaphwanya chinsinsi chathu.

Ndakhala ndikuchenjera nthawi zonse momwe nkhani yanga imatha kuwululidwa ndi anthu omwe sakundidziwa, ndikudabwa ngati wina anganditengere kanema ndikuyenda ndi chibwenzi changa, ndikumugwira dzanja ndikugwiritsa ntchito ndodo yanga.

Kodi angamukondwere chifukwa chokhala paubwenzi ndi 'wolumala,' kapena ine chifukwa chongokhala moyo wanga momwe ndimakhalira?

Nthawi zambiri zithunzizi ndi makanema amagawidwa pazanema atatengedwa, ndipo nthawi zina zimayambukira.

Mavidiyo ndi zithunzi zambiri zimachokera kumalo achisoni ("Onani zomwe munthuyu sangachite! Sindingathe kukhala momwemo") kapena kudzoza ("Onani zomwe munthuyu angachite ngakhale kulemala kwawo! Muli ndi chifukwa chotani? ”).

Koma chilichonse chomwe chimachitira chifundo ndi olumala komanso chimatichotsera ulemu. Zimatipangitsa kukhala ndi malingaliro ochepa m'malo mwa anthu okwanira.

Zambiri mwazofalitsa izi ndizoyenera zolaula, monga zidapangidwa ndi Stella Young ku 2017 - {textend} yomwe imalimbikitsa anthu olumala ndikutisandutsa nthano yopangira anthu osatekeseka kuti azimva bwino.

Nthawi zambiri mumatha kunena kuti nkhani zolaula ndizolimbikitsa chifukwa sizingakhale nkhani ngati wina wopanda chilema atasinthidwa.

Nkhani zonena za munthu yemwe ali ndi Down syndrome kapena wogwiritsa ntchito olumala akuyenda kuti afunsidwe, monga zitsanzo, ndizolimbikitsa zolaula chifukwa palibe amene analemba za achinyamata omwe sangathenso kufunsidwa kuti achite nawo (pokhapokha ngati kufunsa kuli kwanzeru kwambiri).

Anthu olumala kulibe kuti azikulimbikitsani, makamaka tikamangochita za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo monga munthu wolumala inemwini, ndizopweteka kuwona anthu mdera lathu akuzunzidwa motere.

Kaya yakhazikika pachisoni kapena kudzoza, kugawana makanema ndi zithunzi za olumala popanda chilolezo kumatimana ufulu wolankhula nkhani zathu

Mukamalemba zomwe zikuchitika ndikugawana popanda nkhani, mumachotsa kuthekera kwa munthu kutchula zomwe akumana nazo, ngakhale mukuganiza kuti mukuthandizira.

Zimathandizanso kuti anthu osatetezeka akhale "mawu" a anthu olumala, omwe alibe mphamvu, kunena pang'ono. Anthu olumala amafuna ndipo ayenera khalani pakati pa nkhani zathu.

Ndalemba za zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi olumala pamunthu wanga komanso kuchokera pamalingaliro okhudzana ndi ufulu wa olumala, kunyada, komanso dera. Ndingakhumudwe ngati wina atandichotsera mwayiwu chifukwa amafuna kunena nkhani yanga osandilandira, ndipo sindine ndekha amene ndimamva choncho.

Ngakhale pena pomwe wina akhoza kujambula chifukwa akuwona zopanda chilungamo - {textend} wogwiritsa ntchito njinga ya olumala akukwera masitepe chifukwa pali masitepe, kapena wakhungu akukanidwa ntchito yolembetsera anthu - {textend} ndikofunikanso kufunsa munthuyo ngati akufuna kuti izi zigawidwe pagulu.

Ngati amatero, kuzindikira malingaliro awo ndikuwauza momwe amafunira ndi gawo lofunikira polemekeza zomwe akumana nazo ndikukhala ogwirizana, m'malo mopitiliza ululu wawo.

Yankho lophweka ndi ili: Osatenga zithunzi ndi makanema a aliyense ndikugawana nawo popanda chilolezo

Lankhulani nawo kaye. Afunseni ngati izi zili bwino.

Dziwani zambiri za nkhani yawo, chifukwa mwina mwina mukusowa zambiri (inde, ngakhale mutakhala mtolankhani waluso kapena woyang'anira media).

Palibe amene akufuna kuwunika malo ochezera a pa TV kuti adziwe kuti adwala popanda kufuna (kapena kudziwa kuti adalemba).

Tonsefe timayenera kunena nkhani zathu m'mawu athu, m'malo mongochepetsedwa kapena kusindikizidwa ndi mtundu wina.

Anthu olumala si zinthu - {textend} ndife anthu okhala ndi mitima, miyoyo yathunthu, ndipo tili ndi zambiri zoti tigawane ndi dziko lapansi.

Alaina Leary ndi mkonzi, woyang'anira media, komanso wolemba waku Boston, Massachusetts. Pakadali pano ndiwothandizira mkonzi wa Equally Wed Magazine komanso mkonzi wazama TV ku bungwe lopanda phindu lomwe timafunikira.