Lena Dunham Adalemba Nkhani Yowona Mwankhanza Zokhudza Kusapambana Kwake kwa IVF

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Lena Dunham akutsegula momwe adaphunzirira kuti sadzakhalanso ndi mwana wobadwa yekha. Munkhani yaiwisi, yotetezeka yomwe adalemba Magazini ya Harper, adafotokoza mwatsatanetsatane zomwe zidamuchitikira pakugwiritsa ntchito in vitro fertilization (IVF) ndi momwe zidamukhudzira.

Dunham adayamba nkhaniyo pofotokoza chisankho chake chovuta chodwala maliseche ali ndi zaka 31. Iye analemba kuti: “Pamene ndinasiya kubereka ndinayamba kufunafuna mwana. "Patatha pafupifupi zaka makumi awiri ndikumva kuwawa kosalekeza komwe kumayambitsidwa ndi endometriosis ndi kuwonongeka komwe kudaphunziridwa pang'ono, ndidachotsa chiberekero changa, khomo lachiberekero, ndi chimodzi mwa mazira m'mimba mwanga chisanachitike, amayi anali atawoneka ngati otheka koma osafulumira, osapeweka monga kukula kuchokera jean zazifupi, koma m'masiku atangopita kumene opareshoni, ndinayamba kuzilakalaka. " (Zokhudzana: Halsey Atsegula Zokhudza Momwe Opaleshoni ya Endometriosis Inakhudzira Thupi Lake)

Atangopanga chiberekero, Dunham adati adaganiza zomulera. Komabe, munthawi yomweyo, adalemba, amayambanso kuzindikira za chizolowezi chake cha benzodiazepines (gulu la mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri kuthana ndi nkhawa) ndipo amadziwa kuti amayenera kukhala wathanzi asanabweretse mwana pachithunzichi. "Ndipo ndidapita kukakonzanso," adalemba, "komwe ndidadzipereka kuti ndikhale mayi woyenera kulandira shawa yayikulu kwambiri m'mbiri yaku America."

Atatha rehab, Dunham adati adayamba kusaka magulu othandizira ammudzi pa intaneti a azimayi omwe sangathe kubereka mwachibadwa. Ndipamene adakumana ndi IVF.

Poyamba, wosewera wazaka 34 adavomereza kuti samadziwa kuti IVF ndiyomwe angamupatse, poganizira zaumoyo wake. "Zinapezeka kuti nditatha zonse zomwe ndidakumana nazo - kusamba kwa mankhwala, maopaleshoni khumi ndi awiri, kusasamala kwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo - dzira langa limodzi lomwe lidatsalira limatulutsabe mazira," adalemba m'nkhani yake. "Tikakolola bwino, zitha kulumikizidwa ndi umuna wopereka umuna ndikupititsidwa ndi munthu wina."

Tsoka ilo, a Dunham adati pamapeto pake adazindikira kuti mazira ake sangathe kuchita umuna. M'nkhani yake, adakumbukira zomwe adokotala adamuuza atati: "'Sitinathe kuthira mazira aliwonse. Monga mukudziwa, tinali ndi asanu ndi mmodzi. Asanu sanatenge. Limodzi lomwe likuwoneka kuti lili ndi vuto la chromosomal. ndipo potsirizira pake ... ' Anachokapo pamene ndikuyesera kuchijambula - chipinda chamdima, mbale yonyezimira, umuna umakumana ndi mazira anga afumbi mwamphamvu kotero kuti anapsa. Zinali zovuta kumvetsa kuti anali atapita."

Dunham ndi m'modzi mwa amayi pafupifupi 6 miliyoni ku US omwe akulimbana ndi kusabereka, malinga ndi US Office on Women's Health. Chifukwa cha njira zamakono zothandizira kubereka (ART) monga IVF, amayiwa ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mwana wobadwa, koma kupambana kumadalira zinthu zingapo. Mukaganizira zinthu monga zaka, matenda osabereka, kuchuluka kwa mazira omwe anasamutsidwa, mbiri ya kubadwa koyambirira, ndi kupititsa padera, pamapeto pake pamakhala mwayi wapakati pa 10-40 peresenti yobereka mwana wathanzi pambuyo polandira chithandizo cha IVF ku lipoti la 2017 lochokera ku Centers for Disease Control (CDC). Izi sizikuphatikiza kuchuluka kwa zovuta za IVF zomwe zingatenge kuti wina akhale ndi pakati, osanenapo za mtengo wokwera wochiritsira osabereka ambiri. (Zomwe Ob-Gyns Amalakalaka Akazi Adziwa Zokhudza Kubereka Kwawo)

Kulimbana ndi kusabereka kumakhala kovuta pamalingaliro, nanunso. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti zovuta zimatha kubweretsa manyazi, kudziimba mlandu, komanso kudzidalira - zomwe Dunham adadzionera yekha. Mwa iye Magazini ya Harper Nkhaniyi, adati adadabwa ngati vuto lake la IVF lomwe silinapambane limatanthauza kuti "akupeza zomwe amayenera." (Chrissy Teigen ndi Anna Victoria afotokozanso mosapita m'mbali za zovuta zam'maganizo za IVF.)

"Ndinakumbukira zomwe mnzake wakale adachita, zaka zambiri zapitazo, pomwe ndidamuuza kuti nthawi zina ndimada nkhawa kuti endometriosis yanga ndi temberero loti andiuze kuti sindiyenera kukhala ndi mwana," Dunham adapitiliza. "Anatsala pang'ono kulavulira. 'Palibe amene ayenera kukhala ndi mwana.'"

Dunham adaphunzira momveka bwino zambiri munthawi yonseyi. Koma imodzi mwa maphunziro ake akuluakulu, adagawana nawo m'nkhani yake, yokhudzana ndi kusiya kulamulira. "Pali zambiri zomwe mungakonze m'moyo - mutha kuthetsa chibwenzi, kukhala osakhazikika, kukhala otsimikiza, pepani," adalemba. "Koma simungakakamize chilengedwe kukupatsani mwana yemwe thupi lanu lakuuzani kale kuti ndi zosatheka." (Zokhudzana: Zomwe Molly Sims Amafuna Amayi Kuti Adziwe Zokhudza Kusankha Mazira Awo)

Ngakhale izi zakhala zovuta, Dunham akugawana nkhani yake tsopano mogwirizana ndi mamiliyoni ena "ankhondo a IVF" omwe akumana ndi zokumana nazo zokumana nazo. "Ndidalemba izi kwa azimayi ambiri omwe alephera ndi sayansi ya zamankhwala komanso biology yawo, omwe adalepheranso chifukwa chakulephera kwa anthu kulingalira gawo lina," Dunham adalemba mu positi ya Instagram. "Ndidalembanso izi kwa anthu omwe adataya zowawa zawo. Ndipo ndidalemba izi kwa alendo pa intaneti - ena mwa iwo omwe ndidayankhulana nawo, ambiri mwa iwo sindinatero - omwe adandiwonetsa mobwerezabwereza, kuti ndinali kutali ndi yekha. "

Pomaliza zomwe adalemba pa Instagram, a Dunham adati akuyembekeza kuti nkhani yawo "ayambitsa zokambirana zochepa, amafunsa mafunso ambiri kuposa momwe amayankhira, ndikutikumbutsa kuti pali njira zambiri zokhalira mayi, komanso njira zambiri zakhalira mkazi."

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