Momwe Mkazi Mmodzi Anakanira Kulola Psoriasis Kuyimilira M'njira Yachikondi

Kuvomereza: Nthawi ina ndimaganiza kuti sindingathe kukondedwa ndi kuvomerezedwa ndi mamuna chifukwa cha psoriasis yanga.

"Khungu lako ndi loipa ..."

"Palibe amene adzakukondeni ..."

“Simudzakhala womasuka kugona ndi munthu wina kapena kugona naye; kutanthauza kuti musonyeze khungu lanu loipa ... ”

“Suli wokongola ...”

M'mbuyomu, zikafika pokhala pachibwenzi komanso maubale, ndimamva ndemanga izi nthawi zambiri. Koma sindinamve kuchokera kwa omwe anali pafupi nane. Ambiri mwa iwo anali malingaliro omwe amafala m'mutu mwanga nthawi iliyonse mnyamata akabwera kwa ine kapena akandifunsa kuti tikhale pachibwenzi, kapena ndidayamba kumenya munthu wina.

Osandilakwitsa - {textend} ndakumanapo ndi anthu ankhanza. Koma malingaliro m'maganizo mwanga akhala ovulaza kwambiri komanso oyipa kwambiri, okhala ndi zotulukapo zokhalitsa, ndipo, zomvetsa chisoni, ndi zomwe sindingathe kuzithawa. Pamene wina akukuchitirani nkhanza, akukunyamulani, kapena kukuvutitsani, nthawi zambiri mumamva upangiri wopewa iwo zivute zitani. Koma mumatani ngati munthu amene akukuvutitsani komanso kukhala wopanda chiyembekezo ndinu?

Ndakhala pachibwenzi pafupipafupi, ndipo moona mtima sindinakumaneko ndi zovuta zambiri. Komabe, kukhala ndi matenda owoneka bwino kumakupangitsani kukhala kovuta nthawi yakudziwana bwino yaubwenzi. Ngakhale ma 20-somethings akungofuna zolumikizana, vuto langa lidandikakamiza kuti ndidziwane ndi munthu wina pamlingo wina. Ndinafunika kuwonetsetsa kuti munthuyo kumapeto kwake anali wachifundo, wofatsa, womvetsetsa, komanso wosaweruza. Zonse zomwe zimayambitsa matendawa - {textend} monga kutuluka magazi, kukanda, kupindika, ndi kukhumudwa - {textend} zitha kukhala zovuta komanso zochititsa manyazi kuulula kwa munthu wina.

Kukumana koyamba koyambirira komwe ndimakumbukira ndili pachibwenzi ndi psoriasis kunachitika mchaka changa cha kusekondale kusekondale. Kwa ambiri, ndinali mwana wamphongo wonyansa. Anthu ambiri amanditcha msungwana wamtali, wosakongola wokhala ndi khungu loyipa. Panthawiyo, ndinali pafupifupi 90 peresenti nditadwala. Ziribe kanthu momwe ndimayesera kubisa zikwangwani zosalimba, zopindika, komanso zoyipa, nthawi zonse amadzidziwikitsa mwanjira ina.

Pafupifupi nthawi yomwe ndinali 16, ndidakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe ndidayamba chibwenzi naye. Tinkacheza ndikulankhula pafoni nthawi zonse, kenako adangotukana mwadzidzidzi, osandipatsa chifukwa chenicheni. Ndikuganiza kuti amayamba kundiseka chifukwa chocheza nane chifukwa cha khungu langa, koma sindine wotsimikiza ndi 100% ngati izi ndichowonadi kapena china chake chomwe ndapanga chifukwa chodzikayikira.

Panthawiyo, malingaliro anga anali:

"Pakadapanda psoriasis iyi, tikadakhala limodzi ..."

“Chifukwa chiyani ine?”

"Ndikadakhala wokongola kwambiri ndikadapanda kukhala ndi izi ndi khungu langa ..."

Kuulula kwotsatira kumeneku ndichinthu chomwe sindinawuzeko aliyense, ndipo ndakhala ndikuopa zomwe anthu angaganize za ine, makamaka banja langa. Ndinataya unamwali wanga ndili ndi zaka 20 zakubadwa kwa bambo yemwe ndimamverera kuti ndimamukondadi. Amadziwa za psoriasis yanga komanso kusadandaula kwanga za izo. Komabe, ngakhale adadziwa za khungu langa, sanawone khungu langa. Inde, mwawerenga pomwepo. Sanawone khungu langa, ngakhale timagonana.

Ndinkachita zonse zotheka kuti ndimuwonetse khungu langa. Ndinkakonda kuvala mwendo wamtali, wamtali wotalika ntchafu wokhala ndi malaya ataliatali, pamwamba ndi batani lotsika pansi. Komanso magetsi amayenera kuzimitsidwa nthawi zonse. Sindine ndekha pankhaniyi. Zaka zapitazo, ndidakumana ndi mayi wachichepere yemwe anali ndi psoriasis yemwe anali ndi mwana ndi bambo yemwe anali asanawonepo khungu lake. Chifukwa chake chinali chimodzimodzi ndi changa.

Kenako ndinakumana ndi yemwe ndimaganiza kuti ndidzakhala naye kwamuyaya - {textend} mwamuna wanga wakale. Tinakumana kusukulu ya yunivesite yomwe tonse tinapitako. Kuyambira tsiku lomwe tinayamba kuyang'anizana, tinakhala osagwirizana. Nthawi yomweyo ndinamuuza za psoriasis yanga. Nthawi yomweyo adandiuza kuti sasamala.

Zinanditengera nthawi kuti ndiyambe kucheza naye, koma kunditsimikizira kuti amandikonda mosasamala kanthu za matenda anga kunandithandiza kuti ndisamadziderere. Mutha kuwona nkhani yathu mwatsatanetsatane apa.

Ngakhale tidasudzulana pazifukwa zosagwirizana ndi psoriasis yanga, pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndimakumbukira kuyambira pachibwenzi chomwe chidalephera ichi: “Ndimakondedwa. Ndidzakondedwa. Ndiyenera kukondedwa. ”

Nthawi iliyonse ndikayamba kuda nkhawa ngati wina angandilandire ndi matenda anga, ndimaganizira za amuna awiri omwe ndatchula pamwambapa omwe sanandichititse manyazi kapena kundipweteka chifukwa chokhala ndi psoriasis. Sanandigwiritsepo ntchito matenda anga, ndipo ndikaganiza za izi, zimandipatsa chiyembekezo chamtsogolo. Ngati ndidapeza chikondi kawiri konse, nditha kuchipezanso.

Ngati mukukangana ndi chibwenzi chifukwa cha psoriasis, chonde kumbukirani, "Mupeza chikondi. Mudzakondedwa. Muyenera kukondedwa. ”