Zomwe Mkazi Wonse Amafuna Kudziwa Zokhudza Kudzidalira

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Lisa Leslie, msungwana yemwe adagunda kutalika kwa 6-foot mu grade 6, adavala nsapato za size 12 ali ndi zaka 12, ndipo adapeza gawo lake la "mphepo ili bwanji kumeneko?" nthabwala zikanatha ndi kudzidalira kocheperako. Koma Leslie amamuyamika chifukwa chokhala ndi chidaliro chamthupi - komanso kufunitsitsa kwake kuti atsikana onse azikula okha - kwa amayi ake a 6'3 (ndi 6'4 "bambo) omwe adati," tili ndi mwayi wokwanira mkatimo ndipo kunja. "

Tidapeza Wosewera Wofunika Kwambiri wa WNBA katatu uyu komanso wolandira mendulo yagolide ya Olimpiki kanayi ku The Women's Conference ku California, atangochita nawo gulu la Dove on self esteem. Malangizo ake olimbikitsa kudzidalira:

1. Lembani katundu wanu-ndipo khulupirirani

"Anthu ena ali ndi mawu akulu, ndipo sindingathe kuyimba konse," akutero a Leslie. "Imeneyo si talente yanga." Kuti mudzipezere ulemu pamalo oyenera, iye akuti, "muyenera kukhala ndi zomwe muli nazo. Vomerezani kuti muli ndi tsitsi linalake, maso ena, milomo ina ndipo ndi momwe zilili." Pezani zinthu zomwe mumakonda. Limbikitsani pa iwo. Leslie akanatha kumva zoseketsa za kutalika kwake. M'malo mwake, akuti, "thupi ili lidandipezera zikho zina."

Pagawo lomwelo, Katherine Schwarzenegger adalongosola kusokonezeka pakati pa "Ndimadana nazo zonse za ine ndekha" mphindi ndi zomwe zidamuchotsa. Amayi a Katherine oganiza mwachangu, a Maria Shriver, adamuuza kuti alembe mndandanda wa zonse zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda pa iye yekha. "Pomaliza, mndandanda wazomwe amakonda ndizotalikirapo kuposa zomwe sanakonde," adatero. Mutha kumverera kuti chipinda chikulemba zolemba kuti zikhale mndandanda womwewo, khumi ndi awiri kapena ayi.

KAMBI YOLIMBIKITSA: Onani yemwe akupanga kudzidalira kwa atsikana tsopano

2. Pezani mlangizi, ngakhale kuchokera m'buku

Bwanji ngati banja lanu silinayamikire zomwe muli nazo, monga a Lisa Leslie? "Atsikana opanda thandizoli amavutikirako chifukwa cha chikondi. Kwa atsikana achicheperewa, ndikuganiza kuti kufunafuna mabuku othandizira kudzakuthandizani. Sindikufuna kutulutsa amuna anga [Michael Lockwood], koma ndiye wolemba buku lotchedwa Akazi Ali Ndi Mphamvu Zonse, Zoyipa Sazidziwa ndipo zimathandiza achinyamata kumvetsa mphamvu zawo ali aang’ono. China chomwe atsikana angachite ndikupeza amayi kuchokera kwa amayi ena. "

MALANGIZO: Limbikitsani kudzidalira kwanu pazaka zilizonse

3. The biggie: Khalani ndi zolinga

"Chinsinsi chomwe chidandithandiza ndikuti ndidayamba kulemba zolinga zanga. M'giredi la 9, ndidayamba kulemba zolinga zazifupi zomwe ndimafuna kukwaniritsa mkati mwa chaka kenako zolinga zazitali, zomwe ndizomwe ndimafuna kukwaniritsa m'zaka 5." Pamndandanda waufupi chaka chimenecho: Kupeza 3.5 GPA ndikukhala wosewera wabwino kwambiri mdzikolo (mwachita, mwa njira). Nthawi yayitali? Kuyimira USA pamasewera a Olimpiki. "Chifukwa ndinali ndi malangizo awa omwe ndimaganizira kwambiri, kuti kuchepa kwa anthu omwe amalankhula za ine kunali kotsika kwambiri pamoyo wanga. Ndimayenera kuyang'ana pazinthu zina." Iye ndi mwamuna wake amaikabe zolinga zachuma, zolinga zaumwini, zolinga monga banja, ndi zolinga za ana awo. Patsogolo? Kutsiriza maphunziro awiri omaliza a MBA yake pomwe akuchita zina zonse - kuphatikiza kuphunzitsa ana ake awiri kuti azidzidalira.

KHALANI NDI ZOLINGA ZANU: Pezani khadi la ngongole mwanzeru

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