Chifukwa chiyani Cancer Si "Nkhondo"

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Mukamanena za khansa, mumati chiyani? Kuti wina 'anataya' nkhondo yawo ndi khansa? Kuti 'akumenyera' miyoyo yawo? Kuti 'anagonjetsa' matendawa? Ndemanga zanu sizikuthandizira, atero kafukufuku watsopano wofalitsidwa m'magaziniyi Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin-ndipo ena omwe alipo komanso omwe kale anali odwala khansa amavomereza. Zingakhale zovuta kuphwanya chilankhulochi, koma ndikofunikira. Mawu ogwiritsira ntchito zilankhulo zankhondo monga nkhondo, nkhondo, kupulumuka, mdani, kutaya, ndi kupambana-akhoza kukhudza kumvetsetsa kwa khansa ndi momwe anthu amachitira, malinga ndi olemba maphunziro. M'malo mwake, zotsatira zawo zikuwonetsa kuti zofanizira za adani za khansa zitha kukhala zowononga thanzi la anthu. (Onani Zinthu 6 Zomwe Simumadziwa Zokhudza Khansa ya M'mawere)

"Pali mzere wosakhwima," akutero Geralyn Lucas, wolemba komanso wolemba TV wakale yemwe adalemba mabuku awiri onena za zomwe adakumana nazo ndi khansa ya m'mawere. "Ndikufuna mkazi aliyense azigwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chomwe amalankhula naye, koma buku langa latsopanoli litatuluka, Kenako Anabwera Moyo, sindinkafuna chinenero chilichonse pachikuto changa,” akutero. “Sindinapambane kapena kuluza...chemo yanga inagwira ntchito. Ndipo sindimva bwino kuti ndinamenya, chifukwa ndinalibe chochita nacho. Zinalibe zambiri zokhudza ine komanso zambiri zokhudza mtundu wa selo yanga, "akufotokoza.

"Kubwerera m'mbuyo, sindikuganiza kuti anthu ambiri omwe ndimakhala nawo pafupi amagwiritsa ntchito kapena amagwiritsa ntchito mawu omenyana, kapena kutanthauza kuti izi zinali zopambana / kutaya," atero a Jessica Oldwyn, omwe amalemba zakukhala ndi chotupa muubongo kapena blog yake. Koma akuti anzawo ena omwe ali ndi khansa amanyansidwa kwambiri ndi mawu ankhondo omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza za khansa. "Ndikumvetsetsa kuti mawu omenyera nkhondo akupanikiza kwambiri kwa iwo omwe ali kale ndi nkhawa zosatheka kuthana ndi vuto la David ndi Goliath. Koma ndikuwonanso mbali inayo: ndizovuta kwambiri kudziwa choti ndinene pamene kulankhula ndi munthu wodwala khansa. " Mosasamala kanthu, Oldwyn akuti kukambirana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi khansa ndikuwamvetsera kumawathandiza kuti amve kuthandizidwa. “Yambani ndi mafunso odekha ndikuwona komwe zimachokera pamenepo,” akulangiza motero. "Ndipo chonde kumbukirani kuti ngakhale titamaliza kulandira chithandizo, sitinamalize kwenikweni. Zimakhalabe tsiku lililonse, mantha a khansa akuyambiranso. Kuopa kufa."

Mandi Hudson akulembanso za zomwe adakumana nazo ndi khansa ya m'mawere pa blog yake Darn Good Lemonade ndipo amavomereza kuti ngakhale kuti iye mwiniyo alibe tsankho la chinenero cha nkhondo kuti alankhule za munthu yemwe ali ndi khansa, amamvetsa chifukwa chake anthu amalankhula motere. “Kuchiza ndi kovuta,” iye akutero. "Mukamaliza kulandira chithandizo mumafunikira china chokondwerera, china choti muchithe, njira ina yonena kuti 'Ndachita izi, zinali zoyipa - koma pano ndili!'" Ngakhale zili choncho, "sindikutsimikiza kuti ndikufuna anthu kunena kuti ndaluza nkhondo yanga ndi khansa ya m'mawere, kapena ndalephera. Zikumveka ngati sindinayesere mokwanira, "adavomereza.

Komabe, ena akhoza kupeza chilankhulochi kukhala cholimbikitsa. Lisa Hill, mayi wa a 19 wazaka, a Lauren Hill, wosewera basketball ku Mount St. Joseph's University yemwe adapezeka ndi Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma (DIPG), a khansa yaubongo yosowa komanso yosachiritsika. "Ali pankhondo ndi chotupa chaubongo. Amadziona kuti akumenyera nkhondo moyo wake, ndipo ndi msirikali wankhondo wa DIPG akumenyera nkhondo ana onse omwe akhudzidwa," akutero Lisa Hill. M'malo mwake, Lauren wasankha kugwiritsa ntchito masiku ake omaliza 'kumenyera' ena, pokweza ndalama za The Cure Starts Now maziko kudzera patsamba lake.

“Vuto la maganizo omenyana n’lakuti pali opambana ndi olephera, ndipo chifukwa chakuti munaluza nkhondo yanu yolimbana ndi khansa, sizitanthauza kuti ndinu wolephera,” anatero Sandra Haber, Ph.D., katswiri wa zamaganizo wodziŵa bwino za khansa. kasamalidwe (yemwe nayenso anali ndi khansa). "Zili ngati kuthamanga marathon," akutero. "Mukamaliza, mupambanabe, ngakhale simunapeze nthawi yabwino. Tikangonena kuti 'mupambana' kapena 'simunapambane', tikhoza kutaya kwambiri panthawiyi. Kuchita bwino, mphamvu ndi ntchito komanso zokhumba. Kuchita bwino, osati kupambana. Ngakhale munthu amene akumwalira, atha kukhala wopambana.

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