Kugwiriridwa kwa ana - zomwe muyenera kudziwa

Nkhaniyi ikukuuzani zoyenera kuchita ngati mukuganiza kuti mwana wagwiriridwa.

Mmodzi mwa atsikana anayi ndi m'modzi mwa anyamata khumi amachitiridwa zachipongwe asanakwanitse zaka 18.

Kuchitira nkhanza ana ndi zochitika zilizonse zomwe ozunzidwa amachita kuti agonane, kuphatikiza:

• Kukhudza maliseche a mwana
• Kusisita maliseche a wozunza kumakhungu kapena zovala za mwana
• Kuyika zinthu kuthengo kapena kumaliseche kwa mwana
• Lilime kumpsompsona
• Kugonana pakamwa
• Kugonana

Kugwiriridwa kumatha kuchitika popanda kukhudzana, monga:

• Kuwonetsa maliseche ake
• Kukhala ndi mwana zolaula
• Kukhala ndi mwana kuyang'ana zolaula
• Kuchita maliseche pamaso pa mwana

Pewani kuzunza ana:

• Akuuzeni kuti akuchitiridwa nkhanza zokhudza kugonana
• Vuto kukhala kapena kuyimirira
• Sizingasinthe pa masewera olimbitsa thupi
• Khalani ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kapena kukhala ndi pakati
• Dziwani zambiri ndikukambirana za kugonana
• Thawani
• Khalani ndi achikulire m'miyoyo yawo omwe angawalepheretse kuyanjana ndi achikulire ena
• Khalanibe okha ndikuwoneka kuti muli ndi zinsinsi

Ana ogwiriridwa akhoza kukhala ndi:

• Mavuto owongolera matumbo, monga kudzidetsa okha (encopresis)
• Mavuto akudya (anorexia nervosa)
• Mavuto amtundu kapena amphongo, monga kuwawa mukamapita kubafa, kapena kuyabwa kumaliseche kapena kutulutsa
• Kupweteka mutu
• Mavuto ogona
• Kupweteka m'mimba

Ana omwe amazunzidwa amathanso:

• Gwiritsani ntchito mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo
• Chitani zikhalidwe zoopsa zogonana
• Simakhoza bwino kusukulu
• Khalani ndi mantha ambiri
• Sindikufuna kuchita ntchito zawo zabwinobwino

Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwana wagwiriridwa, muuzeni mwanayo kuti akayesedwe ndi omwe amakuthandizani.

• Pezani wothandizira amene amadziwa za nkhanza zakugonana. Madokotala ambiri a ana, omwe amapereka mankhwala ku mabanja, komanso omwe amapereka zipinda zadzidzidzi aphunzitsidwa kuyesa anthu omwe agwiriridwa.
• Muuzeni mwanayo nthawi yomweyo kapena pakadutsa masiku awiri kapena atatu atazindikira za nkhanzayo. Zizindikiro zakugwiriridwa sizikhala motalika, ndipo wothandizirayo sangathe kukuuzani ngati mudikira nthawi yayitali.

Pakati pa mayeso, woperekayo adza:

• Yang'anani zizindikiro za nkhanza zakuthupi ndi zakugonana. Woperekayo ayang'ane pakamwa, pakhosi, kumatako, ndi mbolo kapena kumaliseche kwa mwanayo.
• Kayezetseni magazi kuti muwone ngati matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi mimba.
• Tengani zithunzi zovulala zilizonse, ngati zingafunike.

Apezereni mwanayo chithandizo chilichonse chamankhwala chomwe angafune. Komanso mupeze uphungu kwa mwana wamisala. Magulu othandizira othandizira omwe angathandize kuphatikiza:

• Chithandizo cha ana - www.childhelp.org
• Kugwirira, Kuzunza & Kugonana Padziko Lonse - www.rainn.org

Dziwani kuti opereka chithandizo, aphunzitsi, ndi ogwira ntchito yosamalira ana amafunidwa ndi lamulo kuti anene zakugwiriridwa. Ngati akuganiziridwa kuti ndi nkhanza, mabungwe oteteza ana ndi apolisi adzafufuza. Mwanayo ayenera kutetezedwa ku nkhanza. Mwanayo atha kumuyika limodzi ndi kholo lomwe silikuzunza, wachibale wina, kapena nyumba yolerera.

Kugwiriridwa - ana

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[Adasankhidwa] Marcdante KJ, Kliegman RM. Kuzunza ana ndi kunyalanyaza. Mu: Marcdante KJ, Kliegman RM, olemba. Nelson Zofunikira pa Matenda a Ana. Wolemba 20th. Philadelphia, PA: Elsevier; 2019: mutu 22.

Webusaiti ya US Department of Health and Human Services. Chipata Chazidziwitso Za Ana. Kuzindikira kuzunzidwa. www.childwelfare.gov/topics/can/identifying/sex-abuse. Idapezeka pa Novembala 15, 2018.

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