Kugontha Si 'Kuopseza' Thanzi. Kutha Kutha

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• Pamene pamapeto pake adandisiya - {textend} akuwotcha, akuchita manyazi, ndipo watsala pang'ono kufika mochedwa mkalasi langa lotsatira - {textend} Ndidaganizira tanthauzo la kukhala 'bwino.'
• Vuto ndilakuti, kufotokozera nkhaniyi kuti ndizosatheka kukhala ogontha kapena kumva-kusamvetsetsa ndikumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa kusamva komanso za American healthcare system
• Koma palinso anthu ambiri Ogontha omwe alibe chidziwitso ichi, kutipatsa chidziwitso pazomwe zimapangitsa anthu osamva kuti azichita bwino
• Yakwana nthawi yoti tiwone zofunikira zomwe zimakhudza moyo wathu komanso moyo wathu - {textend} m'malo moganiza kuti kugontha ndiko vuto
• Ndipo ndiye muzu wamavuto, kwenikweni: kusafuna kukhazikitsa zokumana nazo ndi mawu a d / Anthu Ogontha

Ogontha "adalumikizidwa" ndi zikhalidwe monga kukhumudwa ndi matenda amisala. Koma kodi zilidi choncho?

Momwe timawonera mawonekedwe apadziko lapansi omwe timasankha kukhala - {textend} ndikugawana zokumana nazo zolimbikitsa zitha kupanga momwe tingachitirane wina ndi mnzake, kukhala abwinoko. Uku ndikuwona kwamphamvu.

Masabata angapo apitawa, ndili muofesi yanga pakati pa zokambirana, mnzanga wina adabwera pakhomo panga. Sitinakumaneko kale, ndipo sindikukumbukiranso chifukwa chake amabwera, koma mulimonsemo, atangowona cholemba pakhomo panga chomwe chimadziwitsa alendo kuti Ndine Ogontha kukambirana kwathu kudayamba.

Ndili ndi apongozi anga ogontha! ” adatero mlendoyo ndikamuloleza kuti alowe. Nthawi zina, ndimalota anthu oterewa akunena izi: Zopatsa chidwi! Zodabwitsa! Ndili ndi msuwani wakuda! Koma nthawi zambiri ndimayesetsa kukhala wokoma mtima, ndikunena kuti, "ndichabwino."

"Ali ndi ana awiri," watero mlendoyo. “Ali bwino, komabe! Amamva. ”

Ndidakola zikhadabo zanga m'manja ndikulingalira za chilengezo cha mlendoyo, chikhulupiriro chake kuti wachibale wake - {textend} ndikuti ine - {textend} sanali bwino. Pambuyo pake, ngati kuti kuzindikira kuti mwina kutero kungakhale kokhumudwitsa, adabwerera m'mbuyo kundiyamika pa "kuyankhula bwino."

Pamene pamapeto pake adandisiya - {textend} akuwotcha, akuchita manyazi, ndipo watsala pang'ono kufika mochedwa mkalasi langa lotsatira - {textend} Ndidaganizira tanthauzo la kukhala 'bwino.'

Zachidziwikire, ndazolowera kutukwana kotere.

Anthu omwe sadziwa zambiri zogontha nthawi zambiri ndi omwe amakhala omasuka kufotokoza malingaliro awo pankhaniyi: amandiuza kuti adzafa popanda nyimbo, kapena adzagawana njira zambirimbiri zomwe amagwirizanitsira ugonthi kukhala opanda nzeru, odwala, osaphunzira, osauka, kapena chosasangalatsa.

Koma chifukwa zimachitika zambiri sizitanthauza kuti sizimapweteka. Ndipo tsikulo, zidandisiya ndikudabwa kuti pulofesa mnzake wophunzira kwambiri angamvetse bwanji pang'ono za zomwe zimachitikira anthu.

Zithunzi zofalitsa nkhani zakugontha sizithandiza. Nyuzipepala ya New York Times inafalitsa nkhani yochititsa mantha chaka chatha, yonena za mavuto ambiri akuthupi, amisala, komanso azachuma omwe amadza chifukwa chakumva.

Kodi tsogolo langa likuwoneka ngati munthu Wosamva? Matenda okhumudwa, matenda amisala, maulendo opitilira a ER komanso opitilira kuchipatala, ndi ngongole zapamwamba zamankhwala - {textend} onse azunzidwa ndi ogontha komanso osamva.

Vuto ndilakuti, kufotokozera nkhaniyi kuti ndizosatheka kukhala ogontha kapena kumva-kusamvetsetsa ndikumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa kusamva komanso za American healthcare system

Kuphatikiza kulumikizana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa kuyambitsa manyazi ndi nkhawa, ndikulephera kuthana ndi zomwe zimayambitsa mavutowo, kutsogolera odwala ndi othandizira azaumoyo kutali ndi mayankho ogwira mtima.

Mwachitsanzo, kusamva ndi mikhalidwe monga kukhumudwa ndi matenda amisala zimatha kulumikizidwa, koma lingaliro loti limayambitsidwa ndi kusamva limasocheretsa makamaka.

Tangoganizani munthu wachikulire yemwe wakula akumva ndipo tsopano akusokonezeka pakulankhula ndi abale ndi abwenzi. Amatha kumva zolankhula koma osazimvetsa - {textend} zinthu sizikumveka, makamaka ngati pali phokoso lakumbuyo monga m'malo odyera.

Izi ndizokhumudwitsa iye ndi abwenzi ake, omwe nthawi zonse amayenera kubwereza. Zotsatira zake, munthuyo amayamba kuchoka pazokambirana. Amamva kukhala yekhayekha komanso wokhumudwa, ndipo kuchepa kwa anthu kumatanthauza kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.

Izi zitha kufulumizitsa kuyambika kwa matenda amisala.

Koma palinso anthu ambiri Ogontha omwe alibe chidziwitso ichi, kutipatsa chidziwitso pazomwe zimapangitsa anthu osamva kuti azichita bwino

Gulu la Anthu Ogontha ku America - {textend} kwa ife omwe timagwiritsa ntchito ASL ndikuzindikira mwachikhalidwe ndi anthu osamva - {textend} ndi gulu lokonda kucheza kwambiri. (Timagwiritsa ntchito likulu D kuwonetsa kusiyana kwachikhalidwe.)

Maubwenzi olimba amtunduwu amatithandizira kuthana ndi vuto lakukhumudwa komanso nkhawa zomwe zimadza chifukwa chodzipatula kubanja lathu lomwe silimasaina.

Mwachidziwitso, kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti omwe amadziwa bwino chilankhulo chamanja ali ndi. Anthu Ogontha ambiri amalankhula zilankhulo ziwiri - {textend} mu ASL ndi Chingerezi, mwachitsanzo. Timapeza zabwino zonse zakumvetsetsa kwa zilankhulo ziwiri m'zilankhulo zilizonse, kuphatikiza chitetezo ku matenda amisala okhudzana ndi Alzheimer's.

Kunena kuti kugontha, m'malo mongokhala wokhoza kuchita zinthu, ndikowopseza thanzi la munthu, sikungowonetsera zomwe anthu Ogontha amakumana nazo.

Koma, zowonadi, uyenera kulankhula ndi anthu Ogontha (ndi kumvetsera moona) kuti mumvetse izi.

Yakwana nthawi yoti tiwone zofunikira zomwe zimakhudza moyo wathu komanso moyo wathu - {textend} m'malo moganiza kuti kugontha ndiko vuto

Nkhani monga kukwera mtengo kwa chisamaliro chaumoyo ndi kuchuluka kwathu kwa ma ER, tikachotsedwa pamalingaliro, ikani cholakwika pomwe sichili chake.

Mabungwe athu apano amapereka chisamaliro ndi ukadaulo wamba ngati zothandizira kumva zomwe ambiri sangathe kuzipeza.

Kusankhana pantchito komwe kumatanthauza kumatanthauza kuti anthu ambiri / Osamva ali ndi inshuwaransi yazaumoyo, ngakhale ngakhale inshuwaransi yodziwika bwino nthawi zambiri siyimalipira zothandizira kumva. Omwe amalandira zothandizira ayenera kulipira ndalama zambiri kuthumba - {textend} chifukwa chake ndalama zathu zothandizira pantchito zazaumoyo.

Nthawi zambiri anthu osamva omwe amapita ku ER samadabwitsanso poyerekeza ndi anthu ena omwe sanasamalidwe. Kusiyanasiyana kwa chithandizo chamankhwala ku America kutengera mtundu, kalasi, jenda, ndipo zalembedwa bwino, monganso kukondera kwa madotolo.

Anthu ogontha, makamaka omwe ali pamphambano ya izi, amakumana ndi zopinga izi pamagawo onse azithandizo.

Ngati kutaya kwakumva kwamunthu sikuthandizidwa, kapena pamene opereka chithandizo alephera kulumikizana nafe bwino, chisokonezo ndi kusazindikira molakwika kumachitika. Ndipo zipatala ndizodziwika kuti sizimapereka omasulira a ASL ngakhale amafunidwa ndi lamulo.

Anthu okalamba ogontha komanso osamva omwe chitani Dziwani zakumva kwawo mwina sangadziwe momwe angalimbikitsire womasulira, kapenanso mawu a FM.

Pakadali pano, kwa anthu Ogontha mwachikhalidwe, kufunafuna chithandizo chamankhwala nthawi zambiri kumatanthauza kuwononga nthawi kuti titeteze dzina lathu. Ndikapita kwa dokotala, zivute zitani, madokotala, azachipatala, ngakhale madokotala a mano amafuna kukambirana za vuto langa logontha m'malo mofotokozera chifukwa chomwe ndachezera.

Ndizosadabwitsa kuti, anthu Ogontha komanso osamva akumva kukayikirana kwakukulu kwa omwe amapereka chithandizo chamankhwala. Izi, kuphatikiza pazachuma, zimatanthauza kuti ambiri a ife timapewa kupita konse, timathera mu ER pokhapokha ngati zizindikiritso zikuwopseza moyo, ndikupilira zipatala mobwerezabwereza chifukwa madokotala samatimvera.

Ndipo ndiye muzu wamavuto, kwenikweni: kusafuna kukhazikitsa zokumana nazo ndi mawu a d / Anthu Ogontha

Koma, monga kusankhana kwa onse omwe amasalidwa, kuwonetsetsa kuti onse ali ndi mwayi wopeza chithandizo chazaumoyo kungatanthauze zochulukirapo kuposa kungogwira ntchito payekha - {textend} kwa odwala kapena othandizira.

Chifukwa ndikudzipatula kwa zonse anthu, ogontha kapena kumva, atha kubweretsa kukhumudwa ndi matenda amisala mwa okalamba, si vuto lomwe limakulitsidwa chifukwa chakugontha. M'malo mwake, imakulitsidwa ndi makina omwe amalekanitsa anthu / Ogontha.

Ndicho chifukwa chake kuonetsetsa kuti dera lathu likhoza kukhala lolumikizana komanso kulumikizana ndikofunikira.

M'malo mouza omwe ali ndi vuto lakumva kuti ataya moyo wosungulumwa komanso kusokonezeka m'maganizo, tiyenera kuwalimbikitsa kuti athe kufikira anthu Ogontha, ndikuphunzitsa magulu akumva kuti aziika patsogolo mwayi wopezeka.

Kwa omvera omwe sanamvepo izi, izi zikutanthauza kutanthauza kupereka zowunikira zakumva ndi ukadaulo wothandizira monga zothandizira kumva, ndikuwongolera kulumikizana ndi ziganizo zotsekedwa komanso magulu amtundu wa ASL.

Ngati anthu atasiya kupatula okalamba osamva komanso osamva, sangakhale okha.

Mwina titha kuyamba ndikufotokozeranso tanthauzo la kukhala "wabwino," ndikuwona kuti machitidwe omwe anthu adachita apanga - {textend} osati ugonthi wokha - {textend} ndiye muzu wa nkhanizi.

Vuto silakuti ife anthu Osamva sitingamve. Ndizoti madokotala ndi madera samatimvera.

Maphunziro enieni - {textend} kwa aliyense - {textend} za tsankho m'mabungwe athu, ndi zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala d / Ogontha, ndi mwayi wathu wabwino kwambiri pazothetsera mavuto.

Sara Novi & cacute; ndi mlembi wa buku la "Girl at War" komanso buku lomwe silibwera "America is Immigrants," onse ochokera ku Random House. Ndi wothandizira pulofesa ku Stockton University ku New Jersey, ndipo amakhala ku Philadelphia. Mupeze iye pa Twitter.