Kodi Ndi Mibadwo Yotani Yabwino Yotenga Mimba?

Zamkati

• Mu 20s anu
• M'zaka zanu za 30
• Mu zaka 40
• Zosankha za chonde
• Kuzizira mazira anu
• Kubereka kwa amuna
• Nthawi yoti muthandizidwe
• Tengera kwina

Chidule

Chifukwa cha kulera komanso kupezeka kwa matekinoloje okhudzana ndi uchembere, maanja masiku ano ali ndi mphamvu zowongolera nthawi yomwe akufuna kuyamba banja lawo kuposa kale.

Kuyembekezera kuyambitsa banja ndizotheka, ngakhale kungapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kutenga pakati.

Uchembere umachepa ndi ukalamba, ndipo kukhala ndi mwana pambuyo pake kumachulukitsa chiopsezo cha zovuta zapakati.

Izi zati, palibe "m'badwo wabwino kwambiri" wokhala ndi pakati. Lingaliro loyambitsa banja liyenera kutengera zinthu zambiri - kuphatikiza zaka zanu komanso kufunitsitsa kwanu kukhala kholo.

Chifukwa choti mwadutsa zaka 30 kapena 40 sizitanthauza kuti simungakhale ndi mwana wathanzi.

Pitirizani kuwerenga kuti mudziwe zambiri za kutenga pakati pa gawo lililonse la moyo wanu.

Mu 20s anu

Amayi ndi achonde kwambiri ndipo ali ndi zaka 20.

Ino ndi nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndi mazira abwino kwambiri ndipo zovuta zanu zapakati zimakhala zochepa kwambiri.

Uli ndi zaka 25, zovuta zakuti utenge pakati pa miyezi itatu yoyesera zangotsika.

M'zaka zanu za 30

Chonde chimayamba kuchepa pofika zaka 32. Pambuyo pa zaka 35, kuchepa uku kumathamanga.

Amayi amabadwa ndi mazira onse omwe adzakhala nawo - pafupifupi 1 miliyoni. Chiwerengero cha mazira chimachepa pakapita nthawi.

Pazaka 37, akuti mukukhala ndi mazira pafupifupi 25,000.

Pofika zaka 35, zovuta zanu zokhala ndi pakati patatha miyezi itatu yoyesera zili pafupi.

Chiwopsezo chotenga padera komanso zovuta zachibadwa zimayambanso kukula mutakwanitsa zaka 35. Mutha kukumana ndi zovuta zambiri mukakhala ndi pakati kapena mukamabereka mwana mtsogolo.

Chifukwa cha izi, adotolo angakulimbikitseni kuwunika ndi kuyesa zina za inu ndi mwana wanu.

Mu zaka 40

Pali kuchepa kwakukulu kwa kuthekera kwa amayi kutenga pakati mwachilengedwe m'ma 40s. Pazaka 40, zovuta zanu kuti mukhale ndi pakati patatha miyezi itatu yoyesera zili pafupi.

Popita nthawi, kuchuluka ndi kukula kwa mazira anu kumachepa. Mazira achikulire amatha kukhala ndi zovuta zambiri za chromosome, zomwe zimawonjezera mwayi wokhala ndi mwana wobadwa wolumala.

Amayi ambiri azaka za 40 amatha kukhala ndi pakati komanso mwana wathanzi, koma zoopsa zimawonjezeka kwambiri panthawiyi. Zowopsa izi ndi izi:

• Kutumiza gawo-C
• kubadwa msanga
• kulemera kochepa kubadwa
• zilema zobereka
• kubala mwana

Matenda azachipatala, monga matenda ashuga komanso kuthamanga kwa magazi, amapezeka kwambiri mwa amayi atakwanitsa zaka 35. Izi zimatha kubweretsa zovuta ku mimba monga matenda ashuga komanso preeclampsia.

Pambuyo pa zaka 40, dokotala wanu akhoza kuyesa ndi kuyang'anitsitsa kuti awone zovuta zomwe zingachitike.

Zosankha za chonde

Ngati muli ndi zaka zopitilira 35 ndipo mwakhala mukuyesera kutenga pakati kwa miyezi yopitilira 6, mwina mutha kuthana ndi zovuta zakubereka. Dokotala wanu kapena katswiri wokhudzana ndi chonde angakuthandizeni kudziwa chifukwa chake simunatengere mimba ndikukulimbikitsani kutsatira njira zomwe mungayesere kutenga pakati.

Njira zothandizira kubereka (ART) zimatha kukuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi pakati, koma sizingakwaniritse kuchepa kokhudzana ndi msinkhu wobereka wanu.

Madokotala amathandizira mavuto okhudzana ndi chonde mwa amayi omwe ali ndi mankhwala omwe amachititsa kuti mazira apange, komanso njira monga in vitro feteleza (IVF).

Koma zovuta zakukhala ndi pakati ndi njirazi zimatsika mukamakalamba.

Njira ina ndikugwiritsa ntchito dzira lopereka labwino. Dzira limakumana ndi umuna wa mnzanu kenako ndikusamutsira m'chiberekero chanu.

Kuzizira mazira anu

Ngati simunakonzekere kukhala ndi banja koma mukudziwa kuti mufuna wina mtsogolo, mungafune kuganizira kuzizira mazira anu pazaka zanu zoberekera.

Choyamba, mutenga mahomoni kuti mulimbikitse kupanga mazira. Kenako mazirawo amatengedwa ndi kuzizira. Amatha kukhala ozizira kwa zaka zingapo.

Mukakhala okonzeka kuwagwiritsa ntchito, mazirawo adzasungunuka ndikubayidwa umuna kuti ukhale ndi umuna. Mazirawo adzaikidwa mchiberekero mwanu.

Kuzizira mazira anu sikungatsimikizire kuti ali ndi pakati. Kutenga pakati - ngakhale ndi mazira achichepere - kumakhala kovuta mukamatha zaka 30 ndi 40. Koma zitha kutsimikizira kuti mazira athanzi amapezeka kwa inu mukakhala okonzeka.

Kubereka kwa amuna

Kubereka kwa munthu kumachepetsanso ndi msinkhu. Koma izi zimachitika pambuyo pake, nthawi zambiri kuyambira zaka 40.

Pambuyo pa msinkhu umenewo, amuna amakhala ndi kuchuluka kotsika kwa umuna ndi kuchuluka kwa umuna. Umuna omwe ali nawo sasambira nawonso.

Maselo a umuna a bambo wachikulire amakhalanso ndi zovuta zachibadwa kuposa zamwamuna wachichepere.

Mwamuna wamkulu ndi, zimutengera nthawi yayitali kuti atengere mnzake. Ndipo wokondedwa wake ali pathupi, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu wake.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti bambo sangakhale ndi ana azaka za m'ma 40 kapena kupitirira apo. Koma zitha kukhala zovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe zinalili koyambirira m'moyo wake.

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Kuphatikiza pa kukupatsani nthawi yofufuza ntchito yanu komanso ubale wanu, kudikirira kutenga pakati kuli ndi zopindulitsa zina kwa inu ndi mwana wanu.

Kafukufuku wa 2016 adapeza kuti amayi achikulire amakhala odekha mtima ndipo amakonda kulalata komanso kulanga ana awo mocheperako. Ana awo amakhalanso ndi mavuto ocheperako pamalingaliro, pamalingaliro, komanso machitidwe kusukulu yoyambira.

Kafukufuku apezanso kuti ana obadwa kwa amayi achikulire nthawi zambiri amakhala athanzi ndipo amakhala ophunzira bwino kuposa anzawo omwe adabadwa kwa amayi achichepere.

Kuyembekezera kutenga pakati kungakuthandizeninso kukhala ndi moyo wautali. Kafukufuku wina wa 2016 adapeza kuti mwayi wokhala ndi moyo 90 udakwera kwambiri mwa azimayi omwe amachedwa kukhala ndi ana.

Palibe umboni kuti kuchedwetsa kubereka kumene kumayambitsa izi. Ndizotheka kuti zina mwa amayi okalamba kupatula zaka zawo atha kutenga nawo gawo. Koma izi zikusonyeza kuti kudikira kuli ndi zabwino zina.

Nthawi yoti muthandizidwe

Ngati mwakhala mukuyesera kutenga pakati koma mulibe mwayi uliwonse, ndi nthawi yoti muwonane ndi katswiri wa chonde.

Nayi nthawi yoti muwonane ndi dokotala:

• pasanathe chaka chimodzi kuyesera ngati mudakwanitsa zaka 35
• pasanathe miyezi 6 ngati mwapitirira zaka 35

Mabanja omwe ali ndi matenda odziwika bwino amtundu kapena omwe adasokonekera kangapo amayeneranso kukaonana ndi dokotala wawo kapena katswiri wazobereka.

Tengera kwina

Zaka zapitazi zitha kupangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kutenga pakati. Komabe ndizotheka kukhala ndi mwana wathanzi mukakhala mu 30s kapena 40s.

Pamapeto pake, nthawi yabwino kutenga pakati ndipamene zimakukhudzani. Sikoyenera kudikirira mpaka mutadzidalira ntchito yanu komanso ndalama zanu kuti muyambe kumanga banja lanu.

Ngati mungasankhe kudikirira, mungafune kukaonana ndi dokotala wanu kapena katswiri wazachonde kuti muwonetsetse kuti palibe zovuta zomwe zingakulepheretseni mukakonzeka.