4 Zida Zakuya Zam'mimba Zomwe Simukufuna Kuziphonya
Zamkati
- Koma Choyamba, Clit
- G-Malo
- A-Malo
- The O-Spot
- V-Malo
- Chikumbutso: Zosangalatsa Zonse Ndi Zosangalatsa Zabwino
- Onaninso za
Pali zochuluka kwambiri kumaliseche (ndi kumaliseche) kuposa momwe mungaganizire.
Mukudziwa komwe clitoris yanu ili, ndipo mwina mwapeza G-spot yanu, koma mwamvapo za A-spot? O-malo? Hm? Ndipo mumadziwa kuti clitoris yanu imagwiranso ntchito pakati pa zosangalatsa izi? :
Nayi malo anayi okhalira ukazi (kuphatikiza, zambiri zokhudza nkongo ndi kuya kwa nyini yanu) muyenera kudziwa, komanso momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mwayi uliwonse. Kusaka kosangalatsa.
Koma Choyamba, Clit
Tisanalowe ~kuzama ~ kulowa mkati mwa nyini zosangalatsa, tiyeni tikambirane za clit. Clitoris ndi gawo limodzi lotchedwa urethral-clitoral complex. Izi zimaphatikizapo chinkhupule chothira mkamwa, thupi lakunja ndi lakunja, ndimatenda angapo ndi timadontho tomwe timagawo. Zotsatira zake, kusangalatsa kwa clitoris kumapitilira pa nubbin yowoneka (yotchedwa glans clitoris) pamwamba pa maliseche anu. Imafikira m'thupi, pansi pa labia, ndi kubwerera ku chiuno. Clitoris yathunthu imatha kutalika kwa mainchesi asanu mwa akazi ena, pafupifupi pafupifupi mainchesi 2.75. (Pano pali mawonekedwe athunthu a clitoris mu mawonekedwe a sonogram.)
Popeza khungu lamkati limafalikira mkati mwa thupi, ndizosavuta kuyambitsa gawo ili la urethral-clitoral complex kuchokera mkati mwa thupi, kudzera kumaliseche (ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale anus). Ndipamene malowa amkati amayamba.
G-Malo
Ngakhale pali zolemba zambiri zokhudzana ndi G-banga, ndikadakhala wosangalala osatchulapo nkhani yokhudza madera azisangalalo kumaliseche. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa malowa (malo ambiri, kwenikweni) ndiye muzu wa clitoris wamkati. Ili kutsogolo (kutsogolo) kwa khoma la nyini.
"G-spot posachedwapa amalingaliridwa kuti ndi yogwira ntchito kwambiri yomwe imapangidwa ndi nyini, clitoral body, ndi crura (miyendo ya clitoris) osati malo enieni," akufotokoza Heather Jeffcoat, DPT, dokotala wa chithandizo chamankhwala komanso wolemba wa Kugonana Popanda Zowawa: Chitsogozo Chodzichiritsa Chokha cha Moyo Wogonana Womwe Mukuyenerera. Chifukwa chake, sizinthu zake "zake" koma zimakhudzidwa ndi siponji ya mkodzo, clitoris, ndi Skene's Glands (zambiri pazimenezi posachedwa). G-banga si chidutswa chodziyimira payokha, koma chimangokhala ngati gawo limodzi lodziyimira lokha.
Kuti mupeze, ikani zala ziwiri kapena chidole cha G-malo kumaliseche ndikulumikiza kuseri kwa fupa la pubic. Muyenera kumva mozungulira ndikuyesa kupanikizika, mayimbidwe, ndi mayendedwe osiyanasiyana kuti muwone zomwe zimakomera thupi lanu.
"Kulimbikitsidwa kwa malowa kwadziwika kuti kumabweretsa ziphuphu zamphamvu, 'kutulutsa umuna' kwa akazi, ndipo zitha kuthandizira panthawi yodzutsa akazi," atero a Michael Ingber, MD, katswiri wazamankhwala ogonana.
Kukondoweza kwa dera la G-spot ndiye chinsinsi cha "kugwedeza" chifukwa cha kuyandikira kwa Skene's Glands ndi siponji ya mkodzo. Siponji yotulutsa urethral ndi minyewa yolimba yomwe imamangiriza mtsempha wa mkodzo ndikukhala kuseri kwa mafupa a pubic, pamwamba pomwepo pa mzu wamkati wamkati. Ndicho chimene chimapangitsa kukhala gawo la zovuta za urethral-clitoral. Matenda a Skene amakhala mbali zonse za siponji iyi. Ntchito yawo yachilengedwe imatsutsana, koma amatchedwa "prostate yachikazi" chifukwa ikakondoweza, imadzaza ndi prostate-ngati madzi amchere amchere omwe amaganiziridwa kuti ndi omwe amachititsa kuti akazi azitulutsa umuna (ngakhale kuti maphunziro ndi kafukufuku wochulukirapo akufunika onetsani izi motsimikiza).
A-Malo
Malo a A (anterior fornix) amapezeka kupitirira G-malo pakhoma lomweli la nyini. Kuti mupeze, mufunika kanga ya G-spot, popeza itha kukhala 8-10cm mkati mwa thupi, pafupi ndi khomo pachibelekeropo (Aka kutsegula kotseguka kumapeto kwa ngalande ya abambo, pafupifupi ngati bouncer ya chiberekero chanu). "Dera ili ndi lakuya pang'ono, ndipo lingathenso kulimbikitsidwa ndi chala mu kayendedwe ka mtundu wa 'bwera kuno', modekha kuyika khoma lakunja kwa nyini," akutero a Shweta Pai, MD, mlangizi wa zaumoyo ku Love Wellness.
Mutha kufika pamalo a A panthawi yogonana, koma zingakhale zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito zala kapena chidole popeza zili pang'ono. Ngati mukufuna kuti A-malo azichita nawo zogonana, kalembedwe ka galu ndiye kubetcha kwanu kopambana, chifukwa malowa amalola kulowa mwakuya.
Ngati mumakonda kusewera kumatako, A-spot ndiimodzi mwamagawo omwe amachititsa kuti munthu azisamba nthawi yayitali. Khoma lakumaso ndi nyini zili pafupi kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire, zopatulidwa ndi khungu lochepa chabe. Pakulowa kwambiri kumatako, ngati china chake chikukankhira khoma la khosi, zimatha kuyambitsa kumbuyo kwa clitoris, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale chisangalalo. Sizikudziwika bwino mwasayansibwanji izi ndi; zimangoganiziridwa kuti ndichifukwa chake ma anal orgasms zimachitika. Muthanso kufikira O-spot (akubwera motsatira) kudzera kumatako. M'malo mwake, nyumbazi zonse zili pafupi kwambiri mpaka kugundana. (Yesani kuimenya mu imodzi mwa malo ogonana kumatako.)
The O-Spot
O-malo, omwe nthawi zina amatchedwa C-banga, amapezeka pafupi ndi pa khomo pachibelekeropo, mkatikati mwa ngalande ya abambo. (FTR, kuya kwa nyini kwanu kumasiyanasiyana malinga ndi munthu, koma kafukufuku wina waposachedwa adawonetsa kuti kutalika kwa nyini kuli pafupifupi mainchesi 3.77 (9.6 cm).)
O-malo kwenikweni mwaukadaulo kumbuyo khomo pachibelekeropo, pa khoma lakumbuyo kwa nyini, koma inu simungakhoze kwenikweni kubwerera kumeneko. (Zinthu zokha zomwe zingadutse pachibelekero, kwenikweni, ndimagazi am'magazi, mazira / umuna, ma IUD, makanda, ndi zina zambiri). ndi mathero a mitsempha yothamanga kwambiri, kotero mukayika kukakamiza pa khomo lachiberekero, ikhoza kuchita nawo malo osangalatsa awa. (Helloooo, chiberekero.)
Kuti muchilimbikitse, muyenera kulowa mkati mwa chala, dildo, kapena mbolo. "Ngati muli pa G-Spot, tembenuzirani chala chanu madigiri 180, tsopano moyang'anizana ndi khoma lakumbuyo kwa nyini, ndikupita patsogolo mkati mwa masentimita angapo," akutero Dr. Pai. Akatswiri ena amasankha kusiyanitsa O-banga ndi khomo lachiberekero, koma komwe amakhala ndi oyandikira kwambiri (monga, pamwamba pa wina ndi mnzake) mpaka amapita limodzi. (Ngati lingaliro lodzipangira chala ndi lowopsa kwambiri, werengani izi.)
Monga malo a A, malo a O amatha kuchita nawo masewerawa. "Chifukwa cha malo ake kuseri kwa nyini, [ikhoza] kusonkhezeredwa kupyolera mwa kusewera kumatako komanso kukondoweza kwakuya kwa ukazi komwe kumayang'ana kuseri kwa nyini," akufotokoza motero Jeffcoat.
O-malo ndi omwe amapangitsa kuti kugonana kwachisangalalo kukhale kosangalatsa. Muyenera kusamala ndi thupi lanu chifukwa khomo lachiberekero limakhala losavuta komanso kumangolira mozungulira kumatha kukupweteketsani. Kuphatikiza apo, zimasintha munthawi yanu yonse (nthawi zambiri imakhala yotsika komanso yolimba mukangotha msambo, komanso yokwera komanso yofewa nthawi yozizira), chifukwa chake dziwani momwe mumamvera mukamagonana. Ngati mukumva kuwawa kapena kusapeza bwino, siyani kupuma kapena musunthire pomwe mungalole kulowa kosazama kwambiri. (Zambiri apa: Zifukwa Zomwe Mumamvera Kuwawa Pambuyo Pakugonana)
V-Malo
V-malowa mwina ndi omwe samayankhulidwa kwambiri pamalo otentha kumaliseche. "V" imayimira khonde la nyini, kutsegula kwa nyini, kapena dera lomwe lisanalowe mumtsinjewo, kudutsa kumene labia minora (milomo yamkati). Dera lonseli lili ndi minyewa yambirimbiri, ndipo “azimayi ena, minyewa imamera pafupi kwambiri ndi pamwamba pano,” akutero Dr. Ingber.
Chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri pa V-banga ndi fourchette, yomwe ili kumapeto kwa kutsegula kwa ukazi, kumbuyo (kapena pansi) kotsegulira. Mutha kuyambitsa malowa pogwiritsa ntchito lilime, choseweretsa, kapena zala. Khalani wodekha ndikuwona zomwe zimakusangalatsani.
Chikumbutso: Zosangalatsa Zonse Ndi Zosangalatsa Zabwino
Musaiwale kuti zosangalatsa zonse zimalengedwa mofanana ndipo ngakhale muli nazo ndizodabwitsa. (Zambiri apa: Momwe Mungapangire Kugonana Kwakukulu, Malinga ndi Akatswiri)
"Chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti mkazi aliyense ndi wosiyana kwambiri, ali ndi njira zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa, maonekedwe a thupi, ndi zigawo zosiyana za maganizo," akuwonjezera Dr. Pai. "Ndicho chifukwa chake, poyenda ndikuganizira za momwe mungayankhire pogonana, yang'anani mbali za thupi lanu zomwe zimakusangalatsani."
Kukhala wofufuza ndikudziwitsa thupi lanu ndikwabwino kwambiri, koma sizinthu zonse zomwe zikuyenera kukuthandizani. Khalani ndi chidwi ndikusangalala!
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