Amayi Awa Akutengera Msinkhu Wawo Panjira "Yoposa Kutalika Kwanga"

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Amy Rosenthal ndi Alli Black ndi alongo awiri omwe amamvetsetsa mapanga onse omwe angabwere ndi kukhala mkazi "wamtali". Alli ndi mainchesi 5 mainchesi 10 ndipo wakhala akuvutikira kupeza zovala zapamwamba, zoyenera. Sanathe kugulanso m'masitolo akuluakulu apadera chifukwa zosankhazo zinali nawonso yaitali.

Amy, kumbali inayo, ali ndi zovuta zake. "Ndimachita manyazi ndi 6 mapazi 4 mainchesi, kotero kugula kwakhala kovuta kwa ine," akutero. Maonekedwe. "Kunena zoona, moyo wanga wonse ndikukula unali wodzaza ndi zikumbukiro zowawa zomwe zinandipangitsa kudzidalira kwambiri za kutalika kwanga, monga nthawi ya kusukulu ya pulayimale pamene ndinazindikira kuti ndimayenera kuvala khaki za amuna ku konsati ya gulu langa chifukwa palibe china chomwe chingagwirizane. . Ndinasokonezeka kwambiri m'chipinda chobvala ndipo ndikukumbukira kuti ndinali wosamasuka pakhungu langa."

Zomwe adakumana nazo, komanso pozindikira kuti mafashoni sakusamalira azimayi ataliatali osiyana, zidapangitsa alongo kuti akhazikitse malo awo ogulitsa otchedwa Amalli Talli mu 2014. "Tikukhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti" wamtali "sikuti amangotanthauza ndi kutalika kwake ndipo zimabwera m’maonekedwe, makulidwe, ndi mosiyanasiyana,” akutero Alli. "Chifukwa chake timafuna kugwira ntchito limodzi kuti tithetse kusiyana pakati pamiyeso yayitali yomwe imapezeka m'masitolo ogulitsa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zomwe zimabwera patebulopo ndi malo ogulitsa apadera." (Zokhudzana: Chifukwa Chake Kutsatsa Kwabwino Kwa Thupi Sikuti Nthawi Zonse Kumawonekera)

Pazaka zinayi zapitazi, bizinesi ya Alli ndi Amy yakula bwino, koma pomwe amayesetsa kukhala ophatikizira azimayi ataliatali pankhani yazovala, adakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kuchita zambiri atakumana ndi zochititsa manyazi zamthupi. “Chaka chatha, pamene ndinali kugwira ntchito ku New York, mwamuna wina anafikira ine ndi Amy pa msonkhano wa akatswiri ndi kunena kuti, ‘Kodi ndiwe utali wotani ngati mapazi asanu ndi aŵiri? mokweza mokwanira kuti aliyense amve kwinaku akutiseka, "akutero Alli. "Ndi zomwe adachita kangapo, zomwe zimatipangitsa kumva kukhala osamasuka komanso kuchita manyazi."

Chifukwa chake, alongowo adaganiza zolemba zolemba pamabulogu za zomwe zidachitika patsamba la Amalli Talli kuti afotokoze momwe ngakhale ali omasuka komanso olimba mtima ndi kutalika kwawo, zochitika ngati izi zitha kusokoneza kudzidalira kwanu.

"Pali malingaliro ambiri okhudzana ndi akazi amtali," Amy akutero. "Poyambira, amaganiza kuti ndi mawonekedwe achimuna kwambiri. Anyamata amaleredwa kuti akhale akulu komanso olimba, pomwe atsikana amayenera kukhala okongola komanso ocheperako. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zomwe azimayi azitali amatenga mawonekedwe, kuyang'aniridwa, ndi ndemanga. Kukhala wamtali kwambiri ngati mkazi nthawi zambiri kumalingaliridwa kuti ndi kwachilendo. "

Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, amayi ochokera konsekonse padziko lapansi adayamba kufikira alongo, ndikugawana momwe amakhudzidwira ndi zomwe akumana nazo ndipo akuyembekeza kuti angalankhule zambiri pazinthu zomwe azimayi akutali amakumana nazo. Umu ndi momwe gulu la More Than My Height linayambira.

"Popeza mayankho odabwitsa omwe tidalandira, tidamva ngati ndichinthu chomwe chimafunikira kukhala chinthu chake," akutero Alli. "Azimayi ambiri aatali amavutika kuti adzimve ngati akazi ndipo tinkaona kuti kuyambitsa kayendetsedwe kamene kamawathandiza kumva kuti akuthandizidwa kungawathandize kuthana ndi malingaliro amenewo."

Ngakhale mphuno zazikulu, mafuta akukhwapa, ndi khungu lotayirira zonse zadziwika ngati gawo la kudzikonda, kukankhira kwabwino kwa thupi, Alli ndi Amy adazindikira kuti kutalika sikunakhale ndi malo ake oyenera powonekera. "Pali mabulogu ambiri kunja kuno omwe cholinga chake ndi kutengera mafashoni amtali," akutero Amy. "Koma kunalibe chilichonse kunjaku momwe kutalika kungakhalire gwero lodzidalira kwa amayi komanso momwe anthu ena saganiziranso kawiri asanayankhulepo kapena kuwalongosola, zomwe zitha kuwononga mawonekedwe a thupi."

Alli adawonetseranso izi. "Zinthu zambiri zomwe ndimawerenga pankhani yokhudzana ndi thupi zimayang'ana kwambiri kulemera-zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri ndipo ndichinthu chomwe amayi ambiri amalumikizana nacho - koma kutalika kwanu ndichinthu chomwe simungasinthe," akutero. "Ngakhale utachita chiyani, ukhalabe wamtali. Ndiye kwa azimayi omwe ndi osokonekera chifukwa chokhala wamtali, tinkafuna kupanga malo omwe amawadziwitsa kuti sali okha komanso kuti pali zambiri kwa iwo kuposa kutalika kwawo." Ine)

Pamodzi ndi kupanga gulu lothandizira amayi aatali, Alli ndi Amy akufunanso kuphunzitsa anthu za momwe, monga kulemera, kutalika kwa munthu sizomwe muyenera kuyankhapo. "Ndikofunika kuti tiziphunzira kusamala ndi mawu athu," akutero Amy. "Simungadziwe zomwe wina ali wosatetezeka. Mwa kuwaitana ndi kuwakopa chidwi, mukhoza kuwapangitsa kudzimva kukhala odzidalira kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira kale."

Kumapeto kwa tsikuli, Kuposa Kutalika Kwanga kuli pafupi kuthandiza akazi kuzindikira kuti ali ochuluka kwambiri kuposa zomwe amawona pakalilore. "Ngakhale kuti tikufuna kuthandiza amayi kuti azikumbatira kutalika kwawo komanso kudzidalira, tikufunanso kuwathandiza kuzindikira kuti ali ndi zambiri zoti apereke," akutero Alli. "Pali zinthu zambiri zakuthupi zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala omwe tili, koma ndi maluso omwe muyenera kupereka padziko lapansi omwe amakufotokozerani-ndizo zomwe muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito kuyeza mtengo wanu."

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