Kodi Pali Choonadi Chofanana ndi Chiberekero cha Alfa?

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Mwinamwake mwamvapo kuti ngati mumakhala nthawi yokwanira ndi akazi omwewo, nthawi yanu yakusamba yonse imagwirizana. Ena a ife tingalumbire kuti kutero—ndipo kwenikweni amachita- zimachitika. (Kodi mudagwirapo ntchito muofesi yodzaza akazi? Tili nayo!) Koma kodi pali chiberekero cha alpha chotilamulira zonse zikafika polowa mu kulunzanitsa? (BTW, nazi Zomwe Nthawi Yanu Imatanthauza Padongosolo Lanu Lolimbitsa Thupi.)

Poyamba, lingaliro lonse la nthawi zosinthasintha poyambirira lili ndi umboni wochepa, atero a Rebecca Nelken, MD, OB / GYN ovomerezeka ku board ku Los Angeles. Nelken anati: “Zinayamba mu 1971 pamene wophunzira wa zamaganizo Martha McClintock anazindikira kuti akazi amene ankakhala pamodzi m’chipinda chogona anathera m’mizere yofanana ya kusamba. Kafukufuku, yemwe adasindikizidwa munyuzipepalayi Chilengedwe, makamaka amati ma pheromones amakhudza mahomoni azimayi omwe amachititsa kuti agwirizane. Vuto ndiloti, uku sikunali kuyesa kwachipatala mwachisawawa, "kunali kafukufuku wowonera," akutero Nelken. Kumasulira kwenikweni? Tengani phunziro ili-monga momwe mumayenera kuphunzirira kamodzi kamodzi - ndi mchere wambiri.

Pamwamba pa phunziro ili, alipo okha ziphunzitso chifukwa chake ma pheromones aakazi ali amphamvu kuposa ena (ndipo palibe kafukufuku wotsimikizika wokhudza ma pheromone ambiri, akutero Nelken). Mwachitsanzo, pali ziphunzitso zosonyeza kuti amayi omwe ali ndi chonde ndi omwe amatchedwa atsogoleri oyendetsa njinga, koma Nelken amafulumira kunena kuti palibe kafukufuku pamenepo.

Kulongosola kwina kwodziwika bwino ndikuti azimayi amphamvu kwambiri-akuti, ma-lady-type mtundu wa ma CEO-amabisalira ma pheromones amphamvu kwambiri motero ndi omwe angafanane ndi momwe aliyense azithandizira. "Palibe chomwe chatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi ... ndizovuta kulingalira za mwayi wopulumuka womwe ungapezeke ndi izi," akutero. "Sindingaganizenso za mwayi wobereka mwina." Ndipo popeza palibe mtundu wa kusankha kwa Darwin komwe kumasewera, azachipatala sanafune kupititsa patsogolo chidziwitso chawo pamutuwu, akutero Nelken. (Uh, Chifukwa Chiyani Akazi Akuika Mphika M'ma Vaginas Awo?)

"Potsirizira pake, sitikudziwa ngati pali chinthu china chonga 'chiberekero cha alpha,' chomwe chimayenderana, komanso ngati chikuwonetsa zaumoyo, chonde, kapena mphamvu," akutero Nelken. Chifukwa chake nthawi yotsatira mukazindikira kuti mwalumikizana ndi mnzanu, musaganize mozama za izi. Chabwino ndichakuti mutha kugawaniza bokosi lamatamponi okhometsa msonkho kwambiri. (Zokhudzana: Chifukwa Chiyani Aliyense Amakhala Wotanganidwa Kwambiri ndi Nthawi Pakalipano?)

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