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Asanabereke mwana wake woyamba, Elise Raquel ankaganiza kuti thupi lake libwerera m’mbuyo atangobereka kumene. Tsoka ilo, adaphunzira movutikira kuti sizingakhale choncho. Anapezeka kuti akuyang'anabe masiku apakati atabereka, zomwe zidachitika ndi mimba yake yonse itatu.

Pomwe adakhala ndi mwana wake wachitatu mu Julayi, amayi ku UK adazindikira kuti ndikofunikira kugawana zithunzi za thupi lawo pambuyo pobereka kuti azimayi ena asakakamizike kubwerera ku ASAP (kapena nthawi zonse, za izo). (Zokhudzana: Amayi Awa a IVF Atatu Amagawana Chifukwa Chake Amakonda Thupi Lawo Lomaliza Kubereka)

Maola ochepa atangobereka, adatenga wojambula zithunzi kujambula chithunzi chake ali wovuta kwambiri komanso wovuta kwambiri ndikuziyika pa Instagram. "Ndikumva kwachilendo kuyang'ana pansi ndikuwonabe bampu, ngakhale mutanyamula mwana wanu m'manja, ngakhale mutachita katatu," adalongosola izi. "Sikophweka kupita kunyumba ndi mwana ndikumavala zovala za uchembere. Poyamba, ndidaumirira kuti ndingobwerera m'mbuyo ... Koma mukudziwa, sindinatero, sindinakhalepo. ."

Elise anapitiriza kuwauza otsatira ake kuti "azikondwerera matupi a pambuyo pobereka mu ulemerero wawo wonse." Koma m'miyezi ingapo yapitayi, anthu aona kuti akufunika kuthamangitsa amayi chifukwa chojambula "zaumwini" pagulu. Chifukwa chake, kutsatira, ndikuletsa adani kamodzi, Elise adagawana chithunzi china atatenga pathupi sabata ino kuti afotokoze chifukwa chake kuwona zithunzi zamtunduwu kuli chonchi. kotero zofunika.

Iye anafotokoza kuti pa nthawi yoyamba yomwe anali ndi pakati, palibe amene anamuuza kuti thupi lake silingabwerere m’maonekedwe ake oyambirira. "Sindikudziwa kuti mungaoneke kuti muli ndi pakati ngakhale mutabereka mwana," akutero. “Chotero nditatuluka m’chipatala patatha masiku anayi nditabereka, ndikuyang’anabe ndili ndi pakati pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, ndinaganiza kuti ndinalakwa.” (Zokhudzana: Amayi a CrossFit Revie Jane Schulz Akufuna Kuti Muzikonda Thupi Lanu Lobereka Monga Momwe Lilili)

"Ndidatumiza chithunzi chimenecho chifukwa ndikulakalaka wina atatumiza chithunzi ngati changa ndili ndi pakati," adapitiliza. "Ndikanakonda wina atandiuza zomwe zidzachitike m'thupi langa komanso m'maganizo mwanga. Miyezi yachinayi ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri. Ndikufuna kuti amayi ena omwe akuyenda mu nsapato zanga adziwe kuti sali okha."

Makhalidwe a nkhaniyi? Mayi aliyense ayenera kudziwa kuti thupi lake lidzakhala losiyana akadzakhala ndi mwana. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kuleza mtima pang'ono ndikomwe simungathe kudzipereka mutapirira zovuta zazikulu komanso zokongola monga kubereka. Monga Elise ananenera: "Mulimonse momwe mungakhalire, ulendo [wanu] ukangobadwa kumene, ulibwino, si zachilendo."

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