Chithandizo cha khansa ya mwana wanu chikasiya kugwira ntchito

Nthawi zina ngakhale mankhwala abwino kwambiri samakwanitsa kuletsa khansa. Khansa ya mwana wanu itha kukhala yolimbana ndi mankhwala oletsa khansa. Ikhoza kubwerera kapena kupitilira kukula ngakhale atalandira chithandizo. Iyi ikhoza kukhala nthawi yovuta kwa inu ndi banja lanu mukamapanga zisankho zamankhwala opitilira komanso zomwe zingachitike.

Sizidziwikiratu nthawi zonse kuti asiye mankhwala omwe amaperekedwa ndi khansa.Ngati mankhwala oyamba sanagwire, madokotala nthawi zambiri amayesa njira zingapo. Nthawi zambiri, mwayi wopambana umatsika ndi njira iliyonse yatsopano yothandizira. Othandizira azaumoyo wanu komanso ana angafunike kusankha ngati chithandizo chamankhwala chopitilira khansa ndichofunika pazovuta zomwe zimayambitsa mwana wanu, kuphatikizapo kupweteka komanso kusapeza bwino. Chithandizo cha zotsatirapo komanso zowawa zokhudzana ndi khansa ndi zovuta zake sizimatha.

Ngati mankhwala sakugwiranso ntchito kapena mwaganiza zosiya kumwa mankhwala, chidwi cha chisamaliro chidzasintha kuchokera kuchipatala cha khansa kuti muwonetsetse kuti mwana wanu ali bwino.

Ngakhale palibe chiyembekezo kuti khansayo ithe, mankhwala ena amatha kupangitsa zotupa kukula ndikuchepetsa ululu. Gulu losamalira azaumoyo la mwana wanu limatha kuyankhula nanu zamankhwala kuti muchepetse kupweteka kosafunikira.

Ngati simunatero kale, muyenera kupanga zisankho zokhudzana ndi kutha kwa moyo wa mwana wanu. Ndizovuta kwambiri kuzilingalira, koma kusamalira nkhanizi kungakuthandizeni kuti muziyang'ana pakupanga zabwino pamoyo wamwana wanu. Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira zikuphatikizapo:

• Ndi mitundu iti yamankhwala yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito kuthandiza mwana wanu kukhala womasuka.
• Kaya mulibe kapena ayi musabwezeretse dongosolo.
• Komwe mukufuna kuti mwana wanu azikhala masiku ake omaliza. Mabanja ena amakhala bwino kuchipatala komwe dokotala amakhala pomwepo. Mabanja ena amamva bwino akakhala kunyumba. Banja lililonse liyenera kupanga chisankho choyenera.
• Zomwe muyenera kuphatikizira mwana wanu pakupanga zisankho.

Chitha kukhala chinthu chovuta kwambiri kuchita, koma kusintha chidwi chanu pochiza khansa kuteteza mwana wanu kuzithandizo zomwe sizingathandize kungakhale chinthu chabwino kwambiri kwa mwana wanu. Mutha kumvetsetsa zomwe mwana wanu akukumana nazo, ndi zomwe mwana wanu amafunikira kuchokera kwa inu, ngati mukuzindikira zenizeni zomwe zikuchitika.

Simusowa kuti muzidziwe nokha. Zipatala ndi mabungwe ambiri ali ndi ntchito zothandiza ana ndi makolo kuthana ndi mavuto omaliza a moyo.

Nthawi zambiri ana amadziwa zambiri kuposa makolo awo. Amayang'ana machitidwe a akulu ndikumvetsera zomwe akunena. Ngati mumapewa maphunziro ovuta, mungauze mwana wanu kuti mitu yankhondoyi ilibe malire. Mwana wanu angafune kulankhula, koma osafuna kukukhumudwitsani.

Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti musamukakamize mwana wanu kuti azilankhula ngati sanakonzekere.

Khalidwe la mwana wanu limatha kukupatsani mayankho. Ngati mwana wanu amafunsa mafunso okhudza imfa, chikhoza kukhala chizindikiro choti akufuna kuyankhula. Ngati mwana wanu asintha mutu kapena akufuna kusewera, mwina mwana wanu anali ndi zokwanira pakadali pano.

• Ngati mwana wanu ndi wamng'ono, ganizirani zogwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa kapena zaluso polankhula zaimfa. Mutha kukambirana zomwe zimachitika ngati chidole chimadwala, kapena mungalankhule za buku lonena za nyama yomwe imafa.
• Funsani mafunso omasuka omwe amapatsa mwana wanu mwayi wolankhula. "Mukuganiza kuti zidagwera chiyani agogo atamwalira?"
• Gwiritsani ntchito mawu achindunji omwe mwana wanu angamvetse. Mawu monga "kufa" kapena "kugona" angangosokoneza mwana wanu.
• Muuzeni mwana wanu kuti akamwalira sadzakhala okha.
• Uzani mwana wanu kuti ululu udzatha akadzamwalira.

Mulingo wamphamvu wa mwana wanu udzagwira ntchito yayikulu momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito milungu kapena miyezi yotsatira. Ngati ndi kotheka, pitirizani kuchita zinthu zothandiza mwana wanu.

• Khalani ndi zizolowezi monga chakudya cham'banja, ntchito zapakhomo, komanso nkhani zogona.
• Lolani mwana wanu akhale mwana. Izi zitha kutanthauza kuwonera TV, kusewera masewera, kapena kutumizirana mameseji.
• Limbikitsani mwana wanu kuti apitirize sukulu ngati kuli kotheka.
• Thandizani nthawi ya mwana wanu ndi anzanu. Kaya ndinu pamaso, pafoni, kapena pa intaneti, mwana wanu angafune kulumikizana ndi ena.
• Thandizani mwana wanu kukhala ndi zolinga. Mwana wanu angafune kuyenda kapena kuphunzira china chatsopano. Zolinga za mwana wanu zidzadalira zofuna zawo.

Zachisoni momwe ziliri, pali njira zomwe mungathandizire mwana wanu kukonzekera kufa. Lolani mwana wanu adziwe zomwe zingasinthe mthupi. Dokotala wa mwana wanu akhoza kukuthandizani ndi izi. Ngakhale kuli bwino kusaphatikizapo zinthu zowopsa, kudziwa zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera kungathandize mwana wanu kuti asamakhale ndi nkhawa zambiri.

• Pangani kukumbukira banja. Mutha kudutsa pazithunzi ndikupanga tsamba la webusayiti kapena lazithunzi limodzi.
• Thandizani mwana wanu kutsanzikana ndi anthu apadera pamasom'pamaso kapena kudzera m'makalata.
• Lolani mwana wanu adziwe momwe adzasiyire kumbuyo. Kaya anali kukhala mwana wamwamuna wabwino ndi mchimwene wanu, kapena kuthandiza anthu ena, uzani mwana wanu momwe apangitsira dziko kukhala malo abwinoko.
• Lonjezani kuti mudzakhala bwino mwana wanu akamwalira ndikusamalira anthu ndi nyama zomwe mwana wanu amakonda.

Kutha kwa chisamaliro cha moyo - ana; Kusamalira odwala - ana; Kupanga chisamaliro chamtsogolo - ana

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