Kusankha Kwanga Kopeza Mphuno Ntchito Kunali Kuposa Zongowoneka

Zamkati

• Malangizo anga pankhani ya opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa
• 1. Sinthani zoyembekezera zanu
• 2. Palibe chinthu chotchedwa 'changwiro'
• 3. Chitani kafukufuku wanu
• 4. Dzipatseni nthawi kuti musinthe
• 5. Perekani zotsatira zanu nthawi

Momwe ndikukumbukira, ndadana ndi mphuno zanga. Ananyoza izo.

Kusatetezeka kwanga konse komanso thupi langa lodzidalira lidalumikizidwa mwanjira ina ndi chotumphukira chapakati pankhope panga. Izo sizinkagwirizane ndi nkhope yanga, zinakuta mbali zanga zina. Ndinkamva ngati ndikamalowa mchipinda, mphuno yanga inali chinthu choyamba chomwe anthu amazindikira za ine.

Ndidayesetsa kwambiri kuvomereza mphuno yanga ngati gawo langa. Ndimamva nthabwala za izi. Koma sindikanatha kudziletsa koma kumva kuti moyo wanga ukadakhala wosiyana kwambiri ndikadapanda kukhala ndi nkhope imodzi iyi yomwe idalanda. Ndimapita kutchuthi ndi anzanga komanso abale ndikukhala ndi nthawi yabwino - koma kuwona zithunzi kuchokera paulendo womwe udandigwira ndikundigwetsa misozi.

Ndiye pofika zaka 21, ndinali nditakwana. Koma ndinadzichotsanso ndekha kuti opaleshoni sinali yofunika. Zachidziwikire kuti izi ndizomwe anthu otchuka okha kapena anthu olemera okha ndi omwe adachita? Zinayenera kusokonekera pamunthu "wabwinobwino", sichoncho? Komabe, sindinathe kuthandiza ngakhale kuyang'anamo. Ndipo pamapeto pake, ndidakhala gawo lalikulu la chaka changa chachiwiri ku yunivesite ndikulandila ndalama kuchokera kwa ochita opaleshoni achinsinsi ochokera padziko lonse lapansi. Koma onse adabwereranso ndalama zoposa $ 9,000, zomwe bajeti yanga ya ophunzira sinathe. Ndipo sindinkafuna kuchita nawo malonda pamene chinali china pamaso panga chomwe ndimayenera kukhala nacho kwamuyaya.

Koma tsiku lina madzulo, zonse zinasintha.

Ndinawona positi kuchokera kwa bwenzi langa la blogger yemwe anali atachita kale rhinoplasty ndi chipatala cha London chochita zodzikongoletsera, Transform. Zotsatira zake zimawoneka mwachilengedwe kwambiri ndipo panali njira zingapo zandalama zomwe zingapezeke. Ndidasungitsa nthawi yokumana.

Patatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, sabata limodzi nditamaliza mayeso anga, ndinali kuchitidwa opaleshoni.

Kuyenda ndekha kupita ku gome logwirira ntchito ndikudziwa kuti ndikadzuka ndi mphuno yosiyana ndi zomwe zidachitika pa surreal. Kuda nkhawa, kuyembekezera, chisangalalo.

Kodi ndiziwoneka ngati munthu wina?

Kodi pali amene angazindikire?

Kodi ndidzakhala ine?

Kodi chilichonse chidzasintha?

Chabwino, kwenikweni - zonse zasintha. M'mwezi woyamba nditachita izi, ndinadzidalira kuti ndiyesere kupanga zodzoladzola, ndipo ndidapeza mwayi waukulu pantchito! Ndinameta tsitsi langa koyamba m'zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi. (Ndikufuna ndikamakula motalikirapo kuti ndisokoneze chidwi cha m'mphuno mwanga.) Ndipo, nditakumana ndi kutha kwa banja, ndinayesanso chibwenzi. Kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndinapeza mpata wocheza ndi wina yemwe sindinakumanepo naye - poyamba, ndimangopita kukacheza ndi anthu omwe ndakumana nawo kudzera mwa anzawo.

Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, sindingakhulupirire kuti ndili ndi moyo wosiyana bwanji ndi kudzidalira kwanga komwe ndidalumikiza pamphuno mwanga. Pambuyo pa opaleshoniyi, chidaliro changa chinawonjezeka. Ndimamva ngati ndikhoza kudziponya pantchito yomwe ndimafuna kuthamangitsa, osandibweza kumbuyo chifukwa cha manyazi omwe ndinali nawo pamphuno.

Ndimamva ngati kuti ndikumakhala ndi nkhope yomwe ndimayenera kukhala nayo nthawi zonse, ndizinthu zanga zonse zikugwira ntchito wina ndi mnzake m'malo mongodzetsa zina zonse.

Ndinali womasuka ku chikoka changa chobisa chidaliro. Osabisanso kumbuyo kwake.

Malangizo anga pankhani ya opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa

Kuchita zodzikongoletsera mwachiwonekere ndi chisankho chachikulu komanso chimodzi chomwe sichiyenera kutengedwa mopepuka. Mukusintha thupi lanu - kwamuyaya. Ndipo zotsatira zake sizongokhala zakuthupi, ndizotengeka, nazonso. Ngati mukuganiza za mtundu uliwonse wa opareshoni nokha, ndikukupemphani kuti muwerenge izi poyamba:

1. Sinthani zoyembekezera zanu

Ndikuganiza kuti chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pakuchitidwa opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa ndikuwongolera zomwe mukuyembekezera, chifukwa ndipamene opareshoni imatha kusokonekera. Chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndimayamikira kwambiri za dokotalayo chinali chakuti ananditsimikizira kuti masomphenya ake ofunika ndikuonetsetsa kuti mphuno yanga ikugwirizana ndi nkhope yanga. Ndizowopsa kulowa ndikufunsa "mphuno ya Angelina Jolie," mwachitsanzo, kapena kuyembekezera kutsanzira wina. Kuchita maopareshoni ndikungowonjezera zomwe muli nazo kale, osakupatsirani zatsopano. Mwa mawonekedwe achilengedwe kwambiri, mukufuna china chake chomwe chikugwirizana ndi zina zanu ndikugwira nawo ntchito mogwirizana - kotero dokotala wanu azipanganso cholinga chawo.

2. Palibe chinthu chotchedwa 'changwiro'

Kulimbikira ungwiro ndi vuto lina lofala pankhani ya opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa, ndipo ndizoopsa. Chifukwa, kunena zowona, ungwiro kulibe. Ngati mukuyesetsa kuti mukhale ndi "mphuno yangwiro" mwatsoka mudzakhala mukudzikhumudwitsa. Konzekerani mphuno (kapena mawonekedwe) omwe amagwira ntchito mogwirizana ndi nonse. Kumbukirani, sizokhudza kutsanzira wina aliyense - ndi za INU!

3. Chitani kafukufuku wanu

Sindingathe kutsindika izi mokwanira. Kuti muzitsimikizika kuti muli m'manja abwino ndipo mupeza zotsatira zachilengedwe zomwe mukufuna, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti mwachita kafukufuku wambiri. Malangizo anu amathandiza nthawi zonse, chifukwa mutha kudziwonera nokha pazomwe mukukhala, kupuma, kuyenda, ndikulankhula. Ndipo ngati sizotheka, Google. Ochita opaleshoni ambiri amakhala ndi ndemanga pa intaneti ndi zithunzi zisanachitike komanso zitatha, ndipo ngati simungazipeze, onetsetsani kuti mwafunsa wothandizira dokotalayo. Musaope kufunsa mafunso ndipo musamakakamizike kuthamangira pachinthu chilichonse. Kumbukirani, ili ndi lingaliro lalikulu ndipo liyenera kumverera bwino kwa inu. Ndidadikirira zaka 10 ndisanapite ku opareshoni yanga, zomwe zidandipatsa nthawi yambiri yoganizira ngati ndichinthu chomwe ndimafunitsitsadi.

4. Dzipatseni nthawi kuti musinthe

Nayi uphungu wina wofunikira kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa imangosankha, mutha kukhala mukumva kuwawa kwambiri, ndipo mutha kukhala ndi zotupa ndi mabala. Ndinadzipatsa tchuthi milungu iwiri ndisanabwerere ku ntchito zanga zanthawi zonse, ndipo iyi inali nthawi yokwanira kuti ndiyambirenso kumvanso anthu.

5. Perekani zotsatira zanu nthawi

Zimatengera nthawi kuti muchiritse bwino. Ngakhale zotsatira za opaleshoni yodzikongoletsa zimachitika nthawi yomweyo, kutupa ndi mabala zimatha kubisa zotsatira zomaliza. Mwachitsanzo, njira ya rhinoplasty imakhala ndi zotupa zambiri ndikutundumuka nayo (makamaka ngati mukuthyoka mphuno kuti mukonze septum yopatuka, monga momwe ndinaliri). Pomwe kutupa kwakukulu kunatsika ndi mwezi umodzi, ndinganene kuti panali miyezi isanu ndi umodzi pambuyo pake ndisanayambe kuwona zotsatira zomaliza zomwe ndili nazo tsopano. Kutupa kotsalira kumatha kupitilirabe mpaka kumapeto kwa miyezi 18, chifukwa chake khalani oleza mtima!

Mphuno yanga yatsopano ndiyabwino kwa ine, ndipo idandipatsa chidaliro chokhala ndekha. Kwa zaka zambiri ndakhala ndikuganiza za momwe ndimawonekera momwe ndimaonera kuti zikundibweza. Ndinafufuza za momwe ndingachitire zinthu ndipo ndinkaganizira mbali iliyonse ya moyo wanga. Kuchita opaleshoni yosintha thupi sichinthu chomwe aliyense ayenera kungodumphira, ndipo ndine wokondwa kuti ndidatenga nthawi kuti ndilingalire za ine ndekha.

Chifukwa mphuno - kapena chinthu chilichonse - sichinthu china chomwe chimamangiriridwa ndi thupi lanu lonse. Ndi gawo lanu.

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