Kufunika Kwachikhalidwe cha Khansa ya M'mawere

Nditapezeka kuti ndili ndi khansa ya m'mawere ya siteji 2A HER2 mu 2009, ndinapita pakompyuta yanga kukadziphunzitsa za vutoli.

Nditamva kuti matendawa ndi ochiritsika, mafunso anga ofufuzira adasintha kuchoka ndikudzifunsa ngati ndipulumuke, ndi momwe ndingachiritse matendawa.

Ndinayambanso kudabwa ngati:

• Zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti achire kuchipatala?
• Kodi mastectomy imawoneka bwanji?
• Kodi ndingathe kugwira ntchito kwinaku ndikumalandira chemotherapy?

Ma blogs ndi ma intaneti anali othandiza kwambiri poyankha mafunso awa. Blog yanga yoyamba yomwe ndidapeza idalembedwa ndi mayi yemwe ali ndi matenda omwewo. Ndinawerenga mawu ake kuyambira koyambirira mpaka kumapeto. Ndidamuwona kukhala wokongola kwambiri. Zinandichititsa mantha nditazindikira kuti khansa yake inali itasunthika ndipo anali atamwalira. Mwamuna wake adalemba zolemba pa blog yake ndi mawu ake omaliza.

Nditayamba kulandira chithandizo, ndidayamba blog yanga yanga - {textend} Koma Doctor, Ndimadana ndi Pinki!

Ndinkafuna kuti blog yanga ikhale ngati chiyembekezo cha amayi omwe adandipeza. Ndinkafuna kuti zikhale zokhudzana ndi kupulumuka. Ndinayamba kulemba zonse zomwe ndidakumana nazo - {textend} pogwiritsa ntchito tsatanetsatane komanso nthabwala momwe ndingathere. Ndinkafuna kuti azimayi ena adziwe kuti ngati ndingakwanitse, nawonso akhoza kutero.

Mwanjira ina, mawu amafalikira mwachangu za blog yanga. Thandizo lomwe ndimalandira pogawana nkhani yanga pa intaneti linali lofunika kwambiri kwa ine. Mpaka pano, ndimawakonda anthuwa.

Ndinapezanso chithandizo kuchokera kwa azimayi ena pa breastcancer.org. Amayi ambiri m'derali alinso gawo la gulu langa la Facebook nawonso.

Pali azimayi ambiri omwe ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere omwe akhala ndi moyo wautali, wathanzi.

Pezani ena omwe akukumana ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo. Matendawa amatha kugwira mwamphamvu momwe mukumvera. Kulumikizana ndi azimayi ena omwe adagawana zomwe zakuchitikirani kungakuthandizeni kusiya mantha ndikusungulumwa ndikupitilira moyo wanu.

Mu 2011, miyezi isanu yokha nditachira khansa, ndidamva kuti khansa yanga yayamba kufalikira pachiwindi. Ndipo pambuyo pake, mapapu anga.

Mwadzidzidzi, blog yanga idachoka pakukhala nkhani yokhudza kupulumuka kwa khansa 2, ndikuphunzira za kukhala ndi matenda osachiritsika. Tsopano, ndinali m'gulu lina - {textend} gulu lachigawo.

Thandizo lapaintaneti lomwe ndimalandira kuchokera kudera latsopanoli limatanthauza kuti dziko lapansi likhala kwa ine. Amayi awa sanali anzanga chabe, koma alangizi anga. Anandithandiza kuyenda m'dziko latsopano lomwe ndidaponyedwamo. Dziko lodzala ndi chemo komanso kusatsimikizika. Dziko losadziwa ngati khansara inganditenge.

Anzanga awiri, Sandy ndi Vickie, adandiphunzitsa kukhala ndi moyo mpaka pano. Onse adutsa tsopano.

Sandy adakhala zaka 9 ndi khansa. Anali ngwazi yanga. Timalankhula pa intaneti tsiku lonse tikumadwala matenda athu komanso momwe timamvera chisoni kusiya abale athu. Tilankhulanso za ana athu - {textend} ana ake ndi ofanana ndi anga.

Vicki analinso mayi, ngakhale ana ake anali aang'ono kuposa anga. Anangokhala zaka zinayi ndi matenda ake, koma zidakhudza mdera lathu. Mzimu wake wosagonjetseka ndi mphamvu zake zidawoneka bwino. Sadzaiwalika.

Gulu la azimayi omwe ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere ndi yayikulu komanso yogwira. Amayi ambiri amalimbikitsa matendawa, monga ine.

Kudzera mu blog yanga, ndimatha kuwonetsa azimayi ena kuti mutha kukhala ndi moyo wabwino ngakhale mutakhala ndi khansa ya m'mawere. Ndakhala ndikudwala matendawa kwa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndakhala ndikumwa mankhwala a IV kwazaka zisanu ndi zinayi. Ndakhala ndikukhululukidwa kwa zaka ziwiri tsopano, ndipo sikani yanga yomaliza sinasonyeze chilichonse chokhudzana ndi matendawa.

Pali nthawi zina ndimatopa ndi chithandizo, ndipo sindimva bwino, komabe ndimatumiza patsamba langa la Facebook kapena blog. Ndimachita izi chifukwa ndikufuna kuti amayi awone kuti kukhala ndi moyo wautali ndikotheka. Chifukwa chakuti muli ndi matendawa, sizikutanthauza kuti imfa ili pafupi.

Ndikufunanso azimayi adziwe kuti kukhala ndi khansa ya m'mawere kumatanthauza kuti mudzalandira chithandizo cha moyo wanu wonse. Ndimawoneka wathanzi komanso tsitsi langa lonse, koma ndikufunikirabe kulandira infusions pafupipafupi kuti ndithandizire kuti khansa isabwerere.

Ngakhale madera omwe ali pa intaneti ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi ena, nthawi zonse ndibwino kukumananso panokha. Kulankhula ndi Susan kunali dalitso. Tinali ndi mgwirizano wapamtima. Tonse timakhala tikudziwa kuti moyo ndi wamtengo wapatali komanso kuti zinthu zazing'ono ndizofunika bwanji. Ngakhale pamwamba tingawoneke mosiyana, pansi pazomwe tikufanana ndizodabwitsa. Nthawi zonse ndimayamikira kulumikizana kwathu, komanso ubale womwe ndili nawo ndi azimayi ena onse odabwitsa omwe ndawadziwa ndi matendawa.

Musatenge mopepuka zomwe muli nazo tsopano. Ndipo, musaganize kuti muyenera kudutsa ulendowu nokha. Simuyenera kutero. Kaya mumakhala mumzinda kapena m'tawuni yaing'ono, pali malo omwe mungapeze chithandizo.

Tsiku lina mudzakhala ndi mwayi wotsogolera munthu yemwe wapezeka kumene - {textend} ndipo mudzawathandiza popanda funso. Ndife, indedi, ubale weniweni.