Momwe Mungapemphe Thandizo Mukatha Kuzindikira Khansa Ya m'mawere

Zamkati

• Siyani zolakwa
• Sankhani zinthu zofunika kwambiri
• Onetsetsani gulu lanu lothandizira
• Gwirizanitsani munthuyo ndi ntchitoyo
• Lankhulani zenizeni za zomwe mukufuna
• Perekani malangizo
• Osatulutsa thukuta tating'ono
• Konzani zopempha zanu zothandizira pa intaneti

Ngati mukukhala ndi khansa ya m'mawere, mukudziwa kuti kutsatira chithandizo ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse. M'mbuyomu, mwina mumatha kusamalira banja lanu, kugwira ntchito maola ambiri, komanso kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza. Koma ndi khansa ya m'mawere, muyenera kusintha zina ndi zina. Mukayesetsa kuchita chilichonse panokha, zitha kukulitsa nkhawa komanso kusokoneza kuchira. Njira yanu yabwino kwambiri? Funsani thandizo!

Kupempha thandizo kungakupangitseni kudzimva kukhala osakwanira komanso kudalira kwambiri, koma zosiyana ndizowona. Ngati mutha kupempha thandizo, zikutanthauza kuti mumazindikira nokha ndipo mumazindikira zofooka zanu. Mukazindikira kuti mukufuna thandizo, nayi malangizo ena amomwe mungapezere thandizo.

Siyani zolakwa

Kupempha thandizo sikulephera kwa khalidwe kapena chizindikiro chakuti simukuchita zonse zomwe mungathe. Poterepa, zikutanthauza kuti mumavomereza momwe zinthu zilili. Anzanu ambiri ndi okondedwa anu mwina akufuna kukuthandizani koma sakudziwa momwe angachitire. Angachite mantha kukukhumudwitsani pooneka ngati akukakamira. Kuwafunsa kuti athandizidwe kumatha kuwapatsa chidwi komanso kukuthandizani.

Sankhani zinthu zofunika kwambiri

Sankhani kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zikufunika komanso ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zingagwere m'gulu la "zabwino". Pemphani kuti muthandizidwe ndi zoyambirirazo ndipo ikani omaliza pa ayezi.

Onetsetsani gulu lanu lothandizira

Lembani mndandanda wa aliyense amene wadzipereka kuti akuthandizeni, pamodzi ndi onse omwe mwawapempha kuti awathandize. Izi zimatsimikizira kuti simukudalira kwambiri anthu ochepa pomwe mukulephera kuphatikiza ena.

Gwirizanitsani munthuyo ndi ntchitoyo

Ngati kuli kotheka, funsani anthu kuti athandize ndi ntchito zomwe zikugwirizana ndi kuthekera kwawo, zokonda zawo, komanso dongosolo lawo. Simungayembekezere mnzanu kuphonya ntchito mobwerezabwereza kuyendetsa ana anu popita ndi kuchokera kusukulu. Mchimwene wanu wazaka 20 akhoza kukhala tsoka pakudya chakudya koma atha kukhala woyenera kuyenda ndi agalu ndikunyamula zomwe mwalandira.

Lankhulani zenizeni za zomwe mukufuna

Ngakhale bwenzi lofunidwa kwambiri atha kupereka thandizo losamveka bwino ndikulephera kutsatira. Musaganize kuti zoperekazo zinali zachinyengo. Nthawi zambiri, samadziwa zomwe mukufuna kapena momwe mungaperekere. Mwina akuyembekezera pempho lapadera kuchokera kwa inu.

Ngati wina afunsa zomwe angachite kuti amuthandize, muuzeni! Khalani achindunji momwe mungathere. Mwachitsanzo, “Kodi mungatengeko Lauren kalasi ya ballet Lachiwiri ndi Lachinayi nthawi ya 4:30 masana?” Mwinanso mungafune kuthandizidwa pamalingaliro kapena mwakuthupi m'masiku amankhwala. Afunseni ngati angalolere kugona nanu masiku achipatala.

Perekani malangizo

Ngati mnzanu wapamtima akufuna kusamalira ana madzulo awiri pa sabata, musaganize kuti akudziwa momwe zinthu zimagwirira ntchito kunyumba kwanu. Adziwitseni kuti ana amadya chakudya chamadzulo cha 7 koloko masana. ndipo ali pabedi pofika 9 koloko masana Kupereka malangizo omveka bwino komanso omveka bwino kumachepetsa nkhawa zawo ndikupewa kulumikizana molakwika kapena chisokonezo.

Osatulutsa thukuta tating'ono

Mwina si momwe mungapangire kuchapa kapena kuphika chakudya chamadzulo, koma zikuchitikabe. Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti mupeze thandizo lomwe mukufuna komanso kuti gulu lanu lothandizira limadziwa momwe mumayamikirira.

Konzani zopempha zanu zothandizira pa intaneti

Kupanga tsamba lachinsinsi, lapaintaneti kuti mukonzekere abwenzi, abale, ndi anzanu kumachepetsa zovuta zina zopempha thandizo mwachindunji. Mawebusayiti ena othandizira khansa monga CaringBridge.org zimapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kuyang'anira zochitika ndikuwongolera odzipereka. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito tsambalo kutumiza zopempha zakudya kwa banja lanu, kukwera kwanu kupita kukaonana ndi azachipatala, kapena kuchezeredwa ndi bwenzi.

Lotsa Kuthandiza Manja ali ndi kalendala yogawira zoperekera zakudya komanso kuyendetsa okwera pamaulendo. Tsambali litumiziranso zikumbutso ndikuthandizira kulumikizana ndi zinthu momwe zingakhalire popanda chomwe chimagwera m'ming'alu.

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