Chifukwa Chomwe Ndikusankhira Tsitsi Langa Lachilengedwe Kuposa Mikhalidwe Yokongola Ya Sosaiti

Zamkati

• Lingaliro loti tsitsi langa ndi "losafunika" linali chikhulupiriro chomwe ndidakulira nacho
• Kukula "pamwamba" kumangobweretsa mwayi wambiri wosatetezeka komanso kupweteka
• Kupinda kukongola si ululu. Ndi gehena.

Pondiuza kuti tsitsi langa linali "lofanana ndi pube," amayesetsanso kunena kuti tsitsi langa lachilengedwe siliyenera kukhalapo.

Thanzi ndi thanzi zimakhudza aliyense wa ife mosiyanasiyana. Iyi ndi nkhani ya munthu m'modzi.

"Ndikudwala kwambiri kuwona zithunzi za tsitsi lanu lofanana ndi pube komanso lipstick ya milomo."

Kuchokera mu uthenga wachidule wosadziwika womwe umandinena kuti ndine "woipa" wachikazi komanso mtolankhani, anali malongosoledwe apaderadera omwe adandiyang'ana.

Uthengawu udayenera kukhala wankhanza mwadala komanso wachindunji.

Pamagulu, malo osindikizira ndi osafunikira komanso osafunika. Monga azimayi timakumana ndi nkhani - kuyambira zolemba m'magazini mpaka zotsatsa - kuti tsitsi lathu lakumaliseche ndichinthu choyenera kuchotsedwa.

(Ingoyang'anani ziwerengerozo: Mwa azimayi 3,316, 85% adachotsa tsitsi lawo panjira ina. Pomwe 59% adati adachotsa tsitsi lawo pachibwenzi chifukwa chaukhondo, 31.5% adati adachotsa tsitsi lawo chifukwa "linali losangalatsa" ).

Chifukwa chake ponena kuti tsitsi langa linali ngati la pubic, anali kutanthauza kuti tsitsi langa nalonso linali lonyansa kuyang'ana - kuti ndikachite manyazi ndi chilengedwe chake.

Monga momwe azimayi ambiri omwe ali ndi mawonekedwe azama media akudziwa, makamaka kwa ife omwe tili pama media, kuponderezedwa sizatsopano. Ndakumanadi ndi chidani changa.

Nthawi zambiri, ndimatha kuseka ngati malodza a munthu watsoka.

Koma ndili omasuka ndi ma curls anga pa 32, udali ulendo wautali wofika pamlingo wovomerezedwa ndiwanthu.

Lingaliro loti tsitsi langa ndi "losafunika" linali chikhulupiriro chomwe ndidakulira nacho

Kukumbukira kwanga koyambirira kwa tsitsi langa nthawi zambiri kumaphatikizapo kusasangalala kwakuthupi kapena kwamaganizidwe amtundu wina.

Mnzanga wam'kalasi yemwe adandifunsa ngati tsitsi langa kumusi uko inafanana ndi zomwe zinali pamutu panga. Wosamalira tsitsi yemwe amandinyoza, nditakhala pampando wa salon, chifukwa chonyalanyaza kumbuyo kwa mutu wanga pamene amadula zidutswa zomwe zidasandulika mantha.

Anthu ambiri osawadziwa - nthawi zambiri azimayi - omwe amadzimva kukhala oyenera kukhudza tsitsi langa chifukwa "amangofuna kuwona ngati lilidi."

Ndipo nthawi yomwe anzanga akusukulu adalowetsamo zinthu zosasintha m'mene ndimakhala mkalasi.

Ngakhale abale anga adandiumiriza kuti ndiphunzira kuyamikira zomwe majini adandidalitsa nazo, padali kusiyana kosadziwika pakati pa ine ndi azimayi am'banja mwathu.

Pomwe bambo anga ndi ine timagawana zofananira zofananira, mayi aliyense m'banja mwathu ankasewera maloko amdima, amiyala yaku Eastern Europe. Ngakhale zithunzi zam'banja zimawunikira zakusiyana pakati pa ine ndi abale anga achikazi, ndikumvetsetsa kwawo momwe angasamalire tsitsi longa langa lomwe lidapangitsa kuti pakhale kusiyana.

Ndipo kotero ndidatsala pang'ono kapena pang'ono kuti ndilingalire ndekha.

Zotsatira zake nthawi zambiri zimakhala zokhumudwitsa komanso misozi. Tsitsi langa linathandizanso kukulitsa nkhawa zanga zokhudzana ndi thupi, zomwe zimangowonjezereka ndikamakula.

Komabe ndikuyang'ana mmbuyo, sizodabwitsa konse momwe tsitsi langa lidakhudzira moyo wanga wamaganizidwe.

Kafukufuku wasonyeza mobwerezabwereza kuti mawonekedwe amthupi ndi thanzi lamaganizidwe amalumikizidwa. Ndipo ndinayesetsa kwambiri kuti tsitsi langa lisazindikiridwe, kuti ndiyesere kuthana ndi ma hangout anga amthupi.

Ndinakhuthula mabotolo ndi mabotolo a Dep gel kuti ma curls anga azikhala otambalala momwe angathere. Zithunzi zanga zambiri kuyambira kumapeto kwa sekondale zimawoneka ngati ndangotuluka kumene kusamba.

Nthawi iliyonse ndikavala ponyera, ndinkatsetsereka bwino tsitsi la ana lomwe linali m'mphepete mwa khungu langa. Nthawi zambiri amatha kubwereranso kuti apange mzere wazokokosera.

Panali ngakhale mphindi imodzi yosimidwa pomwe ndinatembenukira ku chitsulo cha kholo la mnzanga ndikukonzekera theka. Fungo la tsitsi loyaka likundivutitsabe mpaka pano.

Kukula "pamwamba" kumangobweretsa mwayi wambiri wosatetezeka komanso kupweteka

Nditayamba chibwenzi, mchitidwewu udatsegula zovuta zatsopano zamthupi.

Chifukwa ndimakonda kuyembekezera zoyipa kwambiri, ndidakhala zaka zambiri ndikuyesa zovuta zosiyanasiyana, zowononga, komanso zomveka zomwe zitha kuchitika - zambiri zomwe zimalumikizidwa ndi tsitsi langa.

Tonse tawerenga zolemba zambiri za anthu kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi mnzawoyo - munthu m'modzi yemwe, mwamaganizidwe, akuyenera kuti amakukondani, chifukwa cha inu.

M'zaka zanga zophunzitsira, nthawi yokomera anthu isanachitike komanso zisanachitike, nkhanizi zinagawidwa pakati pa abwenzi ngati malangizo amomwe tingachitire ndi kuvomerezedwa. Ndipo ndinali kuwadziwa kwambiri, omwe sanathandize ndi nkhawa zanga.

Sindingathe kudziletsa ndekha poganiza kuti mnzanga ali ndi zomwezo pakuwona tsitsi langa lopanda ulemu, losalamulirika, chinthu choyamba m'mawa mtundu woyamba.

Ndinaganiza malo pomwe ndimafunsa winawake, koma kuti andisekere pankhope yanga chifukwa… ndani angakhale pachibwenzi ndi mayi yemwe amawoneka ngati ine? Kapena chochitika china, pomwe mnyamatayo adayesa kuseweretsa zala zake kupyola tsitsi langa, kuti azingowiringika m'mizere yanga, amasewera ngati sewero lanthabwala.

Lingaliro lakuweruzidwa motere linandiopsa. Ngakhale izi sizinandilepheretse kukhala pachibwenzi, zidachita gawo lalikulu pakukulitsa momwe ndinkakhalira wosatetezeka m'thupi langa ndili pachibwenzi chachikulu.

Kuyamba kugwira ntchito kunandithandizanso kukhala ndi nkhawa zambiri. Masitaelo okhawo omwe ndidawona omwe amadziwika kuti ndi "akatswiri" samawoneka ngati omwe tsitsi langa limatha kutengera.

Ndinkada nkhawa kuti tsitsi langa lachilengedwe lingaoneke ngati losayenera m'malo aukadaulo.

Mpaka pano, izi sizinachitike konse - koma ndikudziwa kuti mwina ndi mwayi wanga ngati mzungu.

(Ndikudziwanso kuti anthu ambiri amitundu yosiyanasiyana amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zosiyana kwambiri ndipo amakhala otero kuposa anzawo azungu.)

Kupinda kukongola si ululu. Ndi gehena.

Zitha kutenga zaka zinayi kusita mosadumphadumpha ndisanalowe mdziko loipali la opumira mankhwala.

Ndimakumbukirabe chilolezo changa choyamba: kuyang'anitsitsa momwe ndimaganizira, ndikudabwa, pomwe ndimayendetsa zala zanga popanda zingwe. Panalibe akasupe amtchire omwe amatulutsa kuchokera kumutu kwanga komanso m'malo awo, zingwe zosalala bwino.

Ndili ndi zaka 25, ndinali nditakwanitsa mawonekedwe omwe ndinkalakalaka kwambiri: wamba.

Ndipo kwakanthawi, ndinali wokondadi. Wokondwa chifukwa ndimadziwa kuti ndakwanitsa kupindika gawo la thupi langa kuti ligwirizane ndi miyezo yomwe anthu amakhala "okongola kwambiri."

Wokondwa chifukwa pamapeto pake ndimatha kugonana osagundana kuti ndibwezeretse tsitsi langa kuti ndisamveke wosasangalatsa. Wokondwa chifukwa, kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga, alendo sankafuna kukhudza tsitsi langa - ndimatha kupita pagulu ndikungophatikizana.

Kwa zaka ziwiri ndi theka, ndimayenera kutsitsa tsitsi langa ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri ndikumverera pamutu panga chifukwa chamankhwalawa. Koma chimwemwe chimapezeka chifukwa chonyadira nthawi zambiri chimakhala ndi malire.

Ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, sindingathe kufotokoza izi ngati gehena.

Ndafika pamalire pomwe ndimagwira ku Abu Dhabi. Ndinali nditangoyamba kumene ntchito yatsopano m'nyuzipepala yayikulu ya Chingerezi ndipo ndinali mchimbudzi cha azimayi pomwe ndidamva anzanga awiri akuyankhula. Mmodzi anali ndi tsitsi lachilengedwe lofanana ndendende pomwe winayo adamuwuza momwe tsitsi lake lidawonekera modabwitsa.

Ndipo iye anali kulondola.

Tsitsi lake lidawoneka lodabwitsa. Icho chinali chithunzi chagalasi cha tsitsi langa lakale: zilombo zakutchire, zolimba zomwe zimayenda pamapewa ake. Amangowoneka kuti ali omasuka kwathunthu ndi iye.

Ndinadzimvera chisoni kwambiri pondikumbukira nthawi ndi mphamvu zomwe ndathera kunyansidwa ndi zomwe ndinali kuzisilira tsopano. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga, ndidaphonya ma curls anga.

Kuyambira pamenepo, ndimatha zaka ziwiri ndi theka ndikumera tsitsi langa. Zowonadi kuti nthawi zina ndimayesedwa kuti ndibwererenso kuwongola mankhwala chifukwa tsitsi langa lidawonekeradi.

Koma kukula kumeneku kunali kwakukulu kuposa kuthupi. Kotero ine ndinakana.

Ndinaganizanso zolemba homuweki powerenga ma blogi achilengedwe. Ndili ndi azimayi okongola kwambiri oti ndithokoze, limodzi ndi azimayi osawerengeka omwe ndidayambitsa nawo kukambirana pagulu, onse omwe andithandiza kuphunzira kusamalira tsitsi langa.

Ndikuganiza zam'mbuyomu komanso momwe ndikadakhalira ndi ndemanga yomwe idafanizira ma curls anga ndi "tsitsi lapa pubic," ndikudziwa ndikadakhala wosokonezeka.

Koma gawo laling'ono la ine likadamvanso kuti ndemanga ndiyoyenera - kuti mwanjira ina, chifukwa sindinathe kutsatira miyezo yokongola, ndiyenera kuyipa uku.

Uku ndikuzindikira kowopsa.

Tsopano, komabe, ngakhale ndemanga zake sizinali zopweteketsa pang'ono, ndili pamalo pomwe ndimatha kuwona bwino kuti kusankha kwawo mawu kumandikakamiza kutsutsana ndi ziyembekezo zokomera anthu.

Mwa kuphunzira kunyalanyaza miyezo yoyipayi, ndimatha kutulutsa ndemanga ngati izi - kuchokera kwa ena komanso kudzikayikira kwanga - ndipo m'malo mwake, nditha kukhala omasuka ndi zonse zomwe zimandipangitsa ine, kuchokera ku sh * milomo yamilomo kumutu wachilengedwe.

Ashley Bess Lane ndi mkonzi yemwe adasandutsa freelancer kukhala mkonzi. Ndi wamfupi, wamalingaliro, wokonda gin, ndipo ali ndi mutu wodzaza ndi nyimbo zopanda pake komanso mawu a kanema. Ali pa Twitter.