Momwe Mungaperekere Kugonana Pakamwa Pabwino

Zamkati

• 1. Khalani achangu!
• 2. Gawani mawu/mawu/mawu omasulira omwe mumakonda.
• 3. Onetsani (ndi kuwauza) Zomwe zimakusangalatsani.
• 4. Lambulani.
• 5. Gwiritsani ntchito lube.
• 6. Sinthani luso lanu.
• 7. Bweretsani m'manja mwanu kuti mubwezeretse.
• 8. Ganizani kupyola (kumbuyo,) kumaliseche.
• 9. Sewerani ndi maudindo.
• 10. Yesani kuseka ndi mano.
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Mu chiphunzitso, kugonana m'kamwa kumamveka ngati kutseka envelopu: kulavulira, kunyambita, kubwereza. Koma, chabwino, ngati simunazindikire, ma envulopu akumaliseche. Ndipo, nthawi aliyense amalandira chikho chachitetezo cha khama lawo, kumeneko ndi chinthu chonga kugonana m'kamwa moipa. (Inde, tanena! Mukadali pano, onani malangizo ena azakugonanawa ochokera kwa akatswiri.)

Lowani, kalozera wogonana mkamwa. Apa, muphunzira momwe mungaperekere kugonana m'kamwa komanso kupeza maupangiri 10 abwino kwambiri ogonana pakamwa omwe mungagwiritse ntchito kwa amuna kapena akazi, kuchokera kwa akatswiri. Sangalalani. (Koma musanatero chirichonse, onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa kuthana ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana.)

1. Khalani achangu!

Pankhani yopereka kugonana m'kamwa, "chisangalalo chimamveka 99.9 peresenti ya nthawi," akutero mphunzitsi wa zachiwerewere Andre Shakti, woyambitsa IAmPoly.net. Ganizirani izi: Ndani satero amafuna zinyenyeswazi zawo / slurped / kudya / etc. ngati ali mbale pa malo odyera a Michelin nyenyezi zisanu? Ndendende. Chifukwa chake, ngati mulibe chidwi chopita mtawuni, musatero. "Kupereka mutu chifukwa mukumva kuti mukuyenera kubweretsa mafunso ovomerezeka," akutero Shakti. (Werenganinso: Momwe Mungachitire Ngati Wokondedwa Wanu Sakukutsatani)

Mukangozindikira kuti mukufuna kutsika, muli komweko, bwanji osaponya mnzako mawu otsimikizira? Yesani: "Mumamva bwino kwambiri," kapena "Ndimakonda momwe mumanunkhiza," kapena "Ndimakonda kutsitsa X wanu."

Zachidziwikire, mutha kukhala mukuyang'ana kwambiri pa maluso anu ogonana mkamwa, koma osachita manyazi pakubuula, kubuula, kunyinyirika, kapena kung'ung'uza ndikudzuka pomwe mukuchita izi. Sikuti kumangomveka kwanu kumangopangitsa kuti pakhale kugwedeza kosangalatsa motsutsana ndi mabatani awo, komanso "ndizotentha kwambiri kumva mnzanuyo akukupatsani chisangalalo, ndipo zikuwonetsa kuti nawonso akusangalala," akutero Shakti.

Kwa eni ake a vulva makamaka, omwe (*ikani mbali-diso pagulu*) adaleredwa kuganiza kuti chisangalalo chawo sichinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuposa anzawo, maphokosowa amatha kuwathandiza kukhala omasuka kukhala polandila. (Zokhudzana: Ngati Simukusangalala Kugonana Pakamwa, Simuli Nokha - Umu Ndi Momwe Mungakhazikitsire)

2. Gawani mawu/mawu/mawu omasulira omwe mumakonda.

Ndi mawu ati omwe mnzanu amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito pathupi lawo? Kodi safuna kuti maliseche awo atchulidwe ngati kamwana mwachitsanzo? "Uku ndi kukambirana kofunikira ngati inu kapena mnzanuyo muli transbinary kapena nonbinary, koma ndikofunikira kuti anthu a cisgender akhale nawo," akutero Shakti. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mupeza kuti mawu ena akukhumudwitsa, ndipo mnzanuyo akunena kuti kugonana kwapakati pakamwa, kuwononga maganizo. (Zokhudzana: Zomwe Zimatanthauzadi Kukhala Gender Fluid kapena Gender Non Binary)

Muyeneranso kuwunika momwe amakonda kutchulira zogonana mkamwa. "'Kodi ndingakudyereni" angamve mosiyana kwambiri ndi 'Ndikufuna kulawa,' akutero Shakti. Zomwezo zimapitilira "ndingakuphulitseni" poyerekeza ndi "ndingakuyamwitseni" kapena "Ndikufuna kuti mupange kubwera ndi kamwa yanga."

Mukadali pamenepo, afunseni ziganizo zomwe amakonda amakonda kufotokozera thupi lawo lonse. Wamphamvu, wokhoza, wamphamvu? Yofewa, yosalala, yowutsa mudyo? Minofu, yolimba, yolimba? Simungafune kuwauza kuti mapindikidwe awo amadzimadzi amayatsidwa akamakonda kuwaganizira ngati akatumba amphamvu, olimba. (BTW: Ichi ndichilangizo chabwino musanalankhule zauve kudzera pa foni kapena pafoni.)

3. Onetsani (ndi kuwauza) Zomwe zimakusangalatsani.

Shakti akuti: "Kugawana zomwe mudakondana nthawi yapitayi kumatha kukuthandizani kuti musamve ngati mukungoganizirana." Zachidziwikire, padzakhala njira yophunzirira ndi bwenzi lililonse latsopano, koma ma concos awa angakuthandizeni kukwera mwachangu ndikuphunzira momwe mungaperekere kugonana m'kamwa. (Zogwirizana: Njira 10 Zokulitsira Moyo Wanu Wogonana)

Mafunso ena omwe mungafunse:

• Kodi mumakonda kukondoweza mwachindunji? Mumakhudzidwa bwanji?
• Kodi mufunika chiyani kuti musangalale mukamagonana?
• Kodi mwayesapo komanso / kapena kusangalala ndi chidwi cha G-banga kapena P-pomwe mukulandira pakamwa?
• Kodi pali zoseweretsa zilizonse zomwe mumafuna kuyikamo?

Njira ina: Uzani mnzanu kuti adzikhudze pamaso panu. Kodi akudzikhudza okha pa clitoral hood kapena kukhudzana mwachindunji? Kodi amagwiritsa ntchito zikwapu zazitali, zokwera-ndi-zotsika, kapena mayendedwe owongoleredwa kwambiri? Kodi akugwiritsa ntchito kupanikizika kotani? Zinthu zonsezi zimatha kukudziwitsani momwe mungapangire zogonana mkamwa momwe angakonde.

Ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuzindikira zikwangwani zawo zosangalatsa. Kodi zala zawo zakuphazi zimapindika pamene china chake chimva bwino? Kodi miyendo yawo imasinthasintha? Chipilala cham'mbuyo? Ziphwangwa zikung'amba? Mudzafunika kuti mulowe muzinthu izi ndiwe amene amawasangalatsa… zomwe zikubweretsa mfundo yotsatira iyi.

4. Lambulani.

Palibe chomwe chimaposa kulankhulana pakamwa. Ndipo ngati inu kapena mnzanu simumva bwino polankhulana pakakhala chinthu chomwe chimamveka bwino / choipa / chochokera / chowawa / ndi zina zotero, muyenera kuganizira ngati mukuyenera kugonana. Komabe, thupi la mnzanuyo limachita "kulankhula," nawonso. (Zokhudzana: Zomwe Anu - Kapena Anzanu - Phokoso Lakugonana Amatanthauzadi)

"Muyenera kusamala ndi momwe thupi la mnzanu lilili," atero a Carly S, omwe amaphunzitsa zogonana ndi The Pleasure Chest. "Kodi akukankhira kutali? Kapena akuyandikira pafupi? Akusuntha chiuno kuti asinthe malo omwe ali pakamwa panu? Akutseka miyendo yawo kapena kuwayala?" Mu mayankho a mafunso awa, mupeza zonena za zomwe zikugwira ntchito komanso zomwe sizikugwira ntchito. Sinthani moyenera.

5. Gwiritsani ntchito lube.

Ndikudziwa, mwina mukudzifunsa nokha: "N'chifukwa chiyani ndingagwiritse ntchito lube pamene ndalavulira ....?" Chabwino, "ndizofanana ndi kusiyana pakati pakunyambita milomo yanu ndikugwiritsa ntchito chapu mukakhala ndi milomo youma; imodzi imangogwira ntchito bwino," akutero Carly S. (Onani: Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Abut Lube-Kuphatikiza Chifukwa Chomwe Muyenera Kugwiritsira Ntchito Icho)

Ngati muli ndi pakamwa pouma, "aloe vera akhoza kuthandizira, kotero kuti lube monga Sliquid Satin (Buy It, $20, ellaparadis.com) omwe ali ndi aloe mkati mwake akhoza kusintha masewera," akutero.

Ndipo, inde, "pafupifupi mafuta onse amadya komanso otetezeka kuti adye," koma yesetsani kupewa chilichonse chokhala ndi glycerin, chomwe chimagwera shuga ndipo chitha kuwonjezera chiopsezo chotenga yisiti, akutero. Ndipo kumbukirani: Simuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta opangidwa ndi silikoni okhala ndi chidole cha silikoni. Chifukwa chake ngati mukuyankhula pakamwa kapena mukugwiritsira ntchito vibrator kapena mphete ya tambala yomwe ndi silicone, gwiritsani ntchito lube yamadzi. (Zogwirizana: Lube Wopambana Kwambiri Wogonana Wonse)

6. Sinthani luso lanu.

TBH, ngati mukumvetsera wokondedwa wanu, kuyankha zomwe akukuuzani komanso momwe akulankhulira, ndikupita nazo mokondwera, njira yanu yogonana m'kamwa ilibe kanthu - mnzanuyo ali kale ndi nthawi yabwino. Koma ngati mukufuna malangizo owonjezera pang'ono momwe mungaperekere kugonana m'kamwa, malangizowa angathandize. (BTW, kodi mumadziwa kuti ma clitorise ndi maliseche sizosiyana kwenikweni?)

• Yesani kupanga zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Nyambita mmwamba ndi pansi maliseche awo kapena shaft yawo ndi zikwapu zazitali, zotakata; gwedezani kumapeto kwa lilime lanu motsutsana ndi khungu lawo (kanyumba kakang'ono kamene kali pamwamba pa maliseche) kapena frenulum (malo ozindikira pomwe khungu limakumana ndi kumunsi kwa mbolo); kapena yesani kuyendetsa lilime lanu mozungulira clit kapena mutu wa mbolo. Ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi clit, mukhoza kuyesa mokoma kuyamwa pa izo kapena kukanikiza pakamwa panu pa vulva awo. Ngati mnzanuyo ali ndi mbolo, mukhoza kutenga chinthu chonsecho mkamwa mwanu (monga momwe zilili bwino) ndikusunthira mmwamba ndi pansi pa tsinde, kapena kupereka mipira yawo chidwi pang'ono ndi lilime lanu ndi pakamwa.
• Yang'anani pa clit.Ngati mnzanu ali ndi maliseche ndipo mukumva kuti mwapanikizika, kuyang'ana kwambiri pa clit ndibwino; oposa 80 peresenti ya anthu omwe ali ndi ziphuphu amafunikira kukondweretsedwa kumeneko.
• Sinthani nyengo yanu. Ngati mudagwiritsapo ntchito chidole chogwedeza kale, mukudziwa kuti kumverera liwiro lomwelo ndikumverera kwa nthawi yayitali osadodometsedwa kumatha kusiya kusangalala. Sinthani tempo yanu ndi kukakamiza kuti musunge chidwi chatsopano ndikulola chisangalalo chikule. Ngati mnzanu atasiya kuyankha mwachidwi, ikhoza kukhala nthawi yosintha maluso. Izi zati, ngati mukumva kuti mnzanuyo akuyandikira, zingakhale bwino kumamatira pazomwe mukuchita kuti muthe kufika pachimake.

7. Bweretsani m'manja mwanu kuti mubwezeretse.

Zikafika pamaluso anu ogonana mkamwa, chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe mungachite ndikuwonjezera manja kusakaniza. "M'kamwa mwako ndi dzanja lanu mutha ndipo muyenera kugwira ntchito limodzi," akutero katswiri wazakugonana wa Lanae St. John, wolemba Werengani Ine: Parental Primer for 'The The Talk'. "Adzatha kupereka chisangalalo chochuluka kuposa pakamwa panu nokha."

Ngati mnzanu ali ndi maliseche, amalangiza kugwiritsa ntchito zala zanu "kusewera mozungulira panja pa malowo ndipo ngati akusangalala kulowa, ngakhale kulowa kumaliseche kuti akondwere nazo." Mukakhala mkati, mutha kuyesa kusuntha zala zanu mkati ndi kunja, kapena kulumikiza chala chanu ndikumverera chifukwa cha G-banga. (Kuti mumve zambiri zamomwe mungachitire munthu wina, onani chitsogozo chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.)

Ngati mnzanu ali ndi mbolo, kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu kumatha kuthandizanso kuti muzimva kupweteka kwambiri - zomwe mwamtheradi siziri zofunikira pazosangalatsa zosangalatsa. Yambani ndi squirt kuchuluka kwa mtima mafuta m'manja mwanu. Ndiyeno, “gwiritsani ntchito dzanja lanu patsinde, kwinaku mukulozetsa pakamwa panu ndi lilime lanu pamutu ndi frenulum [mzere wa m’munsi mwa mutu] wa mbolo, zomwe ziri mbali zomva chisoni kwambiri,” akutero St.

"Mungagwiritsenso ntchito zala zanu kuti mupange mphete ya tambala pansi, zomwe zingathandize kuti zikhale zovuta ngati akulimbana nazo," akuwonjezera Shakti.

Ndipo ngati mnzanu wamangirizidwa, Shakti akuti mutha kukulunga manja anu mozungulirako ndikugwiritsa ntchito kukakamiza kuti tsinde la cholembacho lithandizire phiri la mnzanu kapena kumenyera pansi. (FYI, dildos ndi mtundu umodzi chabe wazoseweretsa zogonana. Nazi ena 11).

8. Ganizani kupyola (kumbuyo,) kumaliseche.

Nchifukwa chiyani mumachepetsa kunyambita kwanu kutsogolo kwa thupi pomwe kuli dziko lonse lapansi lokonda zosangalatsa? "Anus ndi dera lolimbirana kwambiri kwa amuna ndi akazi onse ndipo kuphatikiza pantchitoyo ndi lilime, chala, lube, kapena pulagi yamatako imatha kukulitsa chidziwitso," akutero Shakti. (Onani: Momwe Mungayang'anire Maliseche a Anal)

Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi mbolo, kumata chala m'chiuno (ndi kuchipinda kutsogolo kwa thupi la wolandirayo) kumatha kuthandiza prostate. P-spot ndi babu ya minofu yomwe imakhala yocheperapo kuposa ina yake ndipo imakhala mmenemo. Anthu osiyanasiyana amakonda zikwapu zosiyanasiyana, chifukwa chake muyenera kuyesa kusuntha chala cham'mbali, kugwedeza modekha, kugwiritsa ntchito kupsinjika pang'ono, ndikusunthira chala chanu pakubwera kuno kuti mupeze zomwe wokondedwa wanu amakonda. (Kapena yesetsani kuwonjezera pulagi.)

Mwinamwake mwamvapo kuti kusuntha uku ndi uku pakati pa anus ndi nyini ndi ayi yayikulu chifukwa kuyambitsa mabakiteriya kuchokera kukhomo lanu lakumbuyo kutsogolo kwanu kumatha kubweretsa matenda monga bakiteriya vaginosis. Pomwe ngozi ili ayi MIA panthawi yogonana m'kamwa, Carly S. adanena kuti pali chiopsezo chocheperako pakati pa cunnilingus ndi rimming kusiyana ndi kusuntha pakati pa nyini ndi kumatako kusewera. (Zogwirizana: Momwe Mungakonzekerere Kugonana)

Komabe, dongosolo lanu lakuchita musanabwerereko, choyamba, funsani-chifukwa chilolezo sichingakambirane. Khalani ndi zokambirana ndi mnzanu zokhudzana ndi kusewera kumatako kale lilime lanu lili mainchesi kutali ndi matako awo (monga, pamene mwavala mokwanira ndipo *osati* kuchipinda). Ngati ndichinthu chomwe inu nonse mumachifuna, yesani umodzi wa mizere iyi ikakwana nthawi:

• Ndingatani kunyambita pakati pa masaya anu?
• Ndikufuna kupitiliza kunyambita, zikukuyenderani bwino?
• Ndili ndi damu la mano. Kodi mungamve bwanji ngati ndikugwiritsa ntchito pamene ndikukulimbikitsani?

9. Sewerani ndi maudindo.

"On Your Knees" ikhoza kukhala malo ogonana m'kamwa. Koma bwanji osayesa ngodya zatsopano? Nayi imodzi: "Uzani mnzake wolandiridwayo agone miyendo yake itapachikika pambali pa kama, kauntala, kapena tebulo. Kenako, kokerani mpando kapena chopondapo, kapena ngakhale mawondo ngati mukufuna, ndikukhala otanganidwa," akutero a St. Yohane. (Nayi ma toni angapo ogonana omwe mungayesere ndikugonana, inunso.)

Njira ina: Sinthani malo ndi mnzanu, kuti inu, monga wopereka, mukhale pabedi pamsana wanu. "Ikani mutu wanu m'mphepete mwa bedi, pakamwa potsegula, ndiyeno muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti ayendetse mutu wanu ndikudzitsitsa ku milomo yanu," akutero. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi mbolo, izi zitha kukuthandizani kuti mupewe gag reflex chifukwa pakhosi ndiye wotseguka mwanjira imeneyi, akutero. (Nayi malingaliro ena amalo abwino ogonana mkamwa kwa eni maliseche.)

Ndipo zowonadi, mutha kuyesa facesitting kapena 69-ing. (Onani Zambiri: Chilichonse Chimene Muyenera Kudziwa Zokhudza Udindo wa 69).

10. Yesani kuseka ndi mano.

Mwayi ndikuti bola mutadziwa kuti kugonana mkamwa ndikotani, mwauzidwa kuti muphimbe omwe akukupangitsani pochita izi. Nthawi zambiri, ndi njira yabwino yogonana m'kamwa kumangirira milomo yanu m'mano kwinaku mukuchita ndi khungu lolimba la maliseche. Koma (!) "Anthu ena amakonda kumveka kwa mano mkati ndi kuzungulira maliseche awo," akutero Carly S. Mudzafuna kupeza chilolezo cha mnzanuyo musanawadabwitse ndi nsonga zamagulu awo, koma ngati zosafunika za mnzanuyo nthawi zambiri siziri. tcheru, kuthamanga pang'ono kwa mano kumatha kumva bwino, akutero.

Mano anu angagwiritsidwenso ntchito ngati chidole pa madera ena erogenous mnzanuyo monga ntchafu zawo, matako, m'chiuno mafupa, ndi khosi. Chifukwa chake, musanafike ku The Main Mouth Event, bwanji osanyoza ntchafu za mnzanuyo ndi kunyambita ndi (modekha) kulumidwa ndi chikondi? (BTW: Kodi mumadziwa kuti simuyenera kutsuka mano musanagone m'kamwa?)

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