Inde, Mutha Kutenga Mimba Momwemo!

Zamkati

• Mukamayamwitsa.
• Mukatenga maantibayotiki mukamamwa mankhwala.
• Mukadwala ndikusanza kapena kutsegula m'mimba mukakhala pamapiritsi.
• Wanu atatha vasectomy.
• Mukamagwiritsa ntchito IUD.
• Mukamagwiritsa ntchito makondomu molakwika.
• Pambuyo pokhala ndi vuto la kusabereka kapena kugwiritsa ntchito IVF kuti mukhale ndi pakati.
• Mukakhala ndi pakati kale.

Itchuleni chilengedwe, itchuleni kuti ndi yofunikira kwambiri, iyiteninso kuti ndiyododometsa. Chowonadi ndi chakuti thupi lanu nthawi zambiri akufuna kutenga pakati ... ngakhale sizili kwenikweni pandandanda wazomwe muyenera kuchita. Mitunduyi imafuna kupulumuka, ndipo ndife ziphuphu za amayi a Nature. (Zachidziwikire, tikadzatero ndikufuna Kukhala ndi pakati, sizophweka nthawi zonse, koma ndi nkhani ina yonse yokhudza nkhani ina yonse.)

Komabe, nthawi zambiri timakhala zaka zathu zoberekera tikuyesera ayi kutenga pakati, ndipo nthawi zambiri timachita bwino. Timadziwitsidwa, tikudziwa njira yolerera yotichitira bwino, ndipo tikudziwa zovuta zomwe zimafala.

Koma apa pali chinthu ichi: Zomwe mukuganiza kuti mukudziwa pankhani yoletsa kubereka mwina sizingakhale zolondola. Ndipo kutenga "modabwitsa" kumakhala kosavuta kubwera kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Chifukwa chake musanachite izi, onaninso izi za zolakwika zisanu ndi ziwiri zakulera. Ndiziyani? Ndife okondwa kuti mwafunsa.

Khulupirirani kapena ayi, mutha kutenga pakati ...

Mukamayamwitsa.

Amayi ambiri oyamwitsa samapeza nthawi yawo yoyamwitsa. Izi zimawatsogolera kukhulupirira kuti sakutulutsa mazira motero sangatenge mimba. Ayi! Kugwiritsa ntchito kuyamwitsa monga njira yolerera kumatchedwa njira ya lactational amenorrhea (LAM), ndipo nthawi zambiri imagwira ntchito mwana wanu akadakwanitsa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, mukuyamwitsa kokha, ndipo simunalandire nthawi yanu yoyamba mukamabereka.

Nayi chinthu chake: Nthawi zambiri timatulutsa mazira kutatsala milungu iwiri kuti tifike msambo wathu woyamba. Chifukwa chake mutha kukhala ndi pakati chifukwa thupi lanu limatha kubwerera ku zida zopangira ana nthawi iliyonse. Kuphatikizanso, kupanikizika kumatha kuchepetsa mkaka wanu, womwe umatha kuwonjezera mahomoni obereka. Mwini, sindikudziwa amayi atsopano omwe sali akukumana ndi zovuta zina, chifukwa chake njira yolerera iyi ikuwoneka ngati mwana wofanana ndi roulette waku Russia.

Mukatenga maantibayotiki mukamamwa mankhwala.

Pali cholembera chachikulu, chodzaza mafuta papaketi iliyonse yamapiritsi yomwe imati kumwa maantibayotiki kumatha kuchepetsa mphamvu ya mapiritsi, koma anthu ambiri samawerenga zolemba zabwino. Komabe, pali maantibayotiki amodzi okha omwe atsimikiziridwa kuti amasokoneza mapiritsi: rifampin, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pochiza chifuwa chachikulu ndi matenda a bakiteriya. Asayansi amati palibe vuto mukamagwiritsa ntchito maantibayotiki ena. Kutenga kwawo ndikuti kutenga mimba kumatha kuchitika chifukwa anthu amatha kudumpha mapiritsi kapena awiri pamene sakumva bwino, kapena matupi awo sangathe kuyamwa mahomoni moyenera ngati akusanza kapena kutsekula m'mimba. Zonse zomwe zanenedwa, Ndikudziwa amayi abwino omwe amatenga mapiritsi omwe ali ndi pakati pomwe ali ndi maantibayotiki, chifukwa chake mwina simukufuna kuchita nawo mwayi.

Mukadwala ndikusanza kapena kutsegula m'mimba mukakhala pamapiritsi.

Ngati mumeza mapiritsi, koma muwasanza, kapena kuwatumiza mwachangu ndi kutsekula m'mimba, alibe mwayi wolowa. Ndiye zili ngati simunamwe mapiritsi konse.

Wanu atatha vasectomy.

Ngakhale muli ndi mwayi wochepera gawo limodzi lokha kutenga pakati ndi bambo yemwe adachita vasectomy, mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wokulirapo ngati simudikira kuti okondedwa anu ayesedwe kuti awone ngati ikugwira ntchito. Umuna wa mnzanu uyenera kuwunikidwa patatha miyezi itatu chichitikireni izi, ndipo akuyenera kuti anali ndi zosakwana 20 zakumwa. Onetsetsani kuti mukugwiritsa ntchito chitetezo china mpaka mutachira kwa dokotala pakatha miyezi itatu.

Mukamagwiritsa ntchito IUD.

Ma IUD amapambana 99,7%, chifukwa chake kutenga mimba kumakhala kosazolowereka - koma kosatheka. Njira imodzi yotsimikizira kuti simumatha pazocheperako ndikuti muwone dokotala wanu patatha mwezi umodzi kuchokera IUD atayika. Uzani dokotala wanu kuti awonetsetse kuti IUD idakali bwino muchiberekero chanu. Komanso kumbukirani izi: Ndi ma IUD ofotokoza mahomoni ngati Mirena, azimayi ena samasamba. Koma ngati mukukumana ndi zizolowezi zilizonse zokhala ndi pakati monga kumva kuwawa pachifuwa, matenda am'mawa, kapena kutopa kwambiri, muyenera kuyesa kuyezetsa mimba ndikuyimbira dokotala. Mimba za IUD zimakhala ndi chiopsezo chachikulu chopita padera komanso ectopic pregnancy, chifukwa chake mufunika kukambirana ndi dokotala nthawi yomweyo.

Mukamagwiritsa ntchito makondomu molakwika.

Zikuwoneka kuti ndizosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito, ndipo Hei, tonsefe tidayeserera pa nthochi mu kalasi la Zaumoyo masana. Kodi wina angawakwapule bwanji? Nayi mndandanda waufupi: kuwagwiritsa ntchito ndi mafuta opaka mafuta, monga mafuta a petroleum kapena mafuta a kokonati, omwe amachepetsa latex; kugwiritsa ntchito makondomu omwe atha ntchito (inde, ali ndi tsiku lotha ntchito) kapena zilizonse zomwe zawonongedwa ndi kutentha kwambiri (musazisiye m'galimoto yamagolovesi anu m'nyengo yozizira kapena yotentha); mwangozi kuwang'amba ndi mano, lumo, kapena msomali potsegula paketiyo; osasiya malo okwanira kumapeto; komanso osatulutsa (ndi kondomu, kumene) mwachangu mokwanira mutagonana. Mwinanso sindiwo mndandanda wawufupi, pambuyo pake.

Pambuyo pokhala ndi vuto la kusabereka kapena kugwiritsa ntchito IVF kuti mukhale ndi pakati.

Chifukwa choti mwakhala ndi mavuto osabereka, sizitanthauza kuti ndinu osabereka. Zitha kungotanthauza kuti muli ndi mwayi wochepa kwambiri wobereka mwachilengedwe… zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mwayi ulipo.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina mu magazine Chonde ndi Chofooka, Azimayi 17 pa 100 alionse amene anatenga pakati kudzera mu IVF pambuyo pake anatenga pakati mwachilengedwe posakhalitsa. Ngakhale ofufuza sakudziwa kwenikweni chifukwa chake izi zimachitika, ena amati kutenga mimba kumakankha thupi kukhala giya komanso kumatha kupondereza zovuta za mikhalidwe monga endometriosis, kulola kuti pakati pakhale mosavuta. Kuphatikiza apo, kupsinjika kokhudzana ndi kutenga mimba kumakhala kotsika kwambiri chifukwa ndichinthu chomaliza m'maganizo mwanu mpaka - kudabwitsidwa! Ngati simunakonzekere kudabwitsidwa, onetsetsani kuti mukusamala.

Mukakhala ndi pakati kale.

O, inde, munawerenga izi molondola: Mutha kutenga pakati mukakhala ndi pakati kale. Amatchedwa superfetation, ndipo ndizosawerengeka kwambiri. (Tikulankhula za milandu 10 yokha yomwe idalembedwa kale.) Zimachitika mayi wapakati akamatulutsa dzira masabata angapo atakhala ndi pakati ndikugonana nthawi yoyenera (kapena yolakwika!). Izi ndizosowa kwambiri kuti azimayi ambiri, kuphatikizapo ine, sangatengepo kanthu, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti ndichinthu.

Kotero apo inu muli nacho icho: njira zisanu ndi ziwiri inu angathe khalani ndi pakati pomwe simukuyembekezera. Dziwani, samalani, ndipo gwiritsani ntchito izi kuti muziyang'anira bwino zaumoyo wanu wobereka.

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