Kodi Mukufuna Kuwerenga Zolemba Zanu?

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Pafupifupi odwala 700 kuchipatala cha Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital ku Boston-gawo loyambirira la maphunziro kuchipatala-sayenera kuda nkhawa za nthawiyo. Amakhala ndi mwayi wopeza zolemba zawo zachipatala, mwina panthawi yokumana kapena pambuyo pake kudzera pa database yapaintaneti, monga tafotokozera posachedwa. New York Times nkhani.

Ndipo ngakhale izi zingawoneke ngati lingaliro lachilendo, Stephen F. O'Neill, LICSW, JD, woyang'anira ntchito zamaganizo ndi chisamaliro chapadera ku Beth Israel akulimbikitsa kuti: "Nthawi zonse ndakhala ndi ndondomeko yotseguka. malinga ndi zolemba zawo, ndipo ambirife pano [ku Bet Israel] tachita izi mosabisa. "

Ndizowona: Kupeza zolemba zamankhwala anu ndi ufulu wanu (zindikirani: malamulo amasiyanasiyana malinga ndi mayiko ndipo ngati zingakhale zovulaza kwa inu pazifukwa zilizonse, wothandizirayo amaloledwa kupereka chidule). Koma anthu ambiri sazipempha. Ndipo madokotala ambiri amanyalanyaza kugawana nawo. "Tsoka ilo, othandizira ambiri aphunzitsidwa kuti azichita zodzitchinjiriza," akutero O'Neill. “M’sukulu yomaliza maphunziro pulofesa wina anati, ‘Pali mitundu iŵiri ya ochiritsa: amene aimbidwa mlandu ndi amene sanatero.

Kuthamanga pachiwopsezo chokhumudwitsa kapena kusokoneza wodwala popereka kope lanu, ndiye? Imeneyo ndi bizinesi yowopsa. Ndipo O'Neill avomereza kuti kudziwa kuti mukulandira zomwe mwamulembera kumasintha momwe amalemba (zosintha zimabwera mu mawonekedwe kuti mutsimikizire kuti akumvetsetsa zomwe akunena, akutero). Koma poyankhula zenizeni, maubwino ake amapitilira zoopsa zake, akuti: "Ngati titulutsa nkhani zoyipa, tikuyembekeza kuti odwala sangakumbukire zoposa 30 peresenti ya zomwe timanena. Ndi uthenga wabwino, tikuyembekeza kuti akumbukire 70 peresenti. Mwanjira iliyonse , mukusowa zambiri. Ngati odwala angabwerere ndi kukumbukira, zimathandiza."

M'malo mwake, kupeza zolemba kumachepetsa mafoni osafunikira ochokera kwa anthu omwe akufuna kumveka bwino pagawolo, zomwe zimachepetsa zovuta zonse. Ndipo kafukufuku waposachedwa mu Zolengeza za Mankhwala Amkati adapeza kuti anthu omwe amawona zolemba zawo adakhutira ndi chisamaliro chawo ndipo amatha kumamatira kuzamankhwala awo.

Kwa ambiri, kugawana zolembera ndi chida chimodzi chokha chokhazikitsira ubale ndi othandizira. Poyamba anali ndi nkhawa kuti mchitidwewu ungapangitse kuti odwala omwe akhumudwa athawe (pambuyo pake, bwanji ngati angaganize kuti akulemba zoipa za iwo?), O'Neill adazindikira zosiyana: Kudziwa kuti (nthawi iliyonse) wodwala amatha kuwona zomwe akuwona adalemba milatho yodalirika, ndikupangitsa kuti mtima ukhale pansi.

Koma njirayi siyofanana kukula kulikonse ndipo pakadali pano, ndi njira zochepa chabe zamankhwala mdziko muno zomwe zatsegulidwa zolemba kuchokera kwa othandizira kupita kwa odwala. "Gawo lina la ntchito yathu ndi kudziwa kuti ndi ndani amene adzagwire ntchito modabwitsa komanso kuti izi zikhala chiani." Ndipo kutsutsa ndikwachilengedwe. Ngati wothandizira alemba kutanthauzira zomwe akuganiza kuti zikuchitika ndi munthu wina, mwachitsanzo, ndipo akufuna kuti wodwalayo apeze zomwezo mu nthawi yake, kuwona cholembera msangamsanga kukhoza kusokoneza kayendedwe ka mankhwala, O'Neill akufotokoza.

Ndipo ndi kuthekera kowona zolemba kunyumba zimabwera zenizeni kuti simudzadziwa yemwe akuwerenga pamapewa a wodwala. Pakakhala ziwawa zapakhomo kapena pachibwenzi, kuchitira nkhanza kapena mnzanu yemwe sakuyembekezera zingakhale zovuta. (Chidziwitso: Pali zoteteza kuti izi zisachitike, a O'Neill akutero.)

Mfundo yofunika kuikumbukira: Muyenera kudzidziwa bwino. Kodi mungaganizire mafunso ngati, "Mawuwa amatanthauza chiyani?" kapena, "Kodi ndi zomwe amatanthauza?" Ku Beth Israel, pafupifupi munthu mmodzi mwa odwala atatu alionse amene anali ndi mwayi wolowa nawo pulogalamuyo achita zimenezo. Koma ena ambiri safuna. O’Neill akukumbukira kuti: “Wodwala wina ananena kuti, ‘Zili ngati kupatsa galimoto yanu kwa wokonza galimotoyo—akangomaliza, sindiyenera kuyang’ana pansi.

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