Otsogolera Elly Mayday Amwalira ndi Khansa ya Ovarian-Madokotala Atatha Kutaya Zizindikiro Zake

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Ashley Luther, yemwe amadziwika kuti Elly Mayday, adamwalira ali ndi zaka 30 atadwala khansa ya m'mimba.

Banja lake lidalengeza nkhaniyi pa Instagram masiku angapo apitawo m'makalata okhumudwitsa.

"Ashley anali mtsikana wakumudzi yemwe anali wokonda moyo zomwe sizingatsutsike," adalemba izi. "Ankalakalaka kuti akhudze miyoyo ya anthu. Anakwaniritsa izi kudzera mu kulengedwa kwa Elly Mayday komwe kunamuthandiza kuti agwirizane ndi inu nonse. Thandizo lake lokhazikika ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa otsatira ake zinali ndi malo apadera mu mtima mwake."

Ngakhale kuti Luther ankadziŵika bwino kuti ankalimbikitsa anthu kuchita zinthu mogwirizana ndi thupi lake, udindo umenewo monga wosonkhezera anthu unkangopitirira kudzionetsera. Amayankhula momasuka za momwe madotolo adanyalanyaza zisonyezo zake kwa zaka zambiri asanamuyese khansa, motero adayamba kulimbikitsa mwamphamvu thanzi la amayi. Iye ananena kuti ankaona kuti ngati wina angamumvere, akanamugwira kale khansa.

Ulendo wa Luther unayamba mu 2013 pamene anapita kuchipinda chodzidzimutsa atamva ululu waukulu m'munsi mwake. Madokotala anatsutsa ululu wake, ponena kuti akufunika kuonda ndipo zonse zikhala bwino, malinga ndi Anthu. (Kodi mumadziwa kuti madotolo achikazi ali bwino kuposa ma dotolo achimuna?)

"Dokotala adandiuza kuti ndigwire ntchito yanga," adatero Anthu mu 2015. "Tapeputsa kukhala achichepere, pokhala akazi. Ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti palibe amene angandithandizire pokhapokha ndikadzithandiza ndekha."

Maulendo ena atatu a ER pambuyo pake, Luther adauza mayiyo kuti akudziwa kuti china chake sichinali bwino, motero adauza madokotala ake kuti amuyezetse. Patatha zaka zitatu ulendo wake woyamba wopita kuchipatala, CT scan inavumbulutsa kuti anali ndi chotupa cha ovarian-ndipo atapimidwa, adapezeka kuti ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere 3.

Luther anapitirizabe kutengera chitsanzo chake pamene anali kulimbana ndi khansa ya m’chiberekero ndipo anaonekeranso m’maseŵera pambuyo pa kutayika tsitsi lake chifukwa cha mankhwala amphamvu amphamvu a chemotherapy ndi kuchitidwa maopaleshoni amene anasiya thupi lake lili ndi zipsera.

Ngakhale asanadziwike, Luther adatsimikiza kuti akutsutsana ndi malingaliro olakwika. Amamuwona ngati m'modzi mwa mitundu yoyamba yopindika kuti adziwonekere ndipo adayamba ntchito yabwino ngakhale adauzidwa kuti sangakhale chitsanzo chokhazikitsira chifukwa cha kukula kwake ndi kutalika kwake. Anagwiritsa ntchito zomwe adakumana nazo kulimbikitsa amayi kukumbatira matupi awo momwe alili ndikunyalanyaza adani.

Luther anachitidwa maopareshoni angapo komanso chemo. Ndipo kwa nthawi ndithu, khansa yake inaoneka kuti yachepa. Koma mu 2017, idabwerera ndipo pambuyo pa nkhondo ina yayitali, yovuta, pamapeto pake idamupha.

Tsoka ilo, zokumana nazo za Luther sizimangochitika zokha. Inde, pali zonena zabodza zaka mazana ambiri zakuti akazi ndi "amisala" kapena "opatsa chidwi" zikafika kuzowawa-koma zina mwazimenezi zimakhalabe zoona lerolino, ngakhale zipatala ndi zipatala.

Mlanduwu: Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti azimayi ali ndi mwayi wambiri kuposa amuna kuuzidwa kuti zowawa zawo ndizosokonekera, kapena chifukwa chazovuta zina zam'mutu. Osati zokhazo, koma onse madotolo ndi anamwino amapereka mankhwala ochepetsa ululu kwa azimayi kuposa amuna atachitidwa opaleshoni, ngakhale azimayi amafotokoza kuti akumva kuwawa pafupipafupi.

Posachedwa, wochita sewero Selma Blair, yemwe ali ndi multiple sclerosis (MS), adati madotolo sanatengere matenda ake kwa zaka zambiri kufikira atamupeza. Analira misozi yachisangalalo atamuuza chimene chinamuvuta.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake kunali kofunikira kuti Luther alimbikitse azimayi kuti akhale olimbikitsa zaumoyo wawo ndikulankhula pomwe akudziwa kuti china chake sichili bwino ndi matupi awo.

M'makalata ake omaliza asanamwalire, akuti "nthawi zonse amakhala akuyang'ana mwayi wothandiza anthu," ndipo zidapezeka kuti mwayi wake wochita izi ndikugawana nawo zankhondo yake ya khansa komanso zomwe zidamuchitikira.

"Kusankha kwanga kukhala pagulu ndikuyesera kugawana mphamvu zanga kunali pafupi," adalemba. "Kuthandizira ndi momwe ndikudzilungamitsira nthawi yanga pano yagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino. Ndine mwayi kuti ndatha kuziphatikiza ndi ntchito yosangalatsa yojambula, chifukwa ndi inenso kwambiri (hah palibe zodabwitsa). Ndimayamikira aliyense amene amandidziwitsa ine. 'Ndasintha, ndi upangiri wanga, kugawana kwanga, zithunzi zanga komanso njira yanga yonse yothanirana ndi zovuta zenizeni."

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