Camila Mendes Adagawana Momwe Adalumikizana ndi Wokonda Pathupi-Positivity

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Kodi mumalakalaka mutakhala ndi nthawi yopuma ndi munthu amene mumawakonda ndikukhala abwenzi apamtima? Izi ndizomwe zidachitikira a Riverdale wokonda wotchedwa Georgia, yemwe adapezeka atakhala pafupi ndi Camila Mendes (aka Veronica Lodge) pa ndege yochokera ku Brazil kupita ku California. Pa MaonekedweChochitika cha 2018 Body Shop (pomwe azimayi onse amapita) Mendes adalongosola momwe adalumikizirana zomwe zidabweretsa zokambirana modabwitsa za mawonekedwe amthupi.

Polankhula ndi wotsogolera masewera olimbitsa thupi a Jen Widerstrom, Mendes adalankhula za kukumana ndi Georgia: "Ndinazindikira kuti amayenera kukhala pafupi ndi ine pa ndege," adatero Mendes, asanaitanire Georgia ku siteji kuti afotokoze nkhani yake ndi omvera. (Zokhudzana: Momwe Thupi Limodzi-Positive Post Inayambira Ubwenzi Wokongola wa IRL)

Georgia anapitiliza kufotokoza kuti anali wonenepa kwambiri ali mwana, ndipo adayamba kunenepa kwambiri ali mwana, pomaliza pake adakhala wonenepa kwambiri. Ananenanso kuti anavutika maganizo ndipo anayesa mankhwala, zakudya, ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti achepetse thupi, koma palibe chomwe chinathandiza. Georgia adati pamapeto pake adachepetsa thupi, koma adavomereza kuti sizimamupangitsa kuti azimva bwino. (Werengani zambiri za chifukwa chake kuwonda sikuli chinsinsi cha chimwemwe komanso chifukwa chake kutaya thupi sikumapangitsa kuti thupi likhale lolimba.)

"Pamapeto pa tsikulo, ndidachepetsa thupi, koma ndiye ndidali ndi zotupa ndi zipsera ndipo sindidali wotsimikiza za thupi langa," adatero. Georgia adati adazindikira kuti sanali yekha pankhondoyi. Pamene amalankhula kwambiri za izi, ndipamene amazindikira kuti abwenzi ake ambiri akuvutikanso. Pomaliza, kuyankhula poyera izi ndi ena kunamuthandiza kukumbatira thupi lake, adagawana nawo.

Kutsegulira unyinji wa Shopu Yathupi, Mendes adakambirana zaulendo wake wokonda thupi. Wojambulayo wakhala akutsogola pankhani yolimbana ndi vuto lakudya kusukulu yasekondale, kachiwiri ku koleji, komanso pakujambula Riverdale. Pambuyo pake, akuti adazindikira kuti vuto lake limamupweteka. "Sindikanatha kukopeka ndi kugonana ngati sindimadzidalira m'thupi langa ... ndinamva kuti ndine wonenepa, ndinali ngati, palibe aliyense kukhudza ine, ndipo ndipamene zimayamba kusokoneza moyo wanu, "adatero. Kuwona wothandizira kumamuthandiza kupita patsogolo, ndipo tsopano agwirizana ndi Project Heal kufalitsa uthenga kuti ndi #DoneWithDieting. (Ali ku Body Shop, Mendes adavomerezanso kuti amavutikabe kukonda mimba yake-malo omwe anthu ambiri amakhala osatetezeka omwe amayi ambiri amatha kumvetsetsa.)

Ngakhale nkhani za azimayi awiriwa ndizofanana - amagawana mutu umodzi wodziyikira komanso wamanyazi, komanso kuvomereza ndi kukonda thupi), ndizosiyana, zomwe zimawunikira kuti kusadya bwino komanso / kapena kusowa chitetezo mthupi sikuwonetsa nthawi zonse momwemonso. "Anthu amaganiza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto amawoneka odwala, mukudziwa, kuti nthawi zonse amakhala owonda komanso owonda, koma sizowona," atero a Mendes. "Nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kudya samawoneka ngati ali ndi vuto la kudya." (FYI, Ashley Graham adalimbikitsa a Camila Mendes kuti asiye kudera nkhawa za khungu lawo.)

Sikovuta kulankhula momasuka za kusakhazikika kwa thupi lanu. (M'malo mwake, zinatengera Mendes kuyesa pang'ono kutsimikizira Georgia kuti atenge siteji, koma adachita.) Zothandizira kwa amayi onsewa polankhula za zovuta zawo. ndipo kupambana kwawo.

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