Emily Skye Akuvomereza Kuti Sadzimva Kuti Akugwira Ntchito Nthawi Zambiri
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Pamene wophunzitsa komanso wolimbitsa thupi a Emily Skye adakhala ndi mwana wawo wamkazi, Mia, pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi iwiri yapitayo, adawona masomphenya a momwe angakhalire olimba pambuyo pobereka. Koma monga makolo ambiri atsopano amadziwira, ngakhale mapulani abwino kwambiri satenga nthawi yayitali. "Moona mtima, ndimaganiza kuti nditha kubwerera mwachangu [kuposa momwe zimakhalira]," akuti Maonekedwe. "Ndakhala ndikuphunzitsa kwazaka zambiri, ndipo ndinali ndimphamvu kwambiri m'mbuyomu. Ndinaganiza kuti mwana wanga akangotuluka, abambo anga abwerera!" (Ndipo zoona ziyenera kunenedwa, ophunzitsa ambiri ndi madotolo akulimbikitsa amayi ambiri kuti ayesetse "kukonzekera" kutenga mimba-ndi kuwathandiza "kubwerera" mofulumira.)
Monga otsatira ake omvera (onse 2.4 miliyoni), zinthu sizinayende monga amayembekezera. Koma ndicho chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino za Skye-sanabise kapena kunamizira kuti zinthu zinali zabwino pomwe sanali.
"Ndakhala weniweni pazomwe ndimalemba," akutero. "Koma nditazindikira kuti ndili ndi pakati chinali cholinga changa kuti ndisamangolankhula za zabwino." Zotsatira zake, wawona mayankho akulu pazolemba zake zomwe zikuwonetsa zenizeni zantchito atakhala ndi mwana ngati kuti nthawi zina nthawi yokhayo yomwe amafikirira pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi pakati pausiku. Kapena, mukudziwa, khungu lotambasuka.
"Poyamba ndinkachita mantha kwambiri poika zinthu ngati zimenezo," akutero ponena za chithunzi cha khungu lotambasuka chomwe adagawana posachedwapa. "Ndimaganiza kuti anthu andiweruza. Koma tsopano ndimakonda kuzichita. Zomwe akuchita ndi 99% zabwino, ngati sizoposa pamenepo. Ndili ndi akazi-ndi amuna! -Kunena momwe amakondera zenizeni. Ndine wokondwa pakupanga kwanga kugawana nawo; zimandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala kuti anthu ena akupeza china chake chabwino. "
Izi zikuphatikiza mwana wake wamkazi Mia, yemwe Skye akuyembekeza kuti amulimbikitsa ndikudzipereka kwake kulimbitsa thupi komanso kulimba mtima. "Ndisanakhale naye, ndimangogwira ntchito osati kwa ine ndekha komanso kulimbikitsa anthu ena kukhala ndi moyo wokhazikika. Izi ndizofunikanso kwambiri tsopano," akutero. "Ndikuyesera kuphunzitsa Mia zinthu zoyenera. Ndimayesetsa kwambiri kudziwonetsa ndekha chikondi ndikuvomereza, ngakhale sindili wokondwa ndi thupi langa panthawiyo."
Iye akufotokoza kuti anaphunzira kuti kukhala ndi mwana wamkazi kumatanthauza kukhala ndi thupi labwino ndi kusachita zolimbitsa thupi kukhala chilango. (M'malo mwake, nthawi zina Mia amalemba pamodzi ndi Skye ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti Skye adziwonetsere yekha.) Kodi akufuna kuti Mia atenge chiyani? "Ndimadzikonda, ndipo ndimaphunzitsa chifukwa Ndimadzikonda, ”akutero.
Malingaliro amenewo atsimikizira kukhala woyendetsa wamkulu masiku pomwe iye, monga kholo lililonse latsopano, amakhala atagona pang'ono komanso alibe chidwi. "Sindikumva ngati ndikufuna kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zambiri," akuvomereza. "Ndimayesetsa kulowa mumachitidwe a robot - ndimangochita, sindimaganizira kwambiri. Ndikudziwa kuti ndikazichita, sindidzanong'oneza bondo," akutero. "Nditanena izi, sindimadzikakamiza kwambiri. Ndinkakhala mozungulira nthawi yayitali pomwe ndinali ndi Mia ndipo ndimadziwa kuti ngati nditangoyenda pang'ono ndingamve bwino - ndimalingaliro anga, makamaka. " (Zokhudzana: Mayi Awa Ali Ndi Uthenga Kwa Anthu Amene Amamuchitira Manyazi Chifukwa Chogwira Ntchito)
Zonsezi, Skye akuwoneka kuti akupeza kuti kudzisamalira sikungopeza nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi. "Nthawi zina ndimasankha kugona!" akutero akuseka. "Ndimasankha tsiku lililonse momwe ndimamvera. Ndikudziwa ngati ndikachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ndimatha kuthana ndi moyo ndi zina zonse - koma ngati Mia sangagone ndekha, ndiyenera kusankha tulo . "