Gmail Trumps Voicemail Ikafika pa Chikondi

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Mukufuna kufotokoza chikondi chanu kwa S.O wanu? Funsani zachikondi koyamba? Osatenga foni-makamaka ngati mukudziwa kuti muyenera kusiya voicemail; tsegulani Gmail m'malo mwake.

Mu pepala latsopano lotchedwa "Kutumiza Imelo kapena Kusatumiza Imelo," ofufuza adazindikira kuti-ngakhale amaganiza kuti maimelo ndi ozizira, ngati bizinesi yomwe sioyenera kufotokoza zakukhosi-inu ayenera kwenikweni imelo! Kafukufuku wawo adawonetsa kuti kulemba imelo kulidi Zambiri yogwira mtima pankhani yosonyeza chikondi kuposa kusiya mawu, malinga ndi nyuzipepalayo, yomwe yavomerezedwa kuti ifalitsidwe m'magaziniyo. Makompyuta M'makhalidwe Aanthu.

Phunziroli, ophunzira 72 omaliza maphunziro awo adapemphedwa kuti alembe imelo yachikondi ndikusiya mawu achikondi kwa okwatirana, bwenzi lawo, kapena bwenzi lawo. (Ngati analibe, adafunsidwa kuti alembe kalata yofunsa munthu yemwe anali ndi chidwi naye pa tsiku.) Ofufuzawo adayesa momwe adachitira ndi physiologically-momwe thupi lawo linakhalira ndi maganizo-poyika zowunikira pakhungu pawo. nkhope kuti ayese kuyenda kwa minyewa yokhudzana ndi malingaliro abwino komanso osalimbikitsa, komanso pamapazi awo kuti adziwe kuchuluka kwa omwe akutenga nawo thukuta (chizindikiro chodzutsa). Anagwiritsanso ntchito pulogalamu yamapulogalamu kuti awone momwe mawuwo amakhudzidwira omwe otumizirawo amagwiritsa ntchito m'mauthenga awo.

Ofufuzawo adapeza kuti pamene ophunzirawo adasiya voicemail kapena kutumiza imelo, panalibe kusiyana pakati pa maganizo abwino kapena oipa. Komabe zikafika podzutsa, anthu anali osangalala kwambiri kutumiza maimelo kuposa nthawi yomwe amasiya ma voicemails. Ndipo ponena za zomwe zili zenizeni za mauthenga achikondi, kutumiza imelo kunayambitsa chinenero champhamvu komanso choganizira kwambiri kusiyana ndi kusiya voicemail. (Ndipo, zodabwitsa, panalibe kusiyana pakukondana pakati pa omwe ali pachibwenzi kale ndi omwe amafunsira wina koyamba.) Chosangalatsa ndichakuti, ofufuzawo adapeza kuti ngakhale atawafunsa olembawo kuti alembe uthenga wothandiza, wokhudzana ndi ntchito -Mwachitsanzo, za magiredi kapena nyumba - maimelo anali ndi zokhutiritsa kwambiri ndipo anali akadali odzutsa kwambiri kuposa voicemail.

"Izi sizomwe timayembekezera konse. Tinkayembekezera kuti kugwiritsa ntchito imelo sikungakhale kocheperako kuposa voicemail, koma thupi limakhala losangalala kwambiri potumiza maimelo motsutsana ndi kusiya ma voicemail," wolemba wolemba Alan Dennis, Ph.D., pulofesa ku Kelley School of Business ku Indiana University.

Chifukwa chiyani izi? Ofufuzawo akuti popeza timadziwa kuti maimelo samangotulutsa mawu ndipo sitingathe kufotokoza za mawu, timapereka ngongole - mwina mozindikira kapena mosazindikira - powonjezera zabwino komanso momveka bwino, Dennis akufotokoza.

Zoonadi, pali zinthu zina zomwe zingakhaleponso. Mukalemba imelo, ndizosavuta kusintha zomwe mumanena, kukulolani kuti mupange uthenga womwe mukufuna, mosiyana ndi kuti muwupeze poyesa koyamba pa voicemail (chifukwa ndani akufuna kulembanso?!). Popanda kutchula, ophunzirawo anali azaka zakukoleji, popeza anakulira m'malo okhala ndi digito, ndipo mwina anali omasuka kugwiritsa ntchito imelo ndi mameseji kuti afotokoze momwe akumvera. Kotero ngakhale voicemail ingaganizidwe ngati njira 'yachilengedwe' yofalitsira nkhani kuchokera ku biology (popeza ili pafupi kulumikizana pamaso ndi pamaso), sizingakhale zachilengedwe kwa zaka zikwizikwi monga za m'badwo wakale- china chake chomwe mungatsimikizire mutangoyang'ana ma voicemails pafoni yanu kuchokera kwa amayi anu. (Ndimakukondani, amayi!)

Ngati mukudabwa za zotsatira pa wolandila ya mauthengawa, muyenera kuyembekezera kafukufuku wosiyana, koma kuti mufalitsidwe, koma ndizomveka kuganiza kuti mauthenga omveka bwino omwe amakopa kwambiri wotumayo angakhale othandiza kumapeto enanso -ndipo makamaka ngati ndi mwamuna pamapeto pake, Dennis akuwonetsa.

"Pali kafukufuku winanso wosonyeza kuti amuna amakonda kusatengera mawu ngati akazi; amamvetsera kwambiri zomwe zikunenedwa momveka bwino. Choncho ngati mukuyesera kupereka uthenga wachikondi kwa mwamuna, amatha kuti 'mupeze' kudzera pa imelo, "akutero. Inde, timatsatira izi!

Funso lotsatira lodziwikiratu: Nanga bwanji kutumizirana mameseji? Ngakhale ofufuzawo sanaphunzire pano mwachindunji, ndi "zomveka" kuti iwonso azitha kuyankhula ndi voicemail, akutero Dennis, chifukwa imapatsa mwayi wofanana ndi imelo. (Pazolembazo, onani Maupangiri 10 Otumizirana Mameseji ndi Pachibwenzi pa intaneti a Tech-Savvy Singles.)

Zoonadi, zonsezi sikutanthauza kunyoza kucheza pamasom’pamaso kapena pa foni, koma ndi chikumbutso chothandiza kuti njira imene timasankha imasintha zimene timalankhula. Tikukhulupirira, kafukufukuyu atithandiza kubwerera m'mbuyo ndikuwunikiranso 'malamulo amtundu' onse omwe taphunzitsidwa, ndipo, ndi mwayi uliwonse (momwe tikufunira!), Idzakhazikitsa msomali womaliza mu bokosi la voicemail yoopsa.

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