Hypnotism Si Njira Yokhayo Yokhala Ndi Mimba Yopanda Manja

Zamkati

• Mukutanthauza chiyani, 'wopanda manja'?
• Ndiye, mumangogwiritsa ntchito ziwalo zina za thupi m'malo mwake?
• Nanga bwanji ngati simukufunadi kukhala wathupi?
• Kupuma kwa ziwalo
• Matenda osokoneza bongo
• Momwe mungayambire
• Chotsani kupanikizika
• Pangani dongosolo lamasewera
• Dzuka
• Yesani!
• Khazikani mtima pansi
• Bweretsani m'manja mwanu ngati mukufuna
• Ngati muli pansi chifukwa chodzikonda
• Kudumphira mu kusamba kapena shawa
• Dzikonzekereni kuti mukhale ogonana
• Kulimbitsa thupi
• Yesetsani kukwera zidole zogonana
• Pezani saucy ndi suction chikho dildo
• Bwerani mipando ina…
• Ngati mukuyesera kusangalatsa (kapena kukondweretsedwa) ndi mnzanu
• Bumphu ndi kugaya
• Gwirani maunyolo kapena chidole chogonana
• Yesetsani ndi BDSM
• Bweretsani chidole chovala!
• Yesani kugwedera kwakanthawi
• Yesani kutseka!
• Kodi aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi vuto lopanda manja?
• Mfundo yofunika

Timaphatikizapo zinthu zomwe timaganiza kuti ndizothandiza kwa owerenga athu. Ngati mutagula maulalo omwe ali patsamba lino, titha kupeza ndalama zochepa. Nayi njira yathu.

Mukutanthauza chiyani, 'wopanda manja'?

"Ziphuphu zopanda manja zimatanthauza mtundu uliwonse wamatsenga womwe sunakhudze manja anu," watero wophunzitsa zachiwerewere Gigi Engle, Womanizer sexpert komanso wolemba "Zolakwa Zonse za F *: Upangiri Wogonana, Chikondi, ndi Moyo. ”

Nthawi zambiri sizimangotchula za ziphuphu zomwe zimabwera mothandizidwa ndi manja a mnzanu, zokometsera pakamwa, kapena chidole chogwiridwa ndi dzanja.

Koma, akuti, "Ngati mukuwona ngati 'wopanda manja,' ndizo."

Kupatula apo, palibe mlonda wazipata wazinyalala kapena zomwe zimayenerera kukhala manja-hand motsutsana ndi manja-off.

Ndiye, mumangogwiritsa ntchito ziwalo zina za thupi m'malo mwake?

Imeneyo ndi njira imodzi! Koma ikhozanso (ahem) kuchokera ku ziwalo zina za thupi la mnzanu.

Kapena zilizonse izi (mwa zina) zogonana:

• kugwedeza ndi kupera
• kusewera kumaliseche kapena kumatako (ndi china chilichonse kupatula dzanja kapena chala)
• zoseweretsa zogonana zovalira
• zoyipa
• kupuma kapena kutengeka ndi zolaula
• Kegels ndi kukumika minofu

Nanga bwanji ngati simukufunadi kukhala wathupi?

"Anthu ena samangokhala ndi ziphuphu zopanda manja, komanso ziphuphu zosakhudza," akutero Searah Deysach, wophunzitsa kugonana kwanthawi yayitali komanso mwini wa Early to Bed.

Ngati izi sizikumveka, taganizirani izi:

"Zilonda zam'mimba zimachitika muubongo zisanachitike kumaliseche," atero a Carol Queen, PhD, katswiri wazakugonana wa Good Vibrations komanso woyang'anira malo osungira zakale a Antique Vibrator Museum. "Chifukwa chake, nthawi zina, ziphuphu zimachitika muubongo zokha."

Mukuchita chidwi? Dziwani zambiri za kupuma kwamankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso malingaliro okokomeza pansipa.

Kupuma kwa ziwalo

Kupuma kwa ziwalo kumaphatikizapo kuyendetsa mphamvu zanu zamkati.

"Ndizofanana ndi kupuma kwakatikati kozama komwe kumagwiritsidwa ntchito munjira zina za kusinkhasinkha ndi yoga, ndipo kumaphatikizapo kupuma mwakuya, mwadala," akufotokoza a Deysach.

Katswiri wa Tantra komanso wazamalonda wotsimikizika a Barbara Carrellas adapanga MP3 yomwe mungagule yomwe imakuphunzitsani momwe mungachitire.

"Ngakhale kuti si aliyense amene angapeze ziwombankhanga zopumira, ngakhale atazichita, ndiyofunika kuyesera," akutero a Deysach.

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zambiri zakupuma kwamasamba, buku la Carrella "Urban Tantra: Kugonana Koyera Kwa Zaka Makumi Awiri-Awiri" ndi chinthu chabwino.

Matenda osokoneza bongo

"Matenda okokomeza ndi chizolowezi chotsikira mu chikumbumtima chanu mpaka pomwe dziko lonse lapansi silingakhalepo," akulongosola katswiri wamatenda Karen Botha yemwe ali ndi Sensual Massage ku Romford, Essex.

"Izi zimakuthandizani kuti mufufuze zomwe mumakonda kwambiri ndikusangalala ndi thupi lanu - osakhudzidwa konse," akutero.

Kwenikweni, ndikusinkhasinkha kowongoleredwa komwe kumakuthandizani kumasuka kwambiri kotero kuti mumatha kuganiza momwe mungakhalire. Zosangalatsa!

Kuti ayese, Engle akuti ndizosavuta ngati Googling "erotic hypnosis" ndikutsatira limodzi la makanema.

Momwe mungayambire

Tsopano kuti kumenyedwa kokhwima ndi kuphwanya kwa dzanja ndizoletsedwa, mumayamba bwanji?

Chotsani kupanikizika

Inu sali kuchita izi kuti mupeze chinthu china pamndandanda wama chidebe.

Mukuchita chifukwa ndimayesa zokondweretsa zatsopano, akutero a Deysach.

Kapena kuti mupumulitse thupi lanu kuti lisakhudzidwe.

Kapenanso ngati kudzilimbitsa thupi sikutheka kwa inu.

Cholinga chanu pano sikuti ndichisokonezo. Ndiko kufufuza mitundu yatsopano ya zosangalatsa!

Pangani dongosolo lamasewera

Kaya mukuyesa nokha kapena ndi mnzanu, sankhani momwe mungafufuzire ziphuphu zopanda manja.

Chifukwa mwina mukukopeka ndi chinthu chatsopano, muyenera kukambirana za malire, malire ovuta, ndipo mwina mupeza mawu otetezeka.

Dzuka

"Ndizovuta kukhala ndichisokonezo konse (nthawi zambiri) osadzuka," akutero Mfumukazi.

Nthawi yoyitanitsa njira zanu zopititsira patsogolo!

"Onerani kanema wokonda zachiwerewere, werengani zonyansa, zolankhula zonyansa ndi mnzanu, kapena gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro anu," akutero Deysach.

"Kudzutsidwa kudzadzaza magazi anu, kuwapangitsa kukhala omvera komanso otakasuka ku njira iliyonse yomwe mukugwiritsa ntchito," akuwonjezera.

Yesani!

Mukakhala okonzeka (nonse), bweretsani njira yopanda manja yomwe mwaganiza kuyesera.

Khazikani mtima pansi

"Mutha kupeza kuti njira yopanda manja imatanthawuza kuti chiwonongeko chimatenga nthawi yayitali kuti chichitike (kapena kuti chiwonongeko sichichitika konse), ndipo izi ndi zabwino komanso zachilendo," akutero Deysach. “Sangalalani ndi zomwe mukumva panjira.”

Bweretsani m'manja mwanu ngati mukufuna

"Choyambirira chomwe chimapha mphamvu zamatsenga ndikuchita zomwezo mobwerezabwereza," akutero Engle. "Chifukwa chake, kuyesa zosangalatsa zopanda manja ndi njira yosangalatsa yosinthira chibwenzi chanu."

Koma, akuti - ndipo izi ndizofunikira! - kufufuza njira zatsopano kumayenera kukhala zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.

Ngati itasiya kusangalala kapena ikayamba kukhala osakhazikika m'maganizo, m'maganizo, kapena mwakuthupi, palibe manyazi kubweretsa manja anu kuti musungire zosunga zobwezeretsera.

Ngati muli pansi chifukwa chodzikonda

"Zimakhala zosavuta kufufuza zatsopano komanso zochitika zogonana [solo] musanayese ndi wokondedwa," akutero Engle.

Umu ndi momwe.

Kudumphira mu kusamba kapena shawa

"Madzi amatha kukhala olimbikitsa kwambiri kwa anthu," akutero a Deysach.

Tsegulani madzi, onetsetsani kuti siotentha kwambiri, kenako ikani bod (kapena mutu) kuti madzi akumenyeni choncho. Khalani mpaka mutagundidwa ndi funde lachisangalalo.

Kwa iwo omwe ali ndi nyini, onetsetsani kuti musapewe kupopera madzi molunjika kunyini kwanu kuti musasokoneze pH yanu.

Njira ina: Mlengi madzi osinthira madzi a Waterslyde (shopu apa) pampompo kenako pogona, miyendo-ikufalikira pansi pamtsinje.

Dzikonzekereni kuti mukhale ogonana

Eeh, ndizotheka O pomwe iwe Zzz.

Nthawi zambiri, kugona tulo kumawoneka ngati chinthu chomwe wogona alibe ulamuliro waukulu.

Koma, malinga ndi Engle, "Pali chifukwa chokhulupirira kuti ngati mugonana paubongo mukamagona, kapena simunafike pachimake nthawi yakudzuka, ndizotheka kuti zichitike."

Yesani izi:

1. Onerani zolaula, mverani zolaula, kapena kutumizirana zolaula / zonyansa mnzanu asanagone.
2. Dzikhudzeni, koma musalole kuti pachimake.
3. Pita ukagone nthawi yomweyo.

"Palibe chitsimikizo choti mudzakhala ndi maloto achigololo kapena kutulutsa usiku," akutero Engle.

Koma zikafika poipa kwambiri, mutha kukhala ndi gawo labwino m'mawa mukadzuka!

Kulimbitsa thupi

Makamaka, yesetsani maziko anu.

"Kwa anthu ena, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ngati miyala yopanda pake, zopinira, ndi kukweza miyendo kumatha kuyankha mofananamo ndi thupi," a Queen akufotokoza. Izi zimadziwika kuti "coregasm."

Izi ndichifukwa choti mukamachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, mumakhalanso ndi contract komanso kupumula pansi. Ndipo pamalopo pamangokhala pakhosi pakhosi. Zosangalatsa!

Mukufuna kuyesa? Queen amalimbikitsa buku la katswiri wazakugonana Debby Herbenick "The Coregasm Workout: The Revolutionary Method for Better Sex Through Exercise."

Yesetsani kukwera zidole zogonana

M'malo mogwira vibrator yanu mukamagwiritsa ntchito, pali mapilo omwe mungagule omwe amakugwirani!

Kwa eni maliseche, Mfumukazi imalimbikitsa kukweza zidole za Liberator Wanda (kugula pano) kapena malo okwera a Liberator Axis Hitachi (kugula pano).

"Mutha kuyendetsa vibrator yanu mkati mwawo, kenako ndikwereni pilo ndikukweza chidole muli m'mimba," akutero.

Ngati muli ndi mbolo ndipo mumakonda kugwiritsa ntchito maliseche a maliseche, mutha kuyesa Fleshlight Motion ya Liberator Top Dog (gulani apa). Ikuthandizani kuti mugwiritse ntchito kachilomboka kamene mumapanga kanyumba kanu.

Chenjezo loyenera: Mapiri awa ndiokwera mtengo. Chifukwa chake yesani MacGyvering kukwera kwakanthawi kuchokera pamiyendo iwiri (kapena inayi) musanapereke nambala yanu ya CC.

Pezani saucy ndi suction chikho dildo

Ngati mumakonda kulowerera, pezani silicone dildo yokhala ndi chikho chomaliza kumapeto kwake, monga chikho cha Lovehoney chopindika cha silicone chotsitsa (gulani apa).

Ikwanire m'mphepete mwa kabati, khoma lamatailosi, mpando wa chipinda chodyera, kapena malo ena aliwonse omwe angayamwe. Ndiye kukwera!

Koma musakhale ouma khosi. Musanayambe kuchita zachilendo ndi chidolecho, gwiritsani dzanja lanu kuchipaka (ndi bod) ndi mafuta amadzimadzi.

Bwerani mipando ina…

"Tsamira pasofa wokhazikika kapena china chilichonse komwe ungawonjezere kukakamira kumaliseche," akutero a Queen. “Kankhana nalo ndipo uwone kumene likupita.”

“Ngati mungakonde kugona chifukwa cha izi, ikani pilo pakati pa miyendo yanu. Firmer mwina ndibwino, ”akuwonjezera.

Ngati mukuyesera kusangalatsa (kapena kukondweretsedwa) ndi mnzanu

Mwina boo wanu wangopeza mani. Kapena muli mu cast.

Kaya chifukwa chake ndi chiyani, ngati m'modzi, nonse, kapena nonse simungagwiritse ntchito manja anu, alipo chimanyu njira zosangalatsa kuti inu muzifikira limodzi.

Bumphu ndi kugaya

Bweretsani ku masiku anu aku sekondale ndikukhala ndi humpathon.

"Uzani mnzanuyo kupaka thupi lake ndi mabala anu mwendo, crotch, bondo, ndi msana," atero a Queen. "Mkangano ndi chisangalalo zitha kukupangitsani kuti musangalale."

Pamene akutero, ngati muli pamasom'pamaso, muwapsompsone. Ngati avomera, mutha kulumanso kapena kunyambita khosi lawo, kubuula m'makutu mwawo, kapena kusuntha kulikonse kopanda manja komwe mungabweretsere pachimake.

Ngakhale izi zitha kuchitika popanda, zina, kapena zovala zonse, kumbukirani kuti zovala zikangoyamba kubadwa, kutenga mimba ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana kumatha kukhala pachiwopsezo.

Gwirani maunyolo kapena chidole chogonana

Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mwatsegulidwa ndi sewero lamasewera, yesani izi:

Gwiritsani ntchito makhafu, zingwe, kapena mpango kuti mumange manja a mnzanuyo - mwina kutsogolo kwa thupi lawo, kumbuyo kwawo, kapena pamutu pawo.

Kenako, tengani choseweretsa choseweretsa chomwe mumakonda kwambiri cha mnzanuyo ndi lube ena, ndipo mupumulitseni chidole chija mpaka iwo atangoyamba kulira, kufuula, kapenanso kusekerera.

Zachidziwikire, mungafunikire kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu pang'ono. Koma mnzanu ndi wopanda manja, ndiye sangalalani nawo!

Yesetsani ndi BDSM

Ngati inu ndi boo anu nthawi zonse mumakhala mukuyesera BDSM, izi zitha kukuthandizani kuti mupereke mphepo:

"Mu BDSM, pali njira zambiri zosabereka komanso zopanda manja zosangalalira zomwe osewera ena amatha kutero," akutero Mfumukazi.

Newbie kinksters adzayenera kufufuza mozama asadayese zenizeni.

Koma nayi malingaliro ochepa a kinky omwe mungayang'anire:

• Mangani mnzanuyo pansi, kenako yesetsani kusewera kutentha powapsyopsyona ndi ayezi kapena pogwiritsa ntchito sera yotentha.
• Mangirira m'manja mnzako atagwetsa nkhope yako pabedi, ndipo pala kapena kuwakwapula.
• Lembetsani kunyoza kapena kuchititsa manyazi mnzanu kwinaku mukugwiritsa ntchito bondo lanu kapena zopindika kuti muwasewere.

"Wokondedwa wanu akuyenera kuvomereza ndikusangalala ndikumva kuti mukuwatumiza iyi kuti ikhale njira yabwino komanso yothandiza yopanda manja," akutikumbutsa Mfumukazi.

Onetsetsani kuti mwasankha masewera amtundu wanji omwe mungachite nawo nthawi isanakwane.

Bweretsani chidole chovala!

Si zoseweretsa zonse zakugonana zomwe zimafunika kuchitidwa.

"Zoseweretsa zambiri zimapangidwa kuti musamagwiritse ntchito manja anu mukamagwiritsa ntchito, ndipo mutha kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu kuchita china," akutero a Deysach.

Tchati chili pansipa chingakuthandizeni kudziwa chomwe chidole chopanda manja chimakupindulitsani.

Yesani kugwedera kwakanthawi

Ngati mukufuna kuti mnzanu achite zambiri kuposa kungopeza chidole m'malo mwake, mungaganizire chojambulira chovala, monga:

• We-Vibe Moxie (kugula pano)
• Kufuula O Premium (gulani apa)
• Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo (gulani apa)

Kwezani mmwamba, kenako perekani zowongolera (zenizeni) kwa mnzanu kuti ayesere kumanja kopanda manja kunyumba kapena popita.

Yesani kutseka!

Zofanana ndi kugaya kapena kugundana, "kutsekemera kumaphatikizapo kusisita pamodzi," akutero Deysach. Cholinga apa ndikutsutsana.

M'mbuyomu, liwu loti "scississ" lakhala likugwiritsidwa ntchito kutanthauza anthu awiri omwe ali ndi maliseche, koma anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lobadwa nalo amatha kulipatsa mphepo!

Ingokumbukirani: Matenda anu akangotuluka, matenda opatsirana pogonana komanso kutenga pakati kumatha kukhala pachiwopsezo. Njira yotchinga, monga madamu a mano, ikulimbikitsidwa kuti mugonane motetezeka.

Kodi aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi vuto lopanda manja?

Ayi! Sikuti aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi chilakolako ndi manja. Ndipo sikuti aliyense akhoza kukhala wopanda vuto popanda manja.

M'malo mwake, malinga ndi Mfumukazi, ndi ochepa okha omwe angakwanitse.

Komabe, akuti, pafupifupi aliyense mutha kukhala ndi chisangalalo chopanda manja. Zowona zimenezo!

Mfundo yofunika

Kuyesera zokopa zopanda manja - m'moyo wanu wothandizana kapena kugonana - ndi njira ina yosangalatsa yosewera ndi chisangalalo.

Inu mwina bwerani ndikuponya chala chanu m'zinthu zopanda manja. Kapena mwina simungatero!

Koma monga Engle akunenera, "Sangalalani ndi kufufuzaku. Ndizomwe zosangalatsa zopanda manja - komanso zogonana, makamaka - ziyenera kukhala pafupi. "

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