Philipps Wotanganidwa Ali Ndi Zinthu Zina Zosangalatsa Zonena Zokhudza Kusintha Dziko Lapansi

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• Pa Kupeza Njira Yake (Yachikazi):
• Pomwe Zilungamo Zapadziko Lonse Zimapambanitsa:
• Chifukwa Chake Kugawana Zinthu Zokhudza Anthu:
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Wosewera, wolemba wogulitsa kwambiri wa Izi Zingopweteka Pang'ono, ndipo woimira ufulu wa amayi ali pa ntchito yochepetsetsa komanso yosasunthika kuti asinthe dziko, nkhani imodzi ya Instagram panthawi imodzi. (Umboni: Wotanganidwa Philipps Anali Ndi Yankho Labwino Kwambiri Atakhala Amayi-Manyazi Chifukwa cha Zolemba Zake Zatsopano)

Pa Kupeza Njira Yake (Yachikazi):

“Anthu ena amamvetsa bwino cholinga chawo adakali aang’ono. Anga anayamba pang'onopang'ono. M'zaka zingapo zapitazi, ndazindikira kufunika kwachikazi kwa ine, komanso kumenyera ufulu wofanana ndi azimayi amtundu wina ndi akazi oberekana. "

Ndakhala wozindikira kwambiri mzaka zingapo zapitazi; kudzera munjira yolemba buku langa ndikudutsa zomwe ndakumana nazo ngati mkazi munthawi ino yamoyo ndikuwona momwe zimakhudzira yemwe ndakhala komanso momwe zimakhudzira akazi ena. Ndayamba kale ku malo amwayi ndipo zinthu zakhala zovunda kwa ine, kotero sindingathe kulingalira momwe zimakhalira zovuta kwa anthu ena padziko lapansi. Koma ndiyenera kuyesa-ndiye lingaliro lomwe ndabwera.

Kwa ine, gawo lalikulu la izi ndikukhala kholo ndi zonse zomwe zakhudza - kuwona ana anu m'mawonekedwe adziko lapansi ndikuwafunira zabwino. Makamaka kukhala ndi atsikana. Apanso, ndili ndi ana obadwa nthawi yomweyo kukhala ndi mwayi ndipo ndikuganiza kuti pali ntchito yayikulu yoti ichitikire amayi onse. Ndikufuna kuti adziwe za izi ndikukhala nawo pantchito yosintha machitidwewa. "

Pomwe Zilungamo Zapadziko Lonse Zimapambanitsa:

"Zitha kumveka zovuta kwambiri pakadali pano — chilengedwe, kholo lakale, kumvetsetsa momwe mungakhalire ogwirizana, zinthu zambiri. Zitha kumveka ngati zofooka, koma ngati mungoyang'ana pa chilichonse chomwe mungathe (munjira iliyonse yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito maluso anu), ndi momwe kusintha kwenikweni kumakhalirako. Sikuti amangowonetsa kuvota zaka ziwiri zilizonse kenako zaka zinayi zilizonse. Ndi zinthu zina zonse zomwe zili pakati.

Ndakhala ndikugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro awa a Talmud: Simukuyenera kumaliza ntchitoyi, komanso mulibe ufulu kuyisiya. Kotero ndimangopitirira. Sindikusowa mphamvu. Ndikhoza kupita kwa masiku. Ndipo ndimachita, zomwe ndi zabwino chifukwa tili ndi ntchito yambiri yoti tichite. ”

Chifukwa Chake Kugawana Zinthu Zokhudza Anthu:

"Tawonani, ndikudziwa kuti ndi intaneti, koma ndikukhulupirira moona kuti timasintha malingaliro ndi mitima kudzera pakulumikizana kwathu komanso nthano. Ndili wokonzeka kugawana momwe ndingathere ndikuyembekeza kuti mwina zingathandize wina kuganiza zaumoyo wamaganizidwe mosiyana kapena kumvetsetsa zambiri pazomenyera ufulu wamayi wosankha kapena kuchitira umboni zenizeni zakukwatiwa ndikulera ana.

Za ine ndekha, kugawana ndekha, malingaliro anga, nkhawa, zovuta, ndi nthawi zosangalatsa zedi ndi dera lino lomwe lamangidwa mozungulira zakhala zikundipatsa mphamvu ndipo, kwakukulu, zandidzaza ndi chiyembekezo chamtsogolo.

Komanso, sindikudziwa njira ina iliyonse kuti ndikhale! Ndayesera. Sindingathe. Ndine munthu wosasefedwa.” (Zogwirizana: Philipps Wotanganidwa Anapeza Kukonda Kwake Zolimbitsa Thupi Atafunsidwa Kuti Achepetse Kuwonda Kwa Gawo)

Magazini ya Shape, September 2019

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