Momwe Ndinaphunzirira Kukonda Masiku Opumula

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Nkhani yanga yothamanga ndi yodziwika bwino: Ndinakulira ndikudana nazo ndikupewa tsiku lowopsa la masewera olimbitsa thupi. Sindinayambe kuona pempholi kufikira nditamaliza maphunziro anga ku koleji.

Nditayamba kuthamanga komanso kuthamanga pafupipafupi, ndinakopeka. Nthawi zanga zinayamba kuchepa, ndipo mtundu uliwonse unali mwayi watsopano wodzilemba ndekha mbiri. Ndinali wachangu komanso wathanzi, ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga wachikulire, ndimayamba kukonda ndikuyamikira thupi langa chifukwa cha kuthekera kwake konse. (Chifukwa chimodzi chokha chomwe chiri chodabwitsa kukhala wothamanga watsopano-ngakhale mukuganiza kuti mumayamwa.)

Koma pamene ndinayamba kuthamanga kwambiri, ndinayamba kuchepa.

Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kuthamanga kwambiri. Mailosi ochulukirapo, masiku ochulukirapo pa sabata, nthawi zonse Zambiri.

Ndidawerenga ma blogs ambiri - ndipo pamapeto pake ndidayamba yanga. Ndipo atsikana onsewa amawoneka kuti amalimbikira tsiku lililonse. Chifukwa chake ndikhoza-ndipo ndiyeneranso kutero, sichoncho?

Koma ndikamathamanga kwambiri, ndimamvanso zochepa. Pambuyo pake, mawondo anga anayamba kupweteka, ndipo zonse zinali zolimba. Ndimakumbukira nthawi ina ndinawerama pansi kuti nditole kena kake pansi, ndipo mawondo anga anali kuwawa kwambiri moti sindinathe kuyimirira. M'malo mongothamanga, mwadzidzidzi ndimayamba kuchepa. WTF? Koma sindinkadziona ngati wovulala mwaukadaulo, motero ndidapitilirabe.

Nditaganiza zokonzekera mpikisano wanga woyamba, ndidayamba kugwira ntchito ndi mphunzitsi, yemwe mkazi wake (yemwenso anali wothamanga, mwachilengedwe) adazindikira kuti ndimabera pulogalamu yanga yophunzitsira posatenga masiku opumira monga ndalangidwira. Wophunzitsa wanga akanena kuti ndichotse tsiku lothamanga, ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kapena ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi.

"Ndimadana ndi masiku opuma," ndikukumbukira ndikumuuza.

“Ngati simukonda masiku opuma, ndi chifukwa chakuti simukugwira ntchito molimbika masiku ena,” anayankha motero.

Ouch! Koma anali kulondola? Ndemanga yake idandikakamiza kuti ndibwerere mmbuyo ndikuyang'ana pazomwe ndimachita komanso chifukwa chiyani. Nchifukwa chiyani ndimamva kuti ndikufunika kuthamanga kapena kuchita nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse? Kodi chinali chifukwa chakuti ena onse anali kuchita izo? Kodi ndichifukwa choti ndimawopa kuti ndikapuma tchuthi ndimatha kukhala wathanzi? Kodi ndinkachita mantha OMG kulemera ndikadzilola kuti ndizizilala kwa maola 24?

Ndikuganiza kuti chinali kuphatikiza kwazomwe zili pamwambazi, komanso kuti ndinali wokondwa kwambiri kuthamanga kapena kugwira ntchito. (Onani chitsogozo chanu chomaliza popumulira tsiku moyenera.)

Koma bwanji ngati ndakankhira mwamphamvu masiku angapo pa sabata, ndikulola kubwerera masiku ena? Mphunzitsi wanga ndi mkazi wake anali olondola mwachiwonekere. (Zachidziwikire kuti anali.) Zinatenga kanthawi, koma pamapeto pake ndinapeza nthawi yabwino pakati pakupuma ndi kupumula. (Si mtundu uliwonse udzakhala PR. Nazi zolinga zina zisanu zofunika kuziganizira.)

Zachidziwikire, ndimakonda masiku opuma tsopano.

Kwa ine, tsiku lopuma si "tsiku lopuma kuti ndisathamangire" komwe ndimatenga kalasi yozungulira mobisa komanso kalasi yotentha ya Vinyasa ya mphindi 90. Tsiku lopuma ndi tsiku laulesi. Tsiku lokweza-pa-pakhoma. Tsiku loyenda pang'onopang'ono ndi ana agalu. Ndi tsiku loti thupi langa lipezenso bwino, kumanganso, ndikubwerera mwamphamvu.

Ndipo mukuganiza chiyani?

Tsopano popeza ndimatenga tchuthi chimodzi kapena ziwiri sabata iliyonse, mayendedwe anga abweranso. Thupi langa silipweteka monga linkachitira kale, ndipo ndikuyembekezera kuthamanga kwanga chifukwa sindikuchita tsiku lililonse.

Aliyense - ndipo thupi lililonse - ndi losiyana. Tonse timachira mosiyana ndipo timafunikira kupuma mosiyanasiyana.

Koma masiku opuma sanandipangitse kuti ndikhale wolimba. Sindinanenepepo chifukwa chopuma tsiku limodzi pamlungu. Poyamba, ndimakhala masiku anga opumula osatsegula, kuti ndisalowe ku Strava ndikuwona kulimbitsa thupi kodabwitsa kwa OMG komwe anzanga anali kuchita ndili pagawo 8 la nyengo yayitali. Orange Ndi New Black mpikisano. (Ma social media akhoza kukhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima kapena mdani wanu wamkulu.)

Tsopano, ndikudziwa kuti ndikuchita zomwe zili zabwino kwa ine.

Ndipo ngati ine ndikanabwerera ndi kukamuuza munthu wanga wa giredi 5 chirichonse, kukanakhala kuti ndipite mtunda wa makilomita osabisala pansi pa zowutsa madzi. Zachidziwikire, kuthamanga kumatha kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri - bola mukamasamalira thupi lanu mtunda uliwonse.

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