Momwe Mungakhalire Osangalala Nthawi Zonse

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MELISSA RYCROFT, anali m'modzi mwa azimayi 25 omwe amapikisana ndi Jason Mesnick Bachelor. "Ndinapita pawonetsero ndi malingaliro otseguka ndi mtima wotseguka-ndipo ndikuganiza kuti aliyense akudziwa momwe zinathera!" nthabwala wazaka 26 zakubadwa. (Ngati munaphonya, Jason adafunsira Melissa kumapeto kwa nyengo, kenako adayimitsa chinkhoswe pa gawo lotsatira patangotha ​​​​masabata asanu ndi limodzi kuti akhale paubwenzi ndi wopambana pawonetsero.) zokhumudwitsa, Melissa adapita. Adakwanitsa kumaliza kumaliza malo achitatu Kuvina Ndi Nyenyezi (DWTS) , anakhala a Mmawa Wabwino waku America wopereka chithandizo chapadera, ndikulumikizananso ndi Tye Strickland, yemwe adakhala naye pachibwenzi kwa zaka ziwiri. Kenako Disembala watha, Melissa ndi Tye adati "Ndimatero" pamaso pa abwenzi pafupifupi 200 ndi abale ake paukwati womwe udachitikira kunyanja ku Isla Mujeres, Mexico. "Sindikukhulupirirabe," akutero. "Chaka chathachi, moyo wanga wakhala nthano!" Melissa anakhala pansi ndi Maonekedwe kugawana zomwe nthawi "yopenga" imeneyo idamuphunzitsa za kukondana, kukonzekera ukwati, ndikutsatira mtima wanu zivute zitani.

Chikondi chenicheni chidzakupezani

Melissa ndi Tye anali okwatirana kale Bachelor, ndipo kulekana kwawo ndi komwe kunapangitsa kuti Melissa apite pawonetsero. "Ndinasweka mtima kwambiri, ndipo ndimaganiza kuti zindichotsa ku Dallas ndikundiyambitsanso moyo," akutero Melissa. "Kuphatikiza apo, zidamupatsa Tye nthawi yoti atalikire kwa ine." Pasanapite nthawi kuchokera pamene chiwonetsero chotsatira chiwonetserocho, iye ndi Tye adalumikizananso, ndipo akhala osagwirizana kuyambira nthawi imeneyo. Melissa akuti. "Koma tikayang'ana m'mbuyo, timadziwa kuti zonsezi zinali gawo la chikonzero cha Mulungu kwa ife. Chilichonse chimayamba kuchitika nthawi yoyenera.

"Ndidamva wina akunena kuti mukapeza chikondi chenicheni, mudzakhala omasuka nthawi zonse. Tye ndi nyumba yanga: Ndiye malo anga amtendere, otonthoza, ndipo ndimakhala wosangalala kwambiri ndikakhala naye pafupi. "

Palibe chinthu chonga ukwati wangwiro

"Ndinkafuna kuti banja langa ndi banja la Tye likhale losangalala ndi ukwatiwo, koma ndithudi ndinkafunanso kukhala osangalala," akutero Melissa. "Chotero ndidapereka zakudya zosiyanasiyana ndikusewera nyimbo zosakanikirana, ndipo ndidawonetsetsa kuti mlendo aliyense kuyambira pamayendedwe kupita kuzinthu zakwaniritsidwa." Malangizo omwe amawakonda kwa okwatirana: Ingopumulani ndikukonzekera yanu tsiku langwiro. "Malingaliro anga anali oti ndimadya chakudyacho, ndimavina nyimbo, ndikucheza ndi amuna anga - osalola zinthu zazing'ono monga zotchinga zapakati kapena zopukutira m'manja kuti zindisokoneze. Ngakhale keke yanga idawonetsedwa yakuda ndipo maluwa anga anali onse amwalira, ukwati wanga ukadakhala wabwino kwa ine. "

Liwu lanu lamkati nthawi zonse limakhala lolondola

Zikafika pazambiri zaukwati wake-chilichonse kuyambira kukhala ndi abwenzi anayi apamtima paphwando lake laukwati mpaka kudumpha kukasangalala ndiukwati-Melissa adadziwa zomwe amafuna ndikudalira malingaliro ake. "Ndinapita ku Alfred Angelo kukatenga chovala changa, ndipo ndidayamba kukonda diresi yoyamba yomwe ndidawona m'kabokosi lawo," akutero. "Adawatumiza, ndidawayesa, ndipo zidachitikadi a kavalidwe. Sitoloyo idandikonzera kuti ndikonzekere maola atatu, koma ndidatuluka m'mphindi 20! "

Ndipo pankhani yaukwati, matumbo ake anali olondola pa izi: "Tye anali kuyambitsa bizinesi yake mu Januware, ndiye kuti kupitako sikunali bwino," akutero Melissa. "Aliyense adati tikuyenera kupita kokasangalala chifukwa cha chizindikirocho, komaathu zophiphiritsira zinali zomwe timayambira limodzi. "

Musalole mantha kukulepheretsani

Melissa atapatsidwa mwayi wolowa m'malo mwa Nancy O'Dell (pambuyo pake-- Pezani Hollywood Co-anchor adadzivulaza panthawi yamawonetsero) DWTS, panali kugwira kamodzi: Anali ndi masiku awiri okha kuti aphunzire chizolowezi. "Ndidachita mantha kuti ndimangoganiza," Aliyense mwina azikonda izi kapena adzadana nazo, "akutero. "Koma nditatuluka pang'onopang'ono, omvera adasokonekera. Ndimangomva kuti moyo wanga ukusintha nthawi imeneyo."

Amanena zowona: Atayimilira DWTS zinatsogolera Melissa ntchito ngati wapadera contributor pa Mmawa Wabwino waku America. "Ndidatsala pang'ono kufunsa opanga, 'Mukutsimikiza?'" Akutero. "Koma adati akufuna kuti ndibweretse umunthu wanga m'chiwonetserocho, ndipo ndidaganiza, 'Chabwino, ndikhoza kutero.' Wakhala ulendo wodabwitsa, ndipo sindikukhulupirira kuti ukupitilizabe. "

Osasokoneza konse yemwe inu muli

Ngakhale kuti anali ndi ntchito yatsopano mu bizinesi yawonetsero, wokondwerera wakale wa Dallas Cowboys alibe malingaliro osamukira ku Los Angeles kapena New York City. "Mabanja athu, abwenzi, ndi ntchito ya Tye zonse zili kuno ku Texas," akutero. "Tisunga miyoyo yathu komwe iwo ali komanso komwe akhalako nthawi zonse." Kwa omwe angokwatirana kumene, izi zikutanthauza masiku ambiri panjira. "Ndimayenda kangapo pamwezi," akutero Melissa. "Nthawi zina Tye amabwera nane, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala zosangalatsa kwambiri.Koma akalephera, tili ndi lamulo loti tisalekana kwa masiku opitilira anayi.

Kulimbitsa thupi kuyenera kukhala kosangalatsa

Maphunziro a DWTS Amafuna kuchita maola asanu ndi atatu, masiku asanu ndi awiri pa sabata, zomwe zidasiya Melissa atapukutidwa komanso atatopa. Iye anati: “Ndinali ndi makhalidwe abwino kwambiri pa moyo wanga. "Panthawi ina ndinayang'ana pa abs anga ndipo ndimatha kuwawerengera! Koma ilo si thupi langa lachibadwa, ndipo ndinadziwa kuti sindingathe kupitiriza kugwira ntchito mwamphamvu." Pambuyo pawonetsero, Melissa adasiya kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. "Ndinkafunika kuchoka pa izo, chifukwa sindinkafuna kutaya chisangalalo chogwira ntchito. Patatha mwezi umodzi, ndinayamba kuziphonya ndipo ndinamva kuti ndikonzeka kuyambiranso." Tsopano amathamanga mailosi awiri kapena atatu masiku anayi kapena asanu ndi limodzi pa sabata, ndi zolimbitsa thupi kunyumba. Ndipo ngakhale akuwoneka wosemedwa ndichabwino, Melissa akuti kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumamuthandizanso kuti akhale wolimba mtima. Iye anati: “Zimandithandiza kuti ndisamapanikizike. "Nditatha kuthamanga, mavuto anga achoka ndipo ndimangomva bwino tsiku lonse."

Kukhala wathanzi ndi moyo

Melissa sachita manyazi kuvomereza kuti kupuma kwake kumagwira ntchito kunakhala chakudya chaulere kwa onse. "Tye ndi ine timadya usiku angapo sabata limodzi ndikudya mitundu yonse yazakudya zamafuta," akutero. "Koma titayambanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, tidadziwa kuti tikuyeneranso kudya bwino - ndikofunikira kuti tipeze zotsatira." M'malo modya, banjali lidasintha zina ndi zina, kuphatikiza kudya nthawi zambiri kunyumba m'malo odyera. “Tsopano timadya ku sitolo kamodzi kokha pa sabata—kaya Lachisanu kapena Loweruka—ndipo ndimaphika masiku ena ambiri,” akutero Melissa. "Kwa zaka zingapo zapitazi, ndakhala ndikudzisamalira ndekha, ndipo pakali pano ndikusangalala kwambiri kudya patebulo pamene Tye afika kunyumba - tidzawona kuti zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji! Ndimapanga zambiri! nkhuku, koma ndangophunzira kumene kuphika tuna, ndipo ndi zokoma!"

Melissa wapezanso njira yodyera wathanzi popanda kusiya kudya mwachangu. "Ndikafunadi zala za nkhuku ndi zokazinga za ku France, ndimangokhala ndi chakudya cha ana," akutero. "Ndizokwanira kukhutiritsa chilakolako changa."

Pali tanthauzo limodzi lachigololo

Melissa wapeza chinsinsi chodzikongoletsa mosasamala kanthu momwe akuwonekera kapena zomwe wavala: kudzilimbitsa. "Chidaliro, ndi momwe mumawonetsera, ndizachigololo," akutero. "Ndimazichita ndikumwetulira ndikukhala wosangalala komanso wopepuka. Sindine Megan Fox wokonda zachiwerewere, koma ndine mtsikana wapakhomo-ndipo ndikudziwa kuti Tye amakopeka kwambiri. Aliyense ayenera kupeza tanthauzo lake la mawu -ndikudzionetsera! "

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