Momwe Mungadziwire Ngati Iye Ndi "Yemwe"

Zamkati

• Mayeso a Chivalry
• Mayeso a Ubwenzi
• Mayeso a Ndalama
• Kuyesedwa Kwamakhalidwe Abanja
• Mayeso Achikondi a "Titanic"
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Atha kusiya masokosi ake akuda pansi, koma atakutsegulirani chitseko. Pankhani ya maubwenzi, mumatenga zabwino ndi zoyipa. Koma mukamakhala pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata yemwe mukuganiza kuti mwina ndi Mr. Right, mungadziwe bwanji ngati iye ndiye amene muyenera kukhala naye moyo wanu wonse?

Tinapita kwa akatswiri kuti tidziwe momwe tingadziwire ngati munthu alidi Bambo Kulondola-kapena Bambo Pakali pano. Nayi mayeso asanu omwe mnzake wapamtima akuyenera kudutsa.

Mayeso a Chivalry

Patti Stanger

, Wopanga Millionaire, wolemba, komanso nyenyezi yakanema pa TV ya Bravo, akuti chivalry siyabwino kwenikweni makamaka pankhani ya 'abwino'.

"Zinthu monga kutsegula chitseko cha galimoto kapena kukupatsirani gawo lanu lachakudya mukamwaza mbale ku lesitilanti - izi ndi zizindikilo zofunika kuziwona ngati akuchitireni zabwino," akutero a Stanger.

Ndipo makamaka pamenepa, zochita zimalankhula mokweza kuposa mawu. "Mawu nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito m'malo mwa zibwenzi, koma alibe kanthu popanda kutsata," akutero Andrew Spanswick, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko komanso wokonda chizolowezi.

Mayeso a Ubwenzi

Ubwenzi wabwino umafunikira kulimba mtima komanso kulumikizana. "Kodi ungafunebe kucheza ndi munthu ameneyu ngakhale atakhala kuti sakusangalala nawe?" akufunsa 'katswiri wazamaubwenzi' Lindsay Kriger.

Ndipo muyenera kutenga wokondedwa wanu kuposa nkhope. "Kuoneka bwino kumatha, koma mawonekedwe oyipa amakhala kwamuyaya," akuwonjezera. Katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku California Colleen Long amavomereza. "Kodi ungasangalale kungodikirira pamzere naye ku DMV?" akufunsa. "Ubale wabwino kwambiri ndi anthu omwe atha kukhala mabwenzi abwino," akutero Stanger.

Mayeso a Ndalama

N’zosadabwitsa kuti ziŵerengero zimasonyeza kuti mikangano yokhudzana ndi ndalama ndi yosokoneza m’mabanja ambiri. Chifukwa chake, Stanger amalangiza kuti mudziwe komwe mungayime musanalumbire. "Mumagwiritsa ntchito bwanji ndalama zanu? Amagwiritsa ntchito bwanji ndalama zake? Kodi mumasiyana? Mumavomereza ndikunyalanyaza ngakhale atasunga ndalama ndipo inu ndiye amene mukuwononga ndalama? Onsewa ndi mafunso ofunikira kufunsa mukamayamba chibwenzi chilichonse chodzipereka. , "Akutero Stanger.

"Kusasamala ndalama kumabweretsa mavuto azachuma kwa nthawi yayitali," akutero a Tina Tessina, omwe ndi othandizira ku South California. “Ngati amatchova njuga ndalama kapena kungoziwonongera pa zoseŵeretsa zamakono pamene mukuyang’ana kuti muteteze tsogolo lanu lazachuma, ubwenziwo sugwira ntchito,” akuwonjezera motero.

Kuyesedwa Kwamakhalidwe Abanja

Kodi nonse mukufuna ana ofanana, ngati alipo? Kodi akuyembekeza kuti mutembenuke ku Chikatolika kulowa Chiyuda? "Kuyambira pachipembedzo mpaka kusamalira banja, kugonana, ndi ana, muyenera kukhala ndi zikhulupiliro ndi zikhulupiriro zomwezi pankhani yodzipereka," akutero katswiri wazamaubwenzi Kailen Rosenberg.

"Zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusamvana m'banja ndizakuti anthu amakhala ndi mfundo zosiyana pamitu yayikulu ndipo sizimakambidwiratu," Kriger akutero.

Mayeso Achikondi a "Titanic"

Stanger akuti tilingalire izi: Chombocho chimatsika ndipo inu muli m'madzi, mukuzizira. Kodi amakupatsirani mtengo kuti apulumutse moyo wanu? Zikuwoneka ngati ntchito yayikulu koma "Chikondi cha Titanic" monga Stanger amachitcha, ndichomwe chimafunika kuti pakhale mgwirizano wamoyo wonse. Iye anawonjezera kuti: “Akakukondani kwambiri moti mumangoganizira za inu nokha, ndi umboni wakuti ndinu wofunika kwambiri kwa iye.

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