Ndidawapatsa Bambo Anga Impso Kuti Ateteze Moyo Wake

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Tsiku lobadwa la abambo anga la 69, adagwa kunyumba ndikuthamangitsidwa kuchipatala. Impso zake zinali kulephera - matenda omwe adawadziwa kwa zaka zambiri koma sanatiuze. Abambo anga nthawi zonse amakhala munthu wachinsinsi kwambiri - mwina amakananso pang'ono - ndipo zinandipweteka kudziwa kuti akhala akuvutika mwakachetechete kwa nthawi yayitali. Tsiku lomwelo, adayamba dialysis-njira yomwe amayenera kupitiliza moyo wake wonse kuti akhalebe ndi moyo.

Madotolo adamuuza kuti afike pamndandanda woumba impso, koma kwa ine ndi azichemwali anga awiri sizinathandize: m'modzi wa ife akapereka impso. Mwa njira yochotsa, ine ndi amene ndikanachita. Mchemwali wanga Michelle alibe mwana ndipo njirayi imatha kukhudza kubereka kwake mtsogolo, ndipo Kathy ali ndi atsikana awiri achichepere. Mwana wanga Justin anali 18 ndipo wakula, kotero ine ndinali njira yabwino kwambiri. Mwamwayi, nditakayezetsa magazi kangapo, adandiona ngati wofanana.

Ndinganene moona mtima kuti sindinazengereze kupereka. Ndimauza anthu kuti ngati atakhala ndi mwayi wopulumutsa abambo awo, iwonso atero. Sindinkadziwanso kuopsa kwa opareshoniyo. Ndine mtundu wa munthu yemwe amathera maola akufufuza tchuthi chilichonse ndi malo odyera aliwonse, koma sindinagwiritsepo ntchito google kumuika impso-zoopsa, zotsatira zake, ndi zina zotero-kuti ndidziwe zomwe mungayembekezere. Misonkhano ya madotolo ndi upangiri zinali zoyenerera kuchitidwa opareshoni, ndipo anandiuza zoopsa-matenda, magazi, ndipo, nthawi zambiri, imfa. Koma sindinaike maganizo anga pa zimenezo. Ndinkachita zimenezi kuti ndithandize bambo anga, ndipo palibe chimene chikanandiletsa.

Njirayi isanachitike, madotolo adatiuza kuti tonse tichepetse thupi, popeza kukhala ndi BMI yathanzi kumapangitsa kuti opaleshoniyo ikhale yoopsa kwa onse omwe amapereka komanso wolandira. Anatipatsa miyezi itatu kuti tikafike kumeneko. Ndipo ndikuuzeni, pamene moyo wanu umadalira kuchepa thupi, palibe chomwe chimalimbikitsa! Ndinkathamanga tsiku lililonse ndipo ine ndi mwamuna wanga Dave tinkakwera njinga ndikusewera tenisi. Dave ankakonda kuchita nthabwala kuti amayenera "kundinyengerera" kuti ndichite masewera olimbitsa thupi chifukwa ndimadana nazo, osatinso!

Tsiku lina m'mawa, tinali kukhala m'nyumba ya makolo anga, ndipo ndinali pa chopondera m'chipinda chawo chapansi. Abambo anga adatsikira, ndipo ndidayamba kulira chapakati. Kumuwona iye pamene mapazi anga akugunda pansi pa lamba kunandikhudza ine: Moyo wake-kukhoza kwake kukhala pano ndi ana ake ndi adzukulu-ndicho chifukwa chomwe ndinali kuthamanga. Palibe china chofunikira.

Patapita miyezi itatu, ndinali nditatsika ndi mapaundi 30 ndipo bambo anga anali atatsika ndi 40. Ndipo pa November 5, 2013, tonse tinalowa pansi pa mpeni. Chomaliza chomwe ndikukumbukira chinali kuthamangitsidwa mchipindacho pomwe amayi anga ndi amuna anga adakumbatirana ndikupemphera. Anandiyika chigobacho, ndipo m'masekondi pang'ono ndidakhala pansi.

Zowona, opareshoniyo inali yovuta kuposa momwe ndimayembekezera - inali njira yamaola awiri yotulutsa mawonekedwe a laparoscopic yomwe idandichotsa pantchito yamasabata atatu. Pazonse, zinali zopambana! Thupi la bambo anga linasintha mmene adokotala ankayembekezera, ndipo tsopano ali ndi thanzi labwino. Achimwene anga awiri adatcha impso zathu Kimye impso za karate (za abambo anga) ndi Larry zotsalira (zanga), ndipo adatipangira t-malaya omwe tidavala ku National Kidney Foundation Annual 5K Walk yomwe tidachita limodzi pazaka ziwiri zapitazi zaka.

Panopa, ine ndi makolo anga tikugwirizana kwambiri kuposa kale. Ndimakonda kuganiza kuti kupereka impso zanga kunakwaniritsa zaka zanga zonse zaunyamata wopanduka, ndipo ndikudziwa momwe amayamikirira kudzipereka kwanga. Ndipo ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito chowiringula cha impso imodzi nthawi iliyonse yomwe sindikufuna kuchita zinazake. O, mukufuna thandizo kutsuka mbale? Osandivutitsa-ndili ndi impso imodzi!

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