"Si Viagra Yachikazi": Mkazi Mmodzi Amagawana Momwe Addyi Anasinthira Moyo Wake Wogonana

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Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinakumana ku koleji, ndipo chemistry yathu yogonana inali yodabwitsa kuyambira pachiyambi. Pakati pa zaka makumi awiri mpaka zaka zoyambirira zaukwati wathu, timagonana kangapo patsiku, tsiku lililonse la sabata. Chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zaubwenzi wathu, komanso gawo lofunikira pakudziwika kwanga: ndinali wokonda komanso wogonana, ndipo ndimakonda kukhala woyambitsa.

Zonsezi zinasintha pamene ndinali ndi mwana wanga woyamba, ali ndi zaka 30. Inde, ndithudi, chirichonse chokhudza moyo wanu chimasintha mukakhala ndi mwana: thupi lanu, ntchito yanu, mphamvu zanu, kuganiza bwino, ubale wanu. Sindinkafuna kuti izi zikhale zoona kwa ine, koma zinali choncho. Kubereka kunasokoneza chikhumbo changa chonse chogonana ndi amuna anga. Osati momwe ndimayembekezera, komabe. Sizinali ngati titatopa kwambiri chifukwa chodyetsa mwanayo 3 koloko m'mawa; chinali chakuti sindinadziwe kufunika kogonananso. Mwamuna wanga atandigwira - osati kungoyambitsa, koma kundigwira kapena kundikonda - ndinasiya. (Phunzirani zinthu 16 Zomwe Zitha Kumiza Kugonana Kwanu (kapena Kwake).)

Mwamuna wanga ananyansidwa ndipo anakanidwa. Ndinadzimva kuti ndili kutali komanso ndikudziimba mlandu kwambiri. Ndimayesetsa kupanga chibwenzi naye milungu iwiri iliyonse kapena kupitilira apo, koma zinali chifukwa chokakamizidwa m'malo mokhumba. Tinali ndi mwana wina wamwamuna, koma pofika zaka 35 ndimaganiza zothetsa banja. Tidali ngati anzathu awiri ogwira nawo ntchito omwe kulumikizana kwawo kumangokhudza kukonzekera madokotala kapena kusamalira masana. Tinali okondana koma chikondi chathu chinatha.

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"" Pamene amuna anga adandigwira - osati kungoyambitsa, koma kuti ndikumbatirane kapena kukhala wachikondi - ndidabwerera. "

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Koma sindinkafuna kwenikweni kuti ukwati wanga uthe, choncho ndinayamba kuyesa njira zosiyanasiyana zochiritsira. Ndinayesa mankhwala owonjezera a zitsamba, zomwe sizinagwire ntchito ndipo zinandifikitsa pamndandanda wamatumiziro a zoseweretsa zogonana ndi zowonjezera mbolo. Ndinalankhula ndi dokotala ndikuyesa mankhwala oletsa kuvutika maganizo, ngati kusowa kwanga mphamvu kapena kugwirizana kwamaganizo kunali kokhudzana ndi chinachake chozama. Pomaliza, ndinayesa jakisoni wa testosterone, ndikuganiza kuti vuto langa liyenera kukhala la mahomoni kuyambira pomwe lidabereka. Majekeseniwa anandipatsa kupsya mtima ndi kugunda kwa mtima-pamodzi ndi tsitsi lina lachibwano-koma sanandibwezeretse chilakolako changa.

Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinali ofunitsitsa kuyesa chilichonse, choncho atapeza malonda mu Washington Post kufunafuna maphunziro achikazi kuti apeze mankhwala owonjezera libido, adagawana nane nthawi yomweyo. Ndinaganiza Ndikuyeseranso chiyani? ndipo adalembetsa.

Ndisanayambe kuyesa kwachipatala, ofufuzawo adayesa thupi ndikuyesa zambiri zamaganizo ndi zamaganizo. Ndimaganiza kuti andikana chifukwa zowonekeratu kuti kukhala ndi ana inali nkhani pachibwenzi changa - osati thupi langa - koma ndinadabwa kuti ndidasankhidwa. Adagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "chisokonezo chofuna kugonana," kapena HSDD, pofotokoza zomwe ndakhala ndikulimbana nazo, ndipo sindinakhulupirire kuti panali dzina lenileni la izi. Ndinali ngati, dikirani, ichi ndi chinthu chenicheni? Ine sindiri woipa pa moyo? Zoipa m'banja? Ndinamva kukhala womasuka kwambiri. (Pezani zonse zomwe mukufuna kudziwa za Piritsi la "Mkazi Viagra".)

Ndinayamba kumwa mapiritsi, ndipo chaka chamawa ndi theka ndimakumana ndi madotolo kapena namwino pafupifupi kamodzi pamwezi kuti tikambirane zomwe zandichitikira. Nthawi iliyonse, ndimalemba mafunso owerengera zinthu monga chilakolako changa chogonana, momwe thupi langa limachitira, komanso kuchuluka kwa zogonana zomwe ndidakhala nazo mwezi watha.

Sindimaganiza kuti pali mwayi ku gehena izi zigwira ntchito. Ndinali nditamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo onsewa popanda zotsatira. Ndinalembera mlanduwu chifukwa ndinalonjeza mwamuna wanga kuti ndiyesa chilichonse kuti tipeze ubale wathu.

Pafupifupi mwezi umodzi, ndinamva mphamvu yatsopano, koma inali yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi: kuthamanga. Ndinali ndisanathawe zaka zambiri, koma ndinali ndi chilakolako ndipo ndinataya mapaundi angapo kuchokera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi mwachisawawa. Wow, ndiyang'ane! Ndinapitiliza kuganiza. Ndikuyang'anira moyo wanga! Ndinadzimva kukhala wokwanira komanso wachigololo, ndipo nthawi inafika pamene ndinazindikira kuti ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinagonana kawiri pa sabata imodzi. Uwu. Mukukonda bwanji, Ndimaganiza.

Kunena zowona, ndimaganiza kuti ndakwaniritsa izi ndekha. Ndine amene ndinamangirira nsapato zanga, ndine amene ndinataya thupi, ndipo ndimene ndimamva kuti ndine woyenera komanso wokongola, ndiye kuti ndinali wofunitsitsa kuchita zogonana. Kenako zinachitika kawiri sabata yotsatira, ndipo sabata yotsatira. Nditawona manambala amafunso anga ang'ono, ndinazindikira kuti mwina ndi mankhwalawa.

Sizinali ngati kuti ndinali wodwala mwadzidzidzi nthawi yonse. Sitinali kuzichita patebulo la kukhitchini, kapena kusowa ntchito. Ndinkangomva ngati inenso-mkazi yemwe amakonda kugonana ndipo amakopeka ndi mwamuna wake. Zinali wabwinobwino moyo. (Kodi mukuchita ndi Low Sex Drive? 6 Njira Zokwezera Libido Yanu.)

Mbali ina ya mayeserowo inali kuphunzira za zotsatira zosiya kumwa mankhwalawo. Patangotha ​​mwezi umodzi titasiya, ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinayambanso kugonana mwa apo ndi apo pakatha milungu ingapo iliyonse. Zinandipweteka. Izi zinali zaka zapitazo.

Popeza ndidachita bwino kwambiri pamlanduwu, ndimaganiza kuti mapiritsiwa azikhala pamsika m'miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena kuposerapo. Ndinkafuna kuti ibwerere! Sindikadaganiza kuti zitha kupitilira zaka zisanu FDA isanavomereze. Ndinakwiya kwambiri. Sanamvetse kufunikira kwa mapiritsiwa? Dokotala wanga adandiyika pa Wellbutrin antidepressant ndikuyembekeza kukonzanso mphamvu ndi kulumikizana, koma zonse zomwe zidandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine dzanzi kwambiri. Zinali zovuta, koma ukwati wanga unali wolimba panthawiyo. Mwamuna wanga anazindikira kuti sindikunama; Ndinkamukonda, ndimafuna kukhala naye, inde anali anakopeka naye. Ndinali ndi vuto ili la thanzi.

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"Ndinangodzimva ngati ndekha-mkazi yemwe amasangalala ndi kugonana komanso amakopeka ndi mwamuna wake."

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Tidakhala tikuonera nkhani pa TV ngati banja pomwe adalengeza kuti Addyi ivomerezedwa. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinayang'anani wina ndi mnzake m'maso mwathu mokondwera. Tonse tinali okwiya, komabe, ndi momwe anthu amalankhulira. Viagra wamkazi! Monga kuti akazi akungosowa erection nthawi yonseyi. Chonde.

Pali zochuluka kwambiri ku mankhwalawa kuposa kukhala owopsa, ndipo pali zochuluka kwambiri zogonana kuposa kukhala ndi erection (kapena kukhala wonyowa). Theka la maukwati likutha, ndipo anthu amayang'ana mmbuyo ndikuganiza kuti kusintha kunali kukhala ndi ana. Ndikadakhala ndikunena izi, ndili ndi zaka 35. Chibwenzi chathu chidasokonekera, koma sichinali chifukwa cha ana athu abwino. Zinali chifukwa chakuti chinachake chinali kundichitikira ine mwa mankhwala. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndadziwa izi tsopano, ndipo ndine wokondwa kuti mankhwalawa atuluka mu Okutobala. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tili ndi tsiku lodziwika bwino mu kalendala yathu, ndipo tidzakhala oyamba pamzere ku pharmacy.

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