Meghan Trainor Amalankhula Mosabisa Zokhudza Ululu Wam'maganizo ndi Wakuthupi Wapa Mimba Yake Yovuta ndi Kubereka
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Nyimbo yatsopano ya Meghan Trainor, "Glow Up" itha kukhala nyimbo kwa aliyense amene watsala pang'ono kusintha moyo wake, koma kwa Trainor, nyimbozo ndizokhudza mtima kwambiri. Atabereka mwana wake woyamba, Riley, pa February 8, Wophunzitsa anali wokonzeka kulandira thupi lake, thanzi lake, ndi moyo wake - zonse zomwe zidayesedwa panthawi yapakati komanso yobereka yovuta yomwe idamsiya mwana wake chipinda cha ana odwala mwakayakaya masiku anayi.
Mtsinje woyamba paulendo woyamba wopambana wa Grammy wopita ku mimba udabwera m'ndende yake yachiwiri, pomwe adalandira matenda osayembekezereka: matenda ashuga, matenda omwe amakhudza pafupifupi 6 mpaka 9% ya amayi apakati ku United States, malinga ndi Centers for Disease Kuwongolera ndi Kupewa.
"Popanda matenda a shuga, ndinali wodziwika bwino," woimbayo akuti Maonekedwe. "Ndinali wabwino kwambiri pokhala ndi pakati, ndinachita bwino. Sindinayambe ndadwalapo pachiyambi, ndinadzifunsa zambiri, 'Kodi ndili ndi pakati? Ndikudziwa kuti sindinakhalepo ndi mkombero wanga ndipo mayeso amatero, koma ndikumva bwino. .'"
Wophunzitsa akuti inali nthabwala yosasinthasintha pakumufufuza komwe kumamupangitsa kuti apezeke ndi matenda, zomwe sizimayambitsa zizindikiritso za amayi ambiri. "Ndinayezetsa magazi chifukwa ndimayesa kuchita nthabwala ndikumasuka," akutero. "Ndidati," amayi anga adati ali ndi matenda ashuga koma akuganiza kuti ndichifukwa adamwa msuzi wawukulu wa lalanje m'mawa womwewo ndipo ndizomwe zidamupatsa shuga m'magazi ake. "
Malingaliro opepuka a Ophunzitsa mosazindikira anachenjeza madokotala ake za mbendera yofiira yomwe itha kukhala. Ngakhale zomwe zimayambitsa sizimveka bwino, azimayi ambiri omwe ali ndi vuto la matenda ashuga amakhala ndi achibale awo omwe ali ndi matendawa kapena mtundu wina wa matenda ashuga. Ndipo mayi ake omwe anali ndi shuga wamagazi sikunali chabe nthabwala yoseketsa - idatsimikizira madotolo ake kuti amayi ake mwina adakumana ndi shuga, chomwe chingakhale chizindikiro cha matendawa. Poyesa matenda a shuga mwa amayi apakati, madokotala nthawi zambiri amayesa kuyerekezera shuga komwe wodwala amamwa njira yotsekemera kwambiri atasala kudya ndiyeno amayesedwa magazi pafupipafupi kwa maola angapo.
Zotsatira zoyamba za wophunzitsa zinali zachilendo, koma kenako adapezeka kuti ali ndi matendawa milungu 16. "Muyenera kuyang'ana magazi anu mukatha kudya komanso m'mawa, ndiye kuti kanayi patsiku mumangobaya chala chanu ndikuyesa magazi anu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti milingo yanu ili bwino," akutero. "Mukuyambiranso kudya chakudya ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi ubale wabwino ndi chakudya, chifukwa zinali zovuta."
Pomwe Wophunzitsa poyamba adazitcha kuti "kugundana panjira," kuwunika komanso kuwunika kosalekeza kumakhudza kwambiri malingaliro ake. “Masiku omwe umalephera mayeso koma unachita zonse bwino, umangoona ngati wolephera kwambiri,” akutero. "[Ndinamva] monga, 'Ndine wolephera monga mayi kale ndipo mwanayo palibe nkomwe.' Zinali zovuta kwambiri m'maganizo. Ndikuganizabe kuti kulibe [chuma] chokwanira chothandizira azimayi odwala matenda ashuga.
Koma matendawo anali vuto loyamba lomwe Trainer anakumana nalo pobereka mwana wake. Monga adauza otsatira ake a Instagram mu Januware Instagram positi, khanda lake linali lofewa, kutanthauza kuti anali atakhazikika mchiberekero, mapazi ake ataloza kumtunda - vuto lomwe limachitika pafupifupi 3-4% ya mimba zonse ndipo zimapangitsa kubadwa kwa nyini kukhala kovuta kwambiri, mwinanso kosatheka.
"Pa masabata 34, anali pamalo oyenera, anali wokonzeka kupita!" akutero. "Ndipo sabata yotsatira, adasuzumira. Amangokonda kukhala chammbali. Ndidakhala ngati, 'ndiwosangalatsa pano, chifukwa chake ndikonza ubongo wanga kuti ndikonzekere gawo la C.'" (Wokhudzana: Shawn Johnson Anena Kukhala Gawo la C Linamupangitsa Kumva Ngati "Walephera")
Koma zomwe Mphunzitsi amakumana nazo pakubereka - masiku ochepa chabe amanyazi tsiku lake - chinali chopinga china chomwe samayembekezera chomwe amadzimva kuti sanakonzekere. "Potsiriza atatuluka, ndikukumbukira kuti tinali kumuyang'ana ngati, 'wow ndi wodabwitsa,' ndipo ndinadabwa," akutero. "Tonse tinali okondwa kwambiri ndikukondwerera ndiyeno ndinali ngati, 'bwanji sakulira? Kulira kumeneko kuli kuti?' Ndipo sizinabwere konse. "
Mphindi zingapo zotsatira zinali kamvuluvulu ngati Trainor - adamwa mankhwala komanso ali wokondwa atawona mwana wake kwa nthawi yoyamba - adayesa kugwirizanitsa zochitika kuchokera kuseri kwa drapes opaleshoni. “Iwo anati, ‘timutenga,’ ndipo mwamuna wanga anawachonderera kuti andilole ndimuyang’ane,” iye akutero. "Chifukwa chake adathamanga ndipo [kenako] adathamangira komweko, kotero ndidakhala ndi mphindi imodzi kuti ndimuyang'ane."
Riley adathamangira naye ku NICU komwe adapatsidwa chubu chodyetsera. "Adandiuza kuti zinali za 'nthawi yomwe akufuna kudzuka," akutero. "Ndinali ngati, 'dzuka?' Anandiuza kuti izi zimachitika ndi ana a gawo la C ndipo ndinali ngati, 'bwanji sindinamvepo za izi? machubu paliponse? ' Zinali zokhumudwitsa kwambiri komanso zovuta kwambiri. " (Yokhudzana: Ulendo Wosangalatsa wa Mkazi Uyu Kukhala Amayi Palibe Chosangalatsa)
Limbikitsidwa ndi khanda lomwe lidatuluka mwa iwe. Inu munakula chinthu chimenecho. Ndi chifukwa cha inu iwo ali moyo pompano - ndizodabwitsa. Chifukwa chake tengani izi ndikudzilimbikitsa. Ndikufuna kuti mwana wanga azindiwona ndikukwaniritsa zonse kuti adziwe kuti akhoza kuchita zimenezo, nayenso.
Heather Irobunda, MD, mayi wazamisala ku New York City komanso membala wa khonsolo ya upangiri wa Peloton akuti nkhani ya woyimbayo ndiyodziwika bwino. "Zikumveka ngati mwana wake atha kukhala ndi tachypnea wosakhalitsa wa wakhanda," akutero, powona kuti amawona vutoli kangapo sabata pamachitidwe ake. TTN ndimatenda opumira omwe amawoneka atangobereka kumene nthawi zambiri amakhala osakwana maola 48. Kafukufuku wokhudza kubereka kwa nthawi yayitali (makanda obadwa pakati pa masabata 37 ndi 42), akuwonetsa kuti TTN imachitika pafupifupi 5-6 pa 1,000 obadwa. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kwa makanda obadwa kudzera mu gawo la C, obadwa msanga (masabata 38 asanakwane), ndipo amabadwa kwa amayi omwe ali ndi matenda a shuga kapena mphumu, malinga ndi US National Library of Medicine.
TTN imakonda kukhala mwa ana obadwa kudzera mwa gawo la C chifukwa "mwana akabadwa kudzera mu nyini, ulendowu kudzera mu ngalande yobadwira umafinya chifuwa cha mwanayo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti madzi ena omwe amasonkhana m'mapapu afinyidwe ndikutuluka tulukani m’kamwa mwa khanda,” akufotokoza motero Dr. Irobunda. "Komabe, panthawi ya C-gawo, palibe kufinya kumaliseche, kotero kuti madzi amatha kusonkhanitsa m'mapapu." (Zogwirizana: Chiwerengero cha Kubadwa kwa C-Gawo Kwawonjezeka Kwambiri)
"Nthawi zambiri, timakhala ndi nkhawa kuti mwana amakhala ndi izi ngati, pakubadwa, mwanayo akuwoneka kuti akugwira ntchito molimbika kuti apume," akutero Dr. Irobunda. "Komanso, titha kuzindikira kuti mpweya wa mwana ndi wochepa kuposa momwe zimakhalira. Ngati izi zichitika, mwanayo ayenera kukhala ku NICU kuti apeze mpweya wambiri."
Trainor akunena kuti patapita masiku angapo, Riley potsiriza anayamba kusintha - koma iye mwiniyo sanali wokonzeka kupita kunyumba. Iye anati: “Ndinamva ululu kwambiri. "Ndinali ngati, 'Sindingakhale ndi moyo kunyumba, ndisiyeni ndikhale pano.'"
Atapumulanso tsiku lina kuchipatala, Ophunzitsa ndi amuna awo, wochita sewero Daryl Sabara, adabweretsa Riley kunyumba. Koma ululu wakuthupi ndi wamaganizidwe wa zomwe zidachitikazo zidawakhudza. Iye anati: “Ndinapezeka kuti ndili m’malo opweteka omwe sindinakumanepo nawo. "Chinthu chovuta kwambiri chinali pamene [ndinabwera] kunyumba, ndi pamene [] ululu unagunda. Ndinkayenda ndikukhala bwino koma kenako ndinagona kuti ndigone ndipo ululuwo unkagunda. Ndinakumbukira opaleshoniyo ndipo ndinkakhala bwino. Ndinkamuuza mwamuna wanga kwinaku ndikulira, 'Ndikumvanso kuti akuchita opaleshoniyo.' Tsopano ululuwo umalumikizidwa ndi kukumbukira kotero kuti kunali kovuta kuthana nawo. [Zinanditengera] ngati milungu iwiri kuti ubongo wanga uiwale za izi. " (Zokhudzana: Ashley Tisdale Anatsegula Zake "Zomwe Si Zachilendo" Pambuyo Pakubereka)
Kusintha kwa Mphunzitsi kunabwera atalandira chidindo chovomerezekanso kuti ayambenso kugwira ntchito - mphindi yomwe akuti idatsegula njira ya "kuyatsa" komwe amayimba panjira yake yatsopano, yomwe ikupezeka muntchito yaposachedwa ya Verizon.
"Tsiku lomwe dokotala adandivomereza kuti ndichite masewera olimbitsa thupi - ndimadabwa nalo - nthawi yomweyo ndidayamba kuyenda ndikuyamba kumva kuti ndibwerera kukhala munthu," akutero. "Ndinali ngati, ndikufuna kuganizira za thanzi langa, ndikufuna kubwereranso kuti ndimvenso thupi langa. Pamene ndinali ndi pakati pa miyezi isanu ndi inayi, sindinkatha kuyimirira pampando, kotero sindinathe kudikira kuti ndiyambe ulendo wanga. kuti andiyang'anire mwana wanga. " (Zogwirizana: Kodi Mungachite Bwanji Kuchita Masewera Pobereka?)
Trainor anayamba kugwira ntchito ndi katswiri wa zakudya ndi mphunzitsi, ndipo miyezi inayi atabereka, akuti akuyenda bwino - komanso Riley. "Ali bwino tsopano," akutero. "Wathanzi kwathunthu. Aliyense akungomva za izi tsopano ndipo ali ngati, 'chinthu chomvetsa chisoni bwanji,' ndipo ndimakhala ngati, 'o tikuwala tsopano - yomwe inali miyezi inayi yapitayo.'
Wophunzitsa akuti akuyamikira thanzi la banja lake, koma akuzindikira mwayi womwe adapeza atangoyamba kumene kukhala mayi. Amapereka chifundo kwa amayi ena apakati ndi amayi anzake atsopano, ndipo amapereka mawu anzeru.
"Kupeza njira yabwino yothandizira ndikofunikira," akutero. "Ndili ndi amayi odabwitsa kwambiri komanso mwamuna wodabwitsa kwambiri omwe amakhalapo tsiku lililonse kwa ine ndi gulu langa. Mukamadzizungulira ndi anthu abwino, zinthu zabwino zimakuchitikirani. Ndipo khalani olimbikitsidwa ndi mwana ameneyo amene anatuluka mwa inu. Inu munakula chinthu chimenecho. Ndi chifukwa cha inu iwo ali moyo pakali pano - ndizodabwitsa. Choncho tengani izi ndikudzilimbikitsa nokha. Ndikufuna mwana wanga azindiyang'ana ndikukwaniritsa zonse kuti adziwe kuti akhoza kutero, nayenso."