Kodi Kukondera Ndi Chiyani, ndipo Zimakukhudzani Bwanji?

Zamkati

• Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira
• Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu ali ndi tsankho?
• Kodi kukondera kumawonetsa bwanji?
• Khalidwe lazachuma
• Psychology yamagulu
• Momwe mungathetsere kusakondera
• Mfundo yofunika

Zinthu zofunika kuziganizira

Anthufe tili ndi chizolowezi chofuna kutipangitsa kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zokumana nazo zolakwika kuposa zokumana nazo zabwino kapena zosalowerera ndale. Izi zimatchedwa kusakondera.

Timaganiziranso pazolakwika ngakhale zokumana nazo zosafunikira kwenikweni kapena zosafunikira.

Ganizirani za kusakondera monga izi: Mudapitako mu hotelo yabwino madzulo. Mukamalowa mchimbudzi, mumakhala kangaude wamkulu wosambira. Mukuganiza kuti ndi chiani chomwe chingakhale chikumbukiro chowoneka bwino kwambiri: mipando yabwino ndi malo okhala mchipinda, kapena kangaude omwe mudakumana nawo?

Anthu ambiri, malinga ndi nkhani ya 2016 ya Nielsen Norman Group, azikumbukira bwino lomwe kangaude.

Zochitika zoipa zimakhudza anthu koposa zabwino. M'chaka cha 2010 chofalitsidwa ndi University of California, Berkeley anagwira mawu a katswiri wa zamaganizo Rick Hanson kuti: "Maganizo ali ngati Velcro chifukwa cha zokumana nazo zoipa komanso Teflon kwa abwino."

Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu ali ndi tsankho?

Malinga ndi katswiri wama psychology a Rick Hanson, kukondera kwakusokonekera kwamangidwa muubongo wathu kutengera zaka mamiliyoni asinthidwe zikafika pothana ndi ziwopsezo.

Makolo athu amakhala m'malo ovuta. Amayenera kusonkhanitsa chakudya popewa zopinga zakupha.

Kuzindikira, kuchitapo kanthu, komanso kukumbukira nyama zolusa komanso zoopsa zachilengedwe (zoyipa) zidakhala zofunika kwambiri kuposa kupeza chakudya (chabwino). Omwe adapewa zovuta zomwe adakumana nazo adadutsa majini awo.

Kodi kukondera kumawonetsa bwanji?

Khalidwe lazachuma

Imodzi mwanjira zomwe kusakhulupirika kukuwonekera ndikuti anthu, malinga ndi nkhani ina ya 2016 ya Nielsen Norman Group, ali pachiwopsezo chazowopsa: Anthu amakonda kusamala ndi zotayika popereka tanthauzo laling'ono ngakhale laling'ono.

Zoyipa zakutaya $ 50 ndizolimba kuposa malingaliro abwino opeza $ 50. M'malo mwake, anthu amagwira ntchito molimbika kuti apewe kutaya $ 50 kuposa momwe angapangire $ 50.

Ngakhale kuti anthu sangafunikire kukhala tcheru nthawi zonse kuti apulumuke monga makolo athu, malingaliro olakwika amathanso kukhudza momwe timachitira, momwe timachitira, momwe timamvera, ndi malingaliro athu.

Mwachitsanzo, kafukufuku wakale akuwonetsa kuti anthu akapanga zisankho, amaika patsogolo kwambiri zinthu zoyipa osati zabwino. Izi zitha kukhudza zisankho komanso kufunitsitsa kuchita zoopsa.

Psychology yamagulu

Malinga ndi nkhani ya 2014, kusakondera kumatha kupezeka m'malingaliro andale.

Omwe amawasamalira amakhala ndi mayankho olimba amthupi ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro pazinthu zoyipa kuposa owolowa manja.

Komanso, pachisankho, ovota amakhala ndi mwayi wovotera munthu wosankhidwa malinga ndi zonena zoyipa za wotsutsana naye motsutsana ndi ziyeneretso zawo.

Momwe mungathetsere kusakondera

Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti kunyalanyaza ndikusintha kosasintha, titha kupitilirako.

Mutha kukulitsa chiyembekezo posamala zomwe zili zosafunikira pamoyo wanu ndikuyang'ana pakuyamikira ndikuyamikira zabwino. Zimalimbikitsidwanso kuti muswe mawonekedwe azoyipa ndikulola zokumana nazo zabwino kulembetsa mozama.

Mfundo yofunika

Zikuwoneka kuti anthu ali ndi chidwi chonyalanyaza, kapena chizolowezi cholemetsa kwambiri pazomwe zidakumana ndi zovuta kuposa zokumana nazo zabwino.

Izi zikuwonekera pamakhalidwe okhala ndi malingaliro abwino, monga kupeza ndalama zosayembekezereka zikupitilira malingaliro olakwika chifukwa chotaya.

Izi zikuwonekeranso pama psychology azikhalidwe, pomwe ovota pachisankho amakhala ovota potengera zonena za wotsutsana ndi wopikisana nawo m'malo mongomva kuyenera kwawo.

Mwambiri, pali njira zosinthira kukondera kwanu poyang'ana pazabwino pamoyo wanu.