Kusintha Kwa Chaka Chatsopano Ndikuti Pamapeto pake Mukhale Ndi Zowonjezera Zambiri Ndi Mnzanga

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Kwezani dzanja lanu ngati mumakhala ndi nthawi zonse (kapena, moona, munayamba mwakumanapo) ndi orgasms kudzera mu kugonana kogonana? Bakha wamwayi, inu. Kwezani dzanja lanu ngati inu ndi mnzanu muli ndi ziphuphu nthawi imodzi? Chabwino, tsopano mukungodzionetsera. Ngakhale kuti ndilibe vuto loti ndizitsika panthawi yogonana, ndi azimayi 18% okha omwe amatha kukhala pachimake kudzera mu kugonana kosalolera, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2015 wa azimayi 1,055 omwe adasindikizidwa mu 2015 Zolemba Za Kugonana Ndi Chithandizo Cha M'banja. Komabe, ngati inu ndi wokhoza kuchoka pogonana kosalolera, mutha kumvetsetsa za "vuto" lofala loti simungathe kufikira pachimake pamodzi panthawi yogonana. (Zokhudzana: Chowonadi Chomwe Simungathe Kukhala Ndi Mimba Pakugonana)

N'chifukwa chiyani kufika pachimake pamodzi kuli kodabwitsa? Ngati mukufunsa, ndiye kuti simunakumanepo ndi nthawi yowononga dziko. Kuchokera kuzowoneka zosawerengeka (makamaka, "kutha kwazovuta zodziwika bwino" zomwe sizingachitike) ndimazunzo omwe munthawi yomweyo, ndawona kuti atha kulimbitsa thupi lanu. Zimakuchotsani m'mutu mwanu ndikufikira nthawi yoti musangalale ndi wina, ndipo kutengera momwe mulili, munthu amene mumamukonda. Kwa anthu ambiri, izi zimafuna kukhulupirirana kwambiri, nthawi yabwino, ndikudziwa thupi la mnzanu monga kumbuyo kwa dzanja lanu.

Ngakhale ndimakhala ndikuonetsetsa kuti ndikhale ndi vuto, ndimwambo wosowa kwambiri womwe ndimafika pachimake ndi mwamuna wanga. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zisanachitike kapena zitatha. Chifukwa chake tikamalankhula za zolinga zathu za 2020, ndidasiya mwachangu mayankho omwe amakhala ngati kusinkhasinkha, kukhala wathanzi, kapena kupanga madola miliyoni, ndikuyang'ana mwamuna wanga wazaka khumi ndikuti: "Ndikufuna kuti tikhale ndi ma orgasms nthawi yomweyo. nthawi!"

Nthawi yomweyo adamwetulira, nati, "eh, wachita."

Ndipo motero, kuyesa kunayamba. Kuti tikonzekere bwino izi, tidazindikira kuti payenera kukhala njira ina yothandizira, ndikuchita zambiri. [Kutsinya.]

M'malo mwa "kusinthana ku orgasm" momwe timakhalira, tidachedwetsa ndikulumikizana wina ndi mnzake. Anandiyendetsa bwino tisanafike polowera. Inenso ndinachita chimodzimodzi. Tikamagonana, tinkayang'anirana zogonana. Titafika nthawi (yomwe ingakhale yovuta kwambiri), tidakumana ndi Grail Woyera wa Os. Kamodzi. Ndiye kawiri. Ndipo tsopano, theka-pafupipafupi. Momwe imamvekera bwino, zidatikakamiza kuti tikhale munthawi yomweyo ndikungopereka chisangalalo.

M'dzina la kafukufuku, nawa malangizo anga apamwamba oti nditsike nthawi imodzi ndi mnzako:

1. Zindikirani machitidwe anu onse awiri. Choyamba choyamba: Ndani nthawi zambiri amafika pachimake ndipo liti? Kodi zimachitika chimodzimodzi nthawi zonse? Kodi mumayandikira pafupi kukhala ndi ziwalo pamodzi? Kodi nthawi zambiri mumakhala m'dera lanu lachitonthozo pochoka njira imodzi yokha ndipo ndi imeneyo? Zindikirani nthawi yomwe inu ndi mnzanu mumakhala ndi ziphuphu (kapena ngati mulibe) kuti muthe kusankha momwe mungapangire njira yatsopano yopezera chiwembu limodzi.
2. Chitani mwachifatse. Ngakhale kuti palibe amene ali ndi nthawi yochita masewera okondana a maola atatu, zinthu zambiri zabwino zimabwera kale mumagonana. Ndikulankhula zamasewera, anthu-kuseweredwa, kupsompsonana, ndi njira yotsegulira. Mukukumbukira zimenezo? Tengani nthawi yodzudzulana musanagonane. Lumikizani m'njira yopindulitsa. Nyozana wina ndi mnzake. Pemphani izo. Mwathupi ndi m'maganizo zimagwirizana kwathunthu musanalowe. Theka la nkhondoyo ikugwirizanadi, ndikumverera kufunidwa ndi kukhumbidwa.
3. Bweretsani wina ndi mnzake kumapeto. Tonse takhala tikukumana ndi zovuta pamene tikungofuna kukhala ndi vuto lililonse mwanjira iliyonse yoyenera komanso ASAP. Komabe, luso lobweretsana (kapena kudzipangira nokha) pamphepete mwa chimaliziro kenako ndikuthandizira ndichizolowezi chochepetsera zovuta zanu. Ngakhale kuti simungathe kulamulira orgasm yanu, mukhoza kuphunzira zizindikiro za thupi lanu, kuti mudziwe nthawi yoti mubwerere ngati mnzanuyo sali pa tsamba lomwelo. Kapena, ngati mnzanu apeza nawonso ndikusangalala posachedwa, iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yopititsira patsogolo ntchitoyi. Kupatula apo, cholinga chanu ndikutulutsa kutulutsa kokoma kuposa komwe "mwachangu ndi konyansa" komwe mukufuna.
4. Pezani malo anu abwino. Ngati mutha kukhala ndi orgasm kuchokera pakugonana kolowera nokha, kodi pali malo enieni ogonana kapena zochitika zowonera zomwe zimakuthandizani kuti mukafike kumeneko? Yambani ndi zimenezo, ndipo muwone ngati mungathe kutsogolera mayendedwe ndi tempo kuti mufike pachimake. Kenako muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti "akakomane nanu kumeneko" mpaka nonse mutakhala pafupi ndi ziwalozo, kenako pitani kumapeto.
5. Pezani mawu. Ngati mwatsala pang'ono kufika pachimake, fuulani kuchokera padenga (malinga ngati oyandikana nawo sakusamala, ndiye). Kapenanso ngati mnzanu ali pafupi, muchepetseni mpaka mutakhala nawo pomwepo. Palibe chowotcha kuposa kungouza wina kuti mudzakhala ndi vuto ndipo mukufuna kuti nawonso akhale nacho. Sewerani mozungulira ndikunyoza mpaka mutha kufikira limodzi.
6. Yesetsani, yesetsani, yesetsani. Monga zolinga zonse, simudzatuluka pakiyi poyesa koyamba. Zimatengera kuchita, kuleza mtima, komanso kufunitsitsa kusangalala. Osataya mtima ndikutulutsa belo. Yesani malingaliro atsopano, yesetsani zoseweretsa, kapena yesani malo osiyanasiyana ogonana mpaka mutapeza zotsatira zomwe mukufuna.

Kukhala wokhoza kuchita chiwerewere palimodzi ndichinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri kwa onse omwe akukhudzidwa. Ine, m'modzi, sindikukhazikikanso kachilombo kamodzi kamodzi kokha. Ndikupitiliza kuphunzira zatsopano za ine (ndi mnzanga) ndipo tikusangalala pochita izi — tonse.

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