12 Kulera Mahack kwa Amayi omwe ali ndi MS

Zamkati

• 1. Osatupa thukuta
• 2. Osamaluma kuposa momwe mumatafunira
• 3. Limbikitsani ana anu kuti azichita zinthu paokha
• 4. Kusokoneza, kusokoneza, kusokoneza
• 5. Onetsetsani kuti mwapeza memo
• 6. Gwiritsani ntchito mphindi kuphunzitsa
• 7. Pezani zifukwa zosekerera ndikumwetulira
• 8. Konzani ndi kulankhulana
• 9. Khalani omasukirana ndi ana anu moona mtima
• 10. Khalani okonzeka kusintha
• 11. Vomerezani “zolephera” zanu, kuseka za iwo, ndi kupitiriza
• 12. Khalani chitsanzo chomwe mukufuna kwa ana anu

Posachedwa, ndidatenga mwana wanga womaliza (wazaka 14) kusukulu. Nthawi yomweyo amafuna kudziwa chomwe chimadya, kodi yunifolomu yake ya LAX inali yoyera, nditha kumeta tsitsi usikuuno? Kenako ndinalandira uthenga kuchokera kwa wamkulu wanga (wazaka 18). Ankafuna kudziwa ngati ndingamutenge kuchokera kusukulu kuti abwere kunyumba kumapeto kwa sabata, adandiuza kuti akuyenera kukhala ndi thupi kuti akhale mgulu la mayendedwe, ndikufunsa ngati ndakonda uthenga wake waposachedwa pa Instagram. Pomalizira pake, mwana wanga wazaka 16 anafika kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito 9 koloko madzulo. ndipo adalengeza kuti akufuna zokhwasula-khwasula pamsonkhano mawa, adafunsa ngati ndamulembetsera ma SAT ake, ndikufunsanso zopita kukaona masukulu nthawi yopuma.

Ana anga salinso makanda, salinso aang'ono, sadaliranso pa ine. Koma ndidakali mayi wawo, ndipo amandidalirabe kwambiri. Amafunikirabe nthawi, mphamvu, ndi kulingalira - zonse zomwe zimatha kuchepa mukamakumana ndi MS.

Awa ndi ena mwa ma "hacks" olera omwe ndimagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lonse ndikupitiliza kukhala mayi munjira yosasangalatsa (malinga ndi iwo) yomwe ndidakhala.

1. Osatupa thukuta

Izi sizinthu zosavuta nthawi zonse kusamalira ndi ana, koma kupsinjika ndi nkhawa ndizomwe zimapha ine. Ndikadzilola kuti ndigwire ntchito, mosakhalitsa ndimatha kukhala ndi tsiku lopambana (lopanda ululu wamiyendo ndi kutopa) ndikukhala ndi ululu wophulika komanso miyendo yofooka.

Ndinkakonda kuthera nthawi yambiri ndi nyonga pazinthu monga ana anga amavala ndikuyeretsa ndi zovuta zawo, koma ndidazindikira mwachangu kuti awa anali mphamvu zosafunikira. Ngati mwana wanga wazaka 10 akufuna kuti alengeze kuti "Tsiku la Pajama," Ndine ndani kuti ndizinene? Zilibe kanthu ngati zovala zoyera zotsala zidafutukuka mudengu osayika bwino m'madirowa. Idakali yoyera. Ndipo mbale zonyansa zidzakhalapobe m'mawa, ndipo nzabwino.

2. Osamaluma kuposa momwe mumatafunira

Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti nditha kuchita zonse ndikukhala pamwamba pazinthu. Zimapezeka kuti ndi ng'ombe yathunthu komanso yathunthu. Sindingathe kuzimaliza nthawi zonse, ndipo ndimakwiriridwa, kudzandidwa, komanso kuthedwa nzeru.

Sindine mayi wabwinoko chifukwa ndimasaina kukayendetsedwa ndi oyang'anira, kugwira nawo ntchito zowonetsa mabuku, kapena kulandira pikiniki yakubwerera kusukulu. Izi ndi zomwe zingandipangitse kuti ndiwoneke ngati mayi wabwino kunja, koma sizomwe ana anga amayang'ana. Ndipo ana anga ndi omwe ali ofunika. Ndaphunzira kungonena kuti "ayi" komanso osadzimva kuti ndikukakamizidwa kuchita zambiri zomwe ndingathe.

3. Limbikitsani ana anu kuti azichita zinthu paokha

Kupempha mtundu uliwonse wa chithandizo nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta kwa ine. Koma ndidazindikira mwachangu kuti kuthandiza ana anga mu "mode yothandizira" kunali kupambana / kupambana. Zinandimasula pantchito zina ndipo zinawapangitsa kudzimva kukhala achikulire komanso kutenga nawo mbali. Kuchita zinthu chifukwa amatchulidwa ngati ntchito zapakhomo ndi chinthu chimodzi. Kuphunzira kuchita zinthu osapemphedwa, kapena kungothandiza, ndi phunziro lalikulu pamoyo lomwe MS yaunikira ana anga.

4. Kusokoneza, kusokoneza, kusokoneza

Amayi anga ankakonda kunditcha “Mfumukazi Yosokoneza.” Tsopano ikubwera moyenera. Pezani zosokoneza (za inu ndi ana). Kaya kungobweretsa mutu wina kapena kutulutsa choseweretsa kapena masewera, kuwongolera mphindi zomwe zikuyenda molakwika kumandithandiza kuti ndikhale ndi moyo wabwino ndipo tonsefe tikhale osangalala.

Ukadaulo wabweretsa zododometsa zambiri. Ndinayamba kufunafuna mapulogalamu ndi masewera omwe amatsutsa ubongo ndipo ndimasewera nawo limodzi ndi ana. Ndili ndi masewera angapo pamaselo pafoni yanga ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimakoka ana (kapena aliyense m'mizere ya 500) kuti andithandize. Zimatilola kuyang'anitsitsa pa chinthu china (ndipo zikuwoneka kuti tikuchenjera nthawi yomweyo). Wophunzitsa Ubongo Woyenerera, Lumosity, 7 Little Words, ndi Jumbline ndi ena mwaomwe timakonda.

5. Onetsetsani kuti mwapeza memo

Pakati pa ubongo wa ubongo, zaka zapakati, ndi ntchito za amayi, ndili ndi mwayi wokumbukira chilichonse. Kaya ndikusainira mwana wanga wamkazi ma SAT, kapena kukumbukira nthawi yonyamula kapena mndandanda wazogulitsa, ngati sindilemba sizingachitike.

Pezani pulogalamu yabwino yolemba ndikuigwiritsa ntchito mwachipembedzo. Pakadali pano, ndikugwiritsa ntchito Simplenote ndikukhazikitsa kuti nditumize imelo nthawi iliyonse ndikawonjezera cholemba, chomwe chimapereka chikumbutso chofunikira ndikadzakhala pa kompyuta yanga.

6. Gwiritsani ntchito mphindi kuphunzitsa

Ngati wina anena mwachidule za Segway yanga kapena malo anga oyimitsa olumala, ndimagwiritsa ntchito nthawi imeneyi kupanga ana anga kukhala anthu abwinoko. Timalankhula momwe zimamvekera kuweruzidwa ndi anthu ena, komanso momwe ayenera kuyesera kumvera chisoni anthu olumala. MS yapangitsa kuti aziphunzitsa kuchitira ena ulemu komanso kukoma mtima ndizosavuta, chifukwa zimawapatsa "nthawi zophunzitsika".

7. Pezani zifukwa zosekerera ndikumwetulira

MS imatha kuyambitsa zinthu zokongola m'moyo wanu, ndipo zitha kukhala zowopsa kukhala ndi kholo lomwe likudwala. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ngati "ndapulumuka" MS pogwiritsa ntchito nthabwala, ndipo ana anga nawonso atengera nzeru imeneyi.

Nthawi iliyonse pamene chinachake chichitika, kaya kugwa, kusuzumira mathalauza anga pagulu, kapena kuyipa koyipa, tonsefe timalimbana kuti tipeze zoseketsa. Pazaka 10 zapitazi, ndakumana ndi nthawi zosayembekezereka, zovuta, komanso zochititsa manyazi kuposa momwe ndimaganizira, ndipo zomwe banja lathu limakumbukira zimaphatikizapo nthabwala zazikulu zomwe zidachokera kwa iwo. Ngakhale kugwa koyipa kumadzetsa nkhani yabwino, ndipo pamapeto pake kumaseka.

8. Konzani ndi kulankhulana

Kudziwa zomwe tikuyembekezera komanso zomwe zikubwera kungathandize kuchepetsa nkhawa komanso nkhawa kwa tonsefe. Tikafika kunyumba kwa makolo anga patchuthi chathu cha chilimwe, ana amakhala ndi miliyoni ndi chinthu chimodzi chomwe amafuna kuchita. Sindikutsimikiza ngakhale kuti titha kufika kwa iwo onse ndikadapanda kukhala ndi MS! Kuyankhula za izi ndikupanga mndandanda wazomwe tingachite ndi zomwe sitingathe kuchita kumapereka chiyembekezo kwa aliyense. Kulemba mndandanda ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe timachita pokonzekera ndikuyembekezera ulendowu. Amalola ana anga kudziwa zomwe amayenera kuchita masana, ndipo zimandithandiza kudziwa zomwe ndiyenera kuchita tsiku lonse.

9. Khalani omasukirana ndi ana anu moona mtima

Kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe, ndakhala ndikutseguka kwa ana anga za MS ndi zovuta zonse zomwe zimabwera nawo. Ndikuwona ngati ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi pee wawo ndi poop kwa zaka zambiri, amatha kumva za ine pang'ono!

Ngakhale kuti ndi chibadwa cha amayi kusafuna kulemetsa ana anu (ndipo ndimadana ndikubwera ngati wonyezimira kapena wofooka), ndaphunzira kuti sizowopsa kuyesera kubisala tsiku loipa kapena kuwukira kwa ana anga. Amandiwona ngati ndikunama kwa iwo, osavuta komanso osavuta, ndipo ndikadakonda kudziwika kuti ndimunthu wopusa kuposa wabodza.

10. Khalani okonzeka kusintha

MS atha kusintha moyo wanu nthawi yomweyo… kenako nkuganiza zosokeretsani inu ndikuwonetsanso bwino mawa. Kuphunzira kugubuduza ndi nkhonya ndikusintha ndi maluso onse oyenera kukhala nawo mukamakhala ndi MS, komanso aluso maluso amoyo omwe ana anga adzapitilira m'moyo.

11. Vomerezani “zolephera” zanu, kuseka za iwo, ndi kupitiriza

Palibe amene ali wangwiro - tonse tili ndi zovuta. Ndipo ngati munganene kuti mulibe zovuta, ndiye ndizo nkhani yanu. MS idabweretsa "zovuta" zanga zambiri patsogolo. Kuwonetsa ana anga kuti ndili bwino ndi iwo, kuti nditha kuwakumbatira ndikulephera kwanga ndikuseka ndikumwetulira, ndi uthenga wamphamvu kwa iwo.

12. Khalani chitsanzo chomwe mukufuna kwa ana anu

Palibe amene amasankha kupeza MS. Panalibe "kuwunika bokosi lolakwika" pazofunsira moyo. Koma ndimasankha momwe ndingakhalire moyo wanga komanso momwe ndimayendetsera bampu iliyonse panjira ndikuganizira ana anga.

Ndikufuna kuwawonetsa momwe angapitire patsogolo, momwe angakhalire ozunzidwa, komanso momwe angavomereze zomwe akufuna ngati akufuna zina.

Meg Lewellyn ndi mayi wa ana atatu. Anapezeka ndi MS mu 2007. Mutha kuwerenga zambiri za nkhani yake pa blog yake, Nthambeleni, kapena kulumikizana naye pa Facebook.