Matsenga Osintha Moyo Wodulira Tsitsi Lako

Zamkati

• Kusamalira tsitsi kumathandizira kuti mukhale olimba mtima komanso osangalala
• Ubale wanu ndi wolemba tsitsi ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri zomwe mungakhale nazo
• Ndimvereni, bwanji ngati chithandizo cha tsitsi chingathandize kuchepetsa chisoni chotsalira?

Tsitsi langa limachita izi zoseketsa pomwe limakonda kundikumbutsa zakuchepa kwa mphamvu zomwe ndili nazo m'moyo wanga. Pamasiku abwino, zimakhala ngati malonda a Pantene ndipo ndimakhala wotsimikiza komanso wokonzeka kutenga tsikuli. Pamasiku oyipa, tsitsi langa limakhala lopanda pake, limakhala lamafuta, ndipo limakhala chothandizira kukulitsa nkhawa komanso kukwiya.

Nthawi ina, pomwe ndimakayikira za ubale watsopano, ndidawona nyengo yatsopano ya Gilmore Girls ya Netflix pomwe Emily Gilmore akutsuka nyumba yake kutengera buku la Marie Kondō Matsenga Osintha Moyo Wodzikongoletsa. Nyumba yanga ikhala chisokonezo. Sindikudandaula. Koma tsitsi langa?

Bwanji ngati tsitsi langa lakhala ili logawanika lomwe limawonetsa chisokonezo chomwe ndi moyo wanga?

Ndimvereni.

Nthawi zina, ndikakhala ndi tsitsi lomwe silitha kuwongoleredwa, zimayambitsa nkhawa kapena kukhumudwa. Ndingayang'ane kusinkhasinkha kwanga ndikuyamba kuzungulira ...

Tsitsi lamafuta? Ndilibe moyo wanga pamodzi.

Chizungulire? Kukumana ndi kutaya kwathunthu kwamaulamuliro.

Masiku angapo atsitsi loyipa - bwanji ngati vuto ndi ine?

Pali zina zomwe zikusonyeza kuti mawonekedwe a tsitsi lanu amakhudza zambiri kuposa momwe mumamvera. M'maphunziro asanu okhudzana ndi kusalingana kwama kalasi, ofufuza ku Stanford adapeza kuti kukumbukira tsiku loyipa la tsitsi kumakhudza momwe ophunzira adawonera kusalinganika. Ndipo ndizo basi zikumbukiro Nanga bwanji tsiku lenileni?

Masiku atsitsi loyipa atha kugwetsa mvula pamoyo wanu monga chifunga cha San Francisco. Palibe mvula, koma imawaza, imvi, ndipo imalowa. Malinga ndi Dr. Juli Fraga, katswiri wazamisala ku San Francisco, yemwe amagwira ntchito yokhudza nkhawa za azimayi, "Tsitsi loyipa, ngati chovala choyipa, limatha kusintha malingaliro chifukwa limakhudza momwe timadzionera."

Kusamalira tsitsi kumathandizira kuti mukhale olimba mtima komanso osangalala

Tsitsi ngati barometer yamaganizidwe, chidaliro, ndi ulemu si lingaliro latsopano. Ndinayang'ana chizindikiro cha tsitsi, ndipo chamangiriridwa ku thanzi - kutayika kwa tsitsi ndikudetsa nkhawa amuna - komanso ukazi kwanthawi yayitali.

Mu 1944, azimayi aku France adadulidwa mitu yawo ngati chilango chothandizana ndi Ajeremani. Masiku ano, amayi omwe amameta mitu yawo amayamba kugwidwa ndi khansa. Ngakhale pachikhalidwe cha pop, azimayi odziwika omwe amadula tsitsi lawo amakopeka.

Zosangalatsa za Sabata Sabata zinali ndi zokhazokha pamitengo ya pixie ya Emma Watson - tsiku lomwe idatuluka. Zonsezi zimanditumizirabe uthenga womwewo: Maonekedwe ndi gawo la mayankho omwe amalimbitsa kudzidalira komanso kudzidalira.

Chifukwa chake, tsitsi losungidwa bwino ndichizindikiro chawokha komanso chakunja, koma ngakhale kuphunzira kuwongolera tsitsi langa zidatenga kanthawi. Mwamwayi, vuto langa lidachitika chifukwa chotsika mtengo komanso chosagwirizana.

Ubale wanu ndi wolemba tsitsi ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri zomwe mungakhale nazo

Mpaka nditayamba kugwira ntchito yanthawi zonse, ndimafufuza Craigslist kuti ndichepetse kwaulere, kudalira ophunzitsidwa omwe amafunikira mitundu, kapena kufunafuna malo osungira ndalama zosakwana $ 20. Pafupifupi nthawi zonse, ndimasiya salon kumverera ngati ndavala khungu la wina.

Ndikadakhala kuti wina adandiuza izi: Ubwenzi wanu ndi wolemba tsitsi lanu umakhala ngati ubale wanu ndi dokotala wanu. Maulendo oyamba oyamba ndi ovuta koma ofunikira, chifukwa amakudziwani.

Potsirizira pake, adzatha kugwedeza masitaelo ogwirizana ndi mawonekedwe a nkhope yanu, zopangira zabwino za thanzi la tsitsi lanu, komanso zokwera ndi zovuta m'moyo wanu.

Koma ndisanadziwe izi, ndinali ndi mbiri yakalekale yosakhulupilira olemba tsitsi langa. Ndabweretsa chithunzi gawo lililonse. Kuphulika? Zooey Deschanel. Tsitsi lalitali? Alexa Chung. Zigawo? Mtundu wina wa Instagram. Zomwe ndimanena zinali ... “Ndipangeni kuti ndiwoneke ngati iye.”

Sipanathe zaka ziwiri kuchokera ku koleji pomwe ndidaganiza zolipira kumeta tsitsi kwa $ 60, popeza omwe adaphunzitsidwa kale adakhala wanthawi zonse. M'magawo ochepa oyamba, ndidabweretsa zithunzi za ntchito za olemba tsitsi ena. Ndiye tsiku lina, ndili ndi chithunzi cha YouTuber chosungidwa pafoni yanga, nkhawa yanga idayamba.

Ndinachita mantha kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba kutuluka thukuta. Nanga bwanji ndikadakhala ndikumunyoza nthawi iliyonse ndikawonetsa chithunzi? Bwanji ngati olemba ma stylist onse omwe ndidakumanapo nawonso adanyozedwa?

Chifukwa chake ndidamuuza kuti, "Osangodula pang'ono," ndikusunga chithunzicho.

Sindikuwonetsanso zithunzi kwa Nora. M'malo mwake, sindimawonetsa aliyense zitsanzo ndisanamete tsitsi langa, zomwe zapangitsa kuti ndemanga zochepa monga, "Izi sizikuwoneka ngati chithunzi chomwe mudandiwonetsa."

Za ine, zangowonjezedwa kukhumudwitsidwa pang'ono ndipo palibe zoyembekeza kuti ziwoneke ngati Alexa Chung. Ndimakonda kuti ndimawoneka ngati ine, ngakhale zitanditengera zaka zingapo kuti ndivomereze.

Ndimvereni, bwanji ngati chithandizo cha tsitsi chingathandize kuchepetsa chisoni chotsalira?

Kusamalira tsitsi monga mankhwala ayenera kupeza ngongole zambiri. Kwa ine, kuyankhula ndi abwenzi sikumangodula nthawi zina. Kugula ndikosakhalitsa ndipo ndimawopa kwambiri kupeza wothandizira. Koma kumeta tsitsi?

Kumeta tsitsi kwanga kuli ngati mankhwala olankhulira, mankhwala ogulitsira, komanso kudzisamalira komwe kumachitika mgawo la maola awiri osavulaza. Inde, chonde. A kwenikweni kumeta bwino kumatha kunditenga kupitirira miyezi itatu, ngati kumetedwa bwino. Ndipo, kumapeto kwa tsiku, wolemba tsitsi wanu amakhala ngati wothandizira inu ndikufuna -munthu yemwe amakhala kumbali yako nthawi zonse, ngakhale nkhani yako itakhala yolusa chotani.

Ndinkakhala pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata yemwe amameta tsitsi langa nthawi zonse, pagulu komanso kunyumba. Patatha miyezi itatu, ndidazindikira kuti nayenso - posowa chitamando chabwino - akusisita tsitsi la anthu ena. Poganizira ngati ubalewo uyenera kutero, Marie Kondō adakumbukira.

"Njira yabwino yosankhira zomwe muyenera kusunga ndi zomwe muyenera kutaya ndikuti ngati kusungako kukupangitsani kukhala osangalala, kapena kukupatsani chisangalalo," akutero m'buku la "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up."

Kotero ine ndinathetsa naye. Miyezi ingapo panjira, mnzanga adandisisita tsitsi langa ngati nthabwala. M'malo mongoseka, zonse zomwe ndimamva zinali zachisoni chachikulu. Sizinapitirire miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, ndikusintha ku timu yatsopano kuntchito, kuti ndimve ngati inali nthawi yoti ndidule zakale ndikuyamba mwatsopano.

Nora adandilanda miyezi isanu ndi umodzi m'mapewa mwanga, ndikuwonetsa malalanje anga a brassy kukhala bulauni wachilimwe-chilimwe, adandisisita khungu langa, ndikutulutsa utsi wonunkhira wa zipatso zanga zatsitsi. Zinali zopepuka komanso zosavuta kusamalira, ndipo ndimamverera ngati munthu watsopano.

Gawo lomwe ndimakonda tsopano likuyendetsa zala zanga kupyola pomwe panali zigawo zakale. Mmalo mwazokumbukira ndikumverera, ndi mpweya chabe.

Christal Yuen ndi mkonzi ku Healthline.com. Amalangiza kumeta tsitsi pambuyo poti banja lawo latha kwambiri ndipo osagwiritsanso ntchito "Marie Kondō adati ndiyenera kungosunga zinthu zomwe zimandibweretsera chimwemwe m'moyo wanga "ngati chifukwa chothekererana. Mutha kumutsatira Twitter kapena Instagram.