Zomwe Ndimaphunzira Kulera Ana Aang'ono Zomwe Ndikuphunzira M'nthawi Ino Yopenga

Zamkati

• Sitifunikira zidole zambiri monga momwe timaganizira
• Zochita zazing'ono za DIY sizinthu zanga, ndipo tikuchita bwino
• Kutuluka panja tsiku lililonse ndikosasinthika
• Ndili bwino kupumula malamulo anga, koma osati ndi kuwalola kuti agwere panjira kwathunthu
• Kuchezera ndi mwana wanga wamng'ono kuli ndi phindu lobisika
• Ndiyenera kuti ndidutse mu izi, kuti ndiyesenso momwe ndingathere

Kupulumuka malamulo okhala kunyumba ndi mwana wakhanda kwakhala kosavuta kuposa momwe ndimaganizira.

Kupatula masiku oyamba kumene obadwa kumene pamene ndinali kuchira kuchokera pakubadwa, sindinakhalepo tsiku lathunthu kunyumba ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna wazaka 20 tsopano Eli. Lingaliro lokhala mkati ndi khanda kapena khanda kwa maola 24 owongoka lidandipangitsa kukhala wamantha komanso ngakhale mantha pang'ono.

Ndipo, tsopano tili, kupitilira mwezi umodzi munthawi ya COVID-19, pomwe njira yathu yokhayo ndiyokhazikikabe. Aliyense. Osakwatira. Tsiku.

Maulosi onena zakunyumba atayamba kuzungulira, ndinachita mantha ndi momwe tingapulumukire ndi mwana wakhanda. Zithunzi za Eli akuyenda mnyumba, akulira, ndikupanga chisokonezo - nditakhala mutu wanga m'manja - zidatenga ubongo wanga.

Koma nayi chinthu. Ngakhale masabata angapo apitawa akhala ovuta m'njira zambiri, kuthana ndi Eli sikunakhale vuto lalikulu lomwe ndimadandaula kuti likanakhala. M'malo mwake, ndimakonda kuganiza kuti ndapeza nzeru zamtengo wapatali zaubereki zomwe mwina zikadatenga zaka kuti ndiphunzire (ngati zingachitike).

Nazi zomwe ndapeza mpaka pano.

Sitifunikira zidole zambiri monga momwe timaganizira

Kodi mudathamangira kudzaza ngolo yanu ya Amazon ndi ziwonetsero zatsopano zomwe mwazindikira kuti mukhala kunyumba mpaka kalekale? Ndinatero, ngakhale ndinali mtundu wa munthu yemwe amati amasunga zoseweretsa pang'ono ndikugogomezera chidziwitso pazinthu.

Patadutsa mwezi umodzi, zinthu zina zomwe ndidagula sizidafundikiridwe.

Zomwe zidachitika, Eli ndi wokondwa kupitiliza kusewera ndi zoseweretsa zosavuta, zotseguka mobwerezabwereza - magalimoto ake, khitchini yake yosewerera komanso kusewera chakudya, ndi zifanizo zake zanyama.

Chinsinsi chimawoneka kuti chimangokhala zinthu zosinthasintha pafupipafupi. Chifukwa chake masiku aliwonse ochepa ndimasinthitsa zingapo zamagalimoto osiyanasiyana kapena kusintha zida za kukhitchini yake.

Kuphatikiza apo, zinthu zapakhomo za tsiku ndi tsiku zikuwoneka kuti zimakopanso. Eli amachita chidwi ndi blender, chifukwa chake ndimachotsa, ndikutulutsa tsambalo, ndikumulola kuti apange ngati smoothies. Amakondanso saladi spinner - Ndinaponyera mipira ingapo ya ping pong mkati, ndipo amakonda kuwayang'ana ikuzungulira.

Zochita zazing'ono za DIY sizinthu zanga, ndipo tikuchita bwino

Intaneti imakhala yodzaza ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimaphatikizapo ma pom pom, zonona, komanso mapepala omanga amitundu yambiri odulidwa mosiyanasiyana.

Ndikutsimikiza kuti zinthu zamtunduwu ndizothandiza kwambiri kwa makolo ena. Koma sindine munthu wochenjera. Ndipo chinthu chomaliza chomwe ndikufunikira ndikumva ngati ndiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga yamtengo wapatali pomwe Eli akugona ndikupanga linga loyenera la Pinterest.

Kuphatikiza apo, kangapo ndayesera kukhazikitsa imodzi mwazochitikazi, amataya chidwi patadutsa mphindi 5. Kwa ife, sizoyenera.

Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti tikupeza mosangalala ndi zinthu zomwe zimafunikira kuyesetsa pang'ono kumbali yanga. Timachita maphwando a tiyi ndi nyama zodzaza. Timasintha mapepala okhala ndi ma parachuti. Tidakhazikitsa bini lamadzi okhala ndi sopo ndikusambitsa zoseweretsa ziweto. Timakhala pa benchi yathu yakutsogolo ndikuwerenga mabuku. Timakwera ndikutsika pabedi mobwerezabwereza (kapena molondola, amatero, ndipo ndimayang'anira kuwonetsetsa kuti palibe amene akuvulala).

Chofunika koposa, timakhulupirira kuti…

Kutuluka panja tsiku lililonse ndikosasinthika

Kukhala mumzinda momwe mabwalo osewerera amatsekedwa, timangokhala ndi mayendedwe akutali kuzungulira bwaloli kapena kupita ku umodzi mwa mapaki ochepa omwe ndi akulu komanso osadzaza okwanira kuti tizitha kukhala kutali ndi ena.

Komabe, ngati kuli kotentha komanso kotentha, timapita panja. Ngati kukuzizira komanso kukuchita mitambo, timapita panja. Ngakhale kukugwa mvula tsiku lonse, timatuluka panja kukangokhala mvula.

Maulendo akunja achidule amathetsa masikuwo ndikukhazikitsanso malingaliro athu tikamvutika ndi nkhawa. Chofunika kwambiri, ndizofunikira pakuthandizira Eli kuwotcha mphamvu kuti apitilize kugona ndi kugona bwino, ndipo ndimatha kukhala ndi nthawi yopumira.

Ndili bwino kupumula malamulo anga, koma osati ndi kuwalola kuti agwere panjira kwathunthu

Pakadali pano zikuwoneka kuti tili mumkhalidwewu kwa nthawi yayitali. Ngakhale malamulo osokoneza thupi atha kuchepa m'masabata kapena miyezi ikubwerayi, moyo sukubwerera momwe udaliri kwakanthawi.

Chifukwa chake mwina zimamveka bwino kuchita nthawi yopanda malire kapena zokhwasula-khwasula m'masabata oyambilira pofuna kungopeza, pakadali pano, ndikuda nkhawa ndi zomwe zingachitike pakuchepetsa malire athu mochuluka.

Mwanjira ina? Ngati izi ndi zachilendo, ndiye kuti tikusowa malamulo atsopano. Momwe malamulowa amawonekera azikhala osiyana pabanja lililonse, mwachidziwikire, chifukwa chake muyenera kulingalira za zomwe zingakuthandizeni.

Kwa ine, zikutanthauza kuti titha kuchita mpaka ola limodzi kapena angapo a TV yabwino (monga Sesame Street) patsiku, koma makamaka ngati njira yomaliza.

Zimatanthawuza kuti timaphika ma cookie a zokhwasula-khwasula masiku omwe sitingathe kuthera nthawi yochuluka kunja, koma osati tsiku lililonse la sabata.

Zikutanthauza kuti nditenga theka la ola kuti ndimuthamangitse Eli pakhomo pakhomopo kotero kuti ali wotopa mokwanira kuti azigona nthawi yake yogona ... ngakhale nditakhala kuti ndimatha mphindi 30 nditagona pakama kwinaku akuwonerera YouTube foni yanga.

Kuchezera ndi mwana wanga wamng'ono kuli ndi phindu lobisika

Nthawi zina ndimadzifunsa kuti moyo wanga ukadakhala wotani kupirira izi popanda mwana. Sipadzakhala wina woti atengepo kanthu koma inemwini.

Ine ndi amuna anga tinkaphika chakudya chamadzulo kwa maola awiri limodzi usiku uliwonse ndikumagwira ntchito iliyonse yakunyumba yomwe tidalota. Sindingakhale tulo usiku ndikudandaula za zomwe zingachitike kwa Eli ndikapeza COVID-19 ndikukhala ndi zovuta zazikulu.

Makolo a makanda, ana aang'ono, ndi ana aang'ono amakhala ovuta kwambiri panthawiyi. Koma timapezanso china chomwe anzathu opanda ana alibe: chosokoneza chokhazikika kuti atichotsere misala yomwe ikuchitika mdziko lapansi pano.

Osandilakwitsa - ngakhale ndi Eli, ubongo wanga ukadali ndi nthawi yochuluka yoyenda mumakona amdima. Koma ndimapuma kuchokera kuzinthuzo ndikakhala wokhulupirika kwathunthu ndikusewera naye.

Tikakhala ndi tiyi kapena kusewera magalimoto kapena kuwerenga mabuku a library omwe amayenera kubwezedwa mwezi watha, ndi mwayi wokuiwaliranako zina zonse. Ndipo ndi zabwino kwambiri.

Ndiyenera kuti ndidutse mu izi, kuti ndiyesenso momwe ndingathere

Nthawi zina ndimamva ngati sindingathe tsiku lina la izi.

Pakhala pali nthawi zosawerengeka zomwe ndimatsala pang'ono kutaya mtima, monga momwe Eli amamenyera ndikusamba m'manja nthawi iliyonse timabwera kuchokera kusewera kunja. Kapenanso nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndikuganiza kuti osankhidwa athu akuwoneka kuti alibe malingaliro otithandizira kuti tibwererenso ngakhale moyo wamba.

Sindingathe nthawi zonse kuletsa zisangalalo izi kuti zindilande. Koma ndaona kuti ndikamuyankha Eli ndi mkwiyo kapena kukhumudwa, amangobwelelanso. Ndipo amawoneka wokwiya, zomwe zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wolakwa kwambiri.

Kodi nthawi zonse kumakhala kosavuta kuti ndikhale wodekha? Ayi sichoncho, ndikusunga kuziziritsa kwanga nthawi zonse sikungamulepheretse kuponya. Koma izo amachita zikuwoneka kuti zimatithandiza tonse kuchira mwachangu ndikupita patsogolo mosavuta, kotero mtambo wosasunthika sukhala patsiku lathu lonse.

Maganizo anga akayamba kufalikira, ndimayesetsa kukumbukira kuti ndilibe mwayi wokhala kunyumba ndi mwana wanga pompano komanso kuti vuto langa silowopsa kuposa la wina aliyense.

Pafupifupi kholo lililonse laling'ono mdziko - padziko lapansi, ngakhale! - akulimbana ndi zomwezi monga ine, kapena akulimbana ndi zovuta zazikulu monga kuyesa kupeza chakudya kapena kugwira ntchito popanda zida zoyenera.

Chisankho chokha ine chitani ndili ndi momwe ndimagwirira ntchito ndi dzanja losakambirana lomwe ndapatsidwa.

Marygrace Taylor ndi wolemba zaumoyo komanso kulera ana, mkonzi wakale wamagazini a KIWI, komanso amayi kwa Eli. Mukamuyendere pa marygracetaylor.com.