Wokondedwa Dokotala, Sindikwanitsa Mabokosi Anu Oyang'ana, koma Kodi Mudzawona Anga?

Zamkati

• Madokotala ambiri samaphunzitsidwa pankhani yokhudza kusamalira anthu oberekera
• Tonse tili ndi mphamvu zopanga zosintha zazing'ono ndikusintha kwakukulu

“Koma ndiwe wokongola kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani ungachite izi? ”

Mawuwo atachoka pakamwa pake, nthawi yomweyo thupi langa linakhazikika ndipo dzenje lanyansi linamira m'mimba mwanga. Mafunso onse omwe ndidakonza m'mutu mwanga asanasankhidwe adasowa. Mwadzidzidzi ndinadzimva wosatetezeka - osati mwakuthupi, koma mwamalingaliro.

Panthawiyo, ndimaganiza zogwirizanitsa thupi langa ndi mawonekedwe anga osagwirizana ndi amuna kapena akazi. Zomwe ndimafuna ndikuphunzira zambiri za testosterone.

Ichi chinali gawo loyamba lomwe ndidatenga kuti ndidziwitse zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha mahomoni ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nditakafunsa za jenda yanga ndikulimbana ndi dysphoria ya jenda kwazaka zopitilira ziwiri. Koma mmalo momva kupuma ndi kupita patsogolo, ndidadzimva kuti ndagonja komanso kutaya chiyembekezo.

Ndinachita manyazi ndimomwe ndinkakondera maphunziro ndi zokumana nazo zomwe omwe amapereka kwa omwe ali ndi mwayi wokhudzana ndi jenda komanso transgender health. Iye anali munthu woyamba yemwe ndamuuzapo - pamaso pa makolo anga, pamaso pa mnzanga, pamaso pa anzanga. Mwina samadziwa izi… ndipo sakudziwabe.

Madokotala ambiri samaphunzitsidwa pankhani yokhudza kusamalira anthu oberekera

Anapeza kuti mwa omwe akuyankha (411) azachipatala, pafupifupi 80% amathandizapo munthu yemwe ali ndi transgender, koma 80.6% sanalandirepo maphunziro osamalira anthu opatsirana pogonana.

Madokotala anali ndi chidaliro chachikulu kapena pang'ono malinga ndi matanthauzidwe (77.1 peresenti), kutenga mbiri (63.3 peresenti), ndikupereka mahomoni (64.8%). Koma chidaliro chochepa chidanenedwa kunja kwa gawo la mahomoni.

Pankhani yokhudza chithandizo chamankhwala chotsimikizira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi, nkhawa zathu sizongokhudza kuchitira zachipatala zokha. Jenda ndi zambiri kuposa mankhwala komanso matupi athu. Mchitidwe wogwiritsa ntchito dzina lotsimikizika la munthu wina ndi chilankhulidwe chake chitha kukhala cholowererapo champhamvu komanso chofunikira monga mahomoni. Ndikadakhala ndikudziwa zaka zisanu zapitazo, mwina ndikadayandikira zinthu mosiyana.

Tsopano, ndisanapangane ndi dokotala watsopano, ndimayimbira foni kuofesi.

Ndikuyitana kuti ndidziwe ngati mchitidwewo ndi woperekayo ali ndi chidziwitso ndi odwala a transgender. Ngati satero, zili bwino. Ndimangosintha ziyembekezo zanga. Ndikakhala ku ofesi ya adotolo, siine ntchito yanga kuphunzitsa. Ndikalowa, zovuta ndizoti ogwira ntchito kumaofesi amangondiona ngati wamwamuna kapena wamkazi.

Izi sizinthu zokhazokha. Mu 2015 US Transgender Survey, 33% adanena kuti anali ndi vuto limodzi ndi dokotala kapena wothandizira ena okhudzana ndi transgender, kuphatikiza:

• 24% kuyenera kuphunzitsa woperekayo za anthu oberekera kuti alandire chisamaliro choyenera
• 15 peresenti kufunsidwa mafunso ovuta kapena osafunikira okhudzana ndi transgender, osagwirizana ndi chifukwa chakuchezera
• 8 peresenti kukanidwa chisamaliro chokhudzana ndi kusintha

Ndikadzaza mafomu azakudya ndipo sindikuwona zosankha zanga zosonyeza kuti si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndimaganiza kuti zikutanthauza kuti omwe akupereka chithandizo ndi ogwira ntchito zamankhwala sangakhale ndi chidziwitso chazomwe sizili zachilendo, kapena sakhudzidwa ndi nkhaniyi. Palibe amene adzafunse za mayina anga kapena kutsimikizika (mosiyana ndi malamulo).

Ndikuyembekeza kuti ndimalakwitsa.

Ndipo munthawi izi, ndimasankha kuyika patsogolo zovuta zanga zamankhwala kuposa kuphunzitsa opereka chithandizo. Muzochitika izi, ndimayika malingaliro anga pambali kuti ndikakhudzidwe ndi zamankhwala. Izi ndi zenizeni zanga pazochitika zilizonse zamankhwala kapena zamaganizidwe kunja kwa zipatala zomwe zimayang'ana za jenda.

Tonse tili ndi mphamvu zopanga zosintha zazing'ono ndikusintha kwakukulu

Ndikulakalaka onse opereka chithandizo chamankhwala atazindikira kufunikira kwa chilankhulo ndikuvomereza kusiyanasiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi pochita ndi anthu wamba. Zaumoyo ndizazinthu zonse, kuyambira pachimake mpaka m'thupi, ndikutsimikizira dzina mpaka mahomoni. Sizokhudza mankhwala chabe.

Tili pa nthawi m'mbiri pomwe kuzindikira kwachikhalidwe chathu ndikumvetsetsa kwa ma transgender komanso zosadziwika bwino zimaposa kuthekera kwa machitidwe athu kuwerengera ndikutsimikizira kukhalapo kwawo. Pali chidziwitso chokwanira ndi maphunziro omwe amapezeka kuti anthu azindikire za jenda zomwe sizichitika mosiyanasiyana. Komabe palibe chifukwa chodziwitsira ndi chidwi ichi kuti chigwiritsidwe ntchito m'malo azaumoyo.

Kodi chingalimbikitse akatswiri kuti asinthe, osati m'malo azaumoyo okha?

Sikumanganso kwathunthu. Ngakhale atakhala ndi malingaliro abwino a akatswiri, kukondera komanso kusankhana kumakhalapo nthawi zonse. Koma pali njira zosonyezera kumvera ena chisoni. Zinthu zazing'ono mdziko la jenda zimapanga a chachikulu kusiyana, monga:

• Kuyika zikwangwani kapena zida zotsatsira mu chipinda chodikirira zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti amuna kapena akazi onse ndiolandilidwa.
• Kuonetsetsa mafomu amasiyanitsa kugonana komwe kwapatsidwa kuchokera ku jenda.
• Kupereka malo odzipatulira pamafomu odyera a dzina (ngati ali osiyana ndi dzina lovomerezeka), matchulidwe, ndi jenda (wamwamuna, wamkazi, wopititsa patsogolo, wosagwiritsa ntchito bayinare, ndi zina).
• Kufunsa aliyense (osati ma transgender okha kapena anthu osagwiritsa ntchito mabacteria) momwe amakonda kutchulidwira.
• Kugwiritsa ntchito transgender kapena amuna osasintha amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Kudziwona wekha wobwerera m'mbuyo kumatha kukhala kopindulitsa kwambiri.
• Kuwongolera ndikupepesa chifukwa changozi pogwiritsa ntchito dzina lolakwika kapena chilankhulo.

Ndimayang'ana kumbuyo kulumikizana kuja ndi dokotala ndipo ndimatha kuwona bwino lomwe kuti zomwe ndimafunikira munthawiyo sizinali chidziwitso chokhudza mahomoni. Ndinafunika ofesi ya dokotala wanga kuti ndikhale malo otetezeka panthawi yomwe sindinali wokonzeka kugawana izi kwina kulikonse.

Ndidafunikira adotolo kuti avomereze kuti ndine ndani kuti ndikhale wosiyana ndi "kugonana" komwe ndalemba. M'malo mongofunsa chifukwa, mawu osavuta ngati awa akanapanga kusiyana konse: "Zikomo chifukwa chobwera kwa ine ndi funso lanu. Ndikuzindikira kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kubwera kudzafunsa zinthu zamtunduwu. Zikumveka ngati mukufunsa mafunso pazikhalidwe zanu. Ndingakhale wokondwa kukuthandizani kupeza zidziwitso ndi zothandizira. Mungandiuzeko zambiri za momwe munayambira kuganizira za testosterone? ”

Sizokhudza kukhala wangwiro, koma kupanga kuyesetsa. Chidziwitso chimakhala champhamvu kwambiri mukachigwiritsa ntchito. Kusintha ndichinthu chomwe sichingayambe pokhapokha wina atakhazikitsa kufunikira kwake.

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