3 Makhalidwe Anga Ana Anga Aphunzira Kukhala Ndi Amayi Odwala Kwanthawi Yaitali

Zamkati

• Kulekerera zolakwa
• 1. Kupezeka nthawi yakuchezera limodzi
• 2. Kufunika kodzisamalira
• 3. Kumvera ena chisoni

Kupeza zolumikizira zasiliva pokhala kholo lokhala ndi matenda osachiritsika.

Thanzi ndi thanzi zimakhudza aliyense wa ife mosiyanasiyana. Iyi ndi nkhani ya munthu m'modzi.

Ndikadangokhala mnyumba yosamba, yodzaza ndi madzi otentha ndi makapu asanu ndi limodzi a mchere wa Epsom, ndikuyembekeza kuti kuphatikiza kungaloleze zowawa zam'mfundo zanga kuti zichepetse ndikukhazika minofu yanga yopumira.

Kenako ndinamva kugunda kukhitchini. Ndinkafuna kulira. Kodi padziko lapansi mwana wanga anali kulowamo chiyani tsopano?

Popeza ndinali kholo lokha lokhala ndi matenda osachiritsika, ndinali nditatopa kotheratu. Thupi langa lidapweteka ndipo mutu udagundana.

Momwe ndimamva ma drawer akutseguka ndikutseka mchipinda changa chogona ndidamiza mutu wanga m'madzi, ndikumvetsera kugunda kwa mtima wanga kumamveka m'makutu mwanga. Ndinadzikumbutsa kuti iyi inali nthawi yanga yoti andisamalire, ndipo kunali kofunika kwambiri kutero.

Zinali bwino kuti mwana wanga wamwamuna wazaka khumi anali yekha kwa mphindi 20 zomwe ndinali ndikulowetsa m'bafa, ndinadziuza. Ndinayesera kupumira pamavuto ena omwe ndinali nawo.

Kulekerera zolakwa

Kuyesera kusiya kulakwa ndichinthu chomwe ndimadzipeza ndimachita pafupipafupi ngati kholo - makamaka popeza ndili wolumala, kholo lomwe limadwaladwala.

Sindine ndekha ayi. Ndine m'gulu lothandizira pa intaneti la makolo omwe ali ndi matenda osachiritsika omwe ali odzaza ndi anthu omwe amafunsa kuti zomwe amalephera kuchita zimakhudza bwanji ana awo.

Tikukhala pagulu lomwe limayang'ana kwambiri zokolola komanso chikhalidwe chomwe chimalimbikitsa kwambiri zinthu zonse zomwe tingachitire ana athu. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti timakayikira ngati ndife makolo okwanira kapena ayi.

Pali kukakamizidwa kwachikhalidwe kwa makolo kuti apite nawo ku makalasi a "Amayi ndi Ine" ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kudzipereka ku kalasi ya pulayimale, kuthamangitsa achinyamata pakati pa makalabu angapo ndi mapulogalamu, kupangira maphwando okondwerera tsiku lobadwa la Pinterest, ndikupanga chakudya chabwino - Zonsezi ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ana athu alibe nthawi yochulukirapo.

Popeza nthawi zina ndimadwala kwambiri kuti ndingathe kusiya bedi, makamaka nyumba, ziyembekezo zamtunduwu zitha kundipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wolephera.

Komabe, zomwe ine - komanso makolo ena osawerengeka omwe ali ndi matenda osachiritsika - apeza ndikuti ngakhale zinthu zomwe sitingathe kuchita, pali mfundo zambiri zomwe timaphunzitsa ana athu pokhala ndi matenda osachiritsika.

1. Kupezeka nthawi yakuchezera limodzi

Chimodzi mwa mphatso zamatenda akuda ndi mphatso yakanthawi.

Thupi lanu likakhala kuti silitha kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro oti "pitani-pita-pita-chita" zomwe ndizofala m'dera lathu, umakakamizidwa kuti uchepetse.

Ndisanayambe kudwala, ndimagwira ntchito yanthawi zonse ndikuphunzitsa mausiku angapo kuwonjezera apo, ndikupitanso kukamaliza maphunziro anthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri tinkathera nthawi yocheza ndi banja lathu kuchita zinthu monga kupita kukayenda maulendo akutali, kupita kumisonkhano, komanso kuchita zinthu zina padziko lapansi.

Nditadwala zinthuzo zinaima modzidzimutsa, ndipo ana anga (omwe anali azaka 8 ndi 9) ndipo tinayenera kuzindikira zenizeni zatsopano.

Ngakhale sindinathenso kuchita zinthu zambiri ana anga ankazolowera kutichitira limodzi, mwadzidzidzi ndinali ndi nthawi yambiri yocheza nawo.

Moyo umachedwetsa kwambiri mukamadwala, ndipo kudwala kwanga kumachedwetsa moyo wa ana anga, nawonso.

Pali mwayi wambiri wogona pabedi ndi kanema kapena kugona pakama kumamvetsera ana anga akundiwerengera buku. Ndili kunyumba ndipo nditha kupezeka nawo akafuna kulankhula kapena kungofunika kukumbatiridwa.

Moyo, wa ine ndi ana anga, tayamba kuyang'ana kwambiri pakadali pano ndikusangalala ndi mphindi zochepa.

2. Kufunika kodzisamalira

Mwana wanga wamng'ono ali ndi zaka 9 adandiuza tattoo yanga yotsatira iyenera kukhala mawu oti "samalani," chifukwa chake ndikawona ndimakumbukira kudzisamalira ndekha.

Mawu amenewo tsopano adasindikizidwa potemberera pa dzanja langa lamanja, ndipo anali kulondola - ndichikumbutso chabwino tsiku ndi tsiku.

Kudwala ndikundiona ndikungodzisamalira kwandithandiza kuphunzitsa ana anga kufunika kodzisamalira.

Ana anga aphunzira kuti nthawi zina timayenera kukana zinthu, kapena kusiya ntchito kuti tipeze zosowa zathupi.

Aphunzira kufunikira kodya nthawi zonse ndikudya zakudya zomwe matupi athu amayankha bwino, komanso kufunikira kopeza kupumula kokwanira.

Iwo amadziwa osati kokha kuti ndikofunikira kusamalira ena, koma ndikofunikanso kudzisamalira tokha.

3. Kumvera ena chisoni

Zinthu zazikulu zomwe ana anga aphunzira kuleredwa ndi kholo lomwe limadwaladwala ndi chifundo ndi kumvera ena chisoni.

M'magulu othandizira odwala omwe ndimakhala nawo pa intaneti, izi zimabwera mobwerezabwereza: njira zomwe ana athu amakulira kukhala anthu achifundo kwambiri komanso osamala.

Ana anga amamvetsetsa kuti nthawi zina anthu akumva kuwawa, kapena amavutika ndi ntchito zomwe ena angavutike nazo. Amakhala achangu kupereka thandizo kwa iwo omwe amawawona akuvutika kapena kumangomvera anzawo omwe akuvutika.

Amandithandizanso, zomwe zimandipangitsa kukhala wonyada kwambiri komanso woyamikira.

Nditatuluka m'bafa ija, ndidadzilimbitsa kuti ndikumane ndi nyansi yayikulu mnyumba. Ndidadzimanga ndi thaulo ndikupumira mwamphamvu pokonzekera. Zomwe ndidapeza m'malo mwake zidandigwetsa misozi.

Mwana wanga adayika "ma comfies" omwe ndimakonda pabedi ndikundimwera kapu ya tiyi. Ndinakhala kumapeto kwa kama wanga ndikulowetsa zonse.

Ululu udakalipobe, monganso kutopa. Koma pamene mwana wanga amalowa ndikundikumbatira, liwongo silinali.

M'malo mwake, ndimangokonda banja langa lokongolali komanso kuthokoza pazinthu zonse zomwe kukhala mthupi lodwala komanso lopunduka kumene zikundiphunzitsa ine ndi omwe ndimawakonda.

Angie Ebba ndi wojambula wolumala yemwe amaphunzitsa zokambirana ndikumachita mdziko lonse. Angie amakhulupirira mphamvu zaluso, zolemba, komanso magwiridwe antchito kuti zitithandizire kudzimvetsetsa tokha, kumanga gulu, ndikusintha. Mutha kupeza Angie pa iye tsamba la webusayiti, iye blog, kapena Facebook.