Kholo Lopanda Manja: Kodi Mwana Wanu Adzakhala Ndi Bokosi Lawo Liti?

Zamkati

• Avereji ya zaka zofikira pachimake
• Zizindikiro mwana ndi wokonzeka kugwira botolo lawo
• Momwe mungalimbikitsire mwana wanu kuti azigwira botolo lake
• Zomwe muyenera kusamala mukamasiya botolo
• Kodi mwana ayenera kunyamula botolo lake?
• Kutenga

Tikaganizira zofunikira kwambiri za ana, nthawi zambiri timaganizira zazikulu zomwe aliyense amafunsa - kukwawa, kugona usiku wonse (aleluya), kuyenda, kuwomba m'manja, kunena mawu oyamba.

Koma nthawi zina zimakhala zazing'ono.

Mwachitsanzo: Nthawi yoyamba yomwe mwana wanu amakhala ndi botolo lake (kapena chinthu china chilichonse - monga teether - chomwe mumafuna kuti muzichigwirira), mumazindikira kuchuluka kwa zomwe mwaphonya kukhala ndi dzanja lowonjezeralo kuti zinthu zichitike .

Itha kukhala yosintha masewera, kwenikweni. Komanso sichinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuti mwana aliyense adzafike panjira yopita ku zochitika zina (monga kugwira chikho ngati kamwana), ndipo ndichoncho, nanenso.

Avereji ya zaka zofikira pachimake

Ana ena amatha kusunga botolo lawo ali ndi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.Izi sizikutanthauza kuti sizidzachitika posachedwa - pali zachilendo zambiri.

Wapakati amatha kukhala pafupi miyezi 8 kapena 9, pomwe makanda ali ndi mphamvu komanso luso loyendetsa zinthu zogwirira zinthu (ngakhale chimodzi mdzanja lililonse!) Ndikuwatsogolera komwe akufuna kuti apite (monga pakamwa pawo).

Chifukwa chake miyezi ya 6 mpaka 10 ndiyabwino.

Ana omwe angosintha kumene kupita ku botolo mwina sangakhale ndi chidwi chougwira, ngakhale mphamvu ndi mgwirizano wawo zitha kuzilola.

Momwemonso, makanda omwe ali ndi chidwi chambiri pachakudya - chomwe chimakhalanso chabwinobwino, mwa njira - amatha kutengera botolo koyambirira. Pomwe pali chifuniro pali njira, monga mwambi ukunenera.

Koma kumbukirani kuti chochitika chofunikirachi sichikufunikiranso - kapenanso kukhala chopindulitsa nthawi zonse.

Pafupifupi zaka 1, mungafune kuyamwitsa mwana wanu kuchoka botolo. Chifukwa chake mwina simungafune kuti mwana wanu azikondana kwambiri ndi lingaliro loti botolo ndi lawo, kungoyesera kuti mulichotse patapita miyezi ingapo.

Mfundo yofunika: Mudzafunabe kuti muzitha kuyendetsa mabotolo, ngakhale atatha kuwagwira.

Zizindikiro mwana ndi wokonzeka kugwira botolo lawo

Ngati mwana wanu kulibe, musadandaule - mwina palibe cholakwika ndi mgwirizano wawo. Mwana aliyense ndi wosiyana. Koma mukawona zizindikirozi, konzekerani kuwomba m'manja ndi chisangalalo, chifukwa kudziyimira pawokha (kapena kumwa chikho, chomwe mungafune kuyamba kulimbikitsa m'malo) kuli panjira.

• wanu wamng'ono akhoza kukhala paokha
• mutakhala pansi, mwana wanu amatha kukhala wolimba pomwe akusewera ndi choseweretsa m'manja
• mwana wanu amafikira zinthu ndikuzitenga atakhala pansi
• mwana wanu amafikira chakudya (choyenera zaka) chomwe mumawapatsa ndikuzibweretsa pakamwa
• mwana wanu wamng'ono amaika dzanja kapena manja onse awiri pa botolo kapena chikho mukamawadyetsa

Momwe mungalimbikitsire mwana wanu kuti azigwira botolo lake

Monga momwe makolo ambiri amadziwira, mwana amachita zomwe mwana amafuna nthawi komanso komwe amafuna.

Koma ngati mukuyang'ana kuti mulimbikitse mwana wanu kuti apatse amayi (kwenikweni), mutha kuyesa:

• kuwonetsa kuyenda kwa pakamwa potenga zinthu zotetezedwa ndi ana (monga ma teether) ndikuzibweretsa kuchokera pansi mpaka pakamwa pa mwana
• kugula mabotolo osavuta kumvetsetsa kapena makapu amphongo ogwiritsira ntchito (mwana ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito manja awiri kuti agwire botolo, koyambirira)
• kuyika manja awo botolo ndikuyika lanu pamwamba - kenako ndikuwatsogolera botolo kukamwa
• kuthera nthawi yochuluka akumanga mphamvu za mwana, monga nthawi yamimba

Mwana wanu ayenera kukhala yekha asanadziyese okha, chifukwa ndichinthu choyenera kuchitidwa moyenera. Nthawi yakumapeto idzawathandizanso kupeza mphamvu zenizeni pamaluso awa, ndipo mutha kuwalimbikitsanso kuti adzafike pokhala pamphumi panu.

Komanso, ganizirani mosamala ngati mukufuna mwana atanyamula botolo lake, pazifukwa zomwe tanena kale.

Kuyang'ana kwambiri kulola mwana wanu kudzidyetsa yekha ndi kuwaphunzitsa momwe angagwirire ndikumwa kuchokera mu chikho chawo (chofewa kapena chokhazikika) pampando wapamwamba, kwinaku akupitilizabe kukhala wopatsa botolo, ndi njira ina yolimbikitsira kudziyimira pawokha ndikuwaphunzitsa maluso .

Zomwe muyenera kusamala mukamasiya botolo

Palibe chikaiko mphindi yabwino pamene mwana wanu angathe kudzidyetsa yekha. Koma akadali osakwanira komanso anzeru zokwanira kuti nthawi zonse azitha kusankha bwino, chifukwa chake simuyenera kuwasiya pazokha.

Zinthu zitatu zofunika kuzikumbukira:

Kumbukirani kuti botolo ndilodyetsa, osati kutonthoza kapena kugona. Kupatsa mwana wanu botolo la mkaka (kapena ngakhale mkaka mu chikho chosasunthika) kuti agwire ndikupitiliza kuchita zinthu zina sikungakhale kachitidwe kabwino.

Pewani kusiya mwana wanu mchikuta ndi botolo. Ngakhale atha kukhala osangalala kumwa okha kuti agone, kupita kudziko lamaloto ndi botolo mkamwa si lingaliro labwino. Mkaka umatha kusonkhanitsa mozungulira mano awo ndikulimbikitsa kuwola kwa mano nthawi yayitali ndikutsamwa pakanthawi kochepa.

M'malo mwake, kudyetsani mwana wanu posachedwa musanagone (kapena aloleni achite ndi diso lanu loyang'ana pa iwo) kenako ndikupukutani pang'ono mkamwa ndi mano opanda mkaka. Ngati kulimbana kuti awagone opanda chotupa mkamwa mwawo ndi zenizeni, pitani pacifier.

Ngati mwana wanu sakugwirabe botolo lake lokha, pewani kuyesedwa kuti mugwiritse ntchito chilichonse kuti mugwiritse botolo mkamwa. Tikudziwa kuti ndikofunika bwanji kukhala ndi manja awiri, koma si lingaliro labwino kuchita izi ndikusiya mwana osayang'aniridwa. Kuphatikiza pa kutsamwa, kumawaika pachiwopsezo chachikulu chodya mopitirira muyeso.

Kusiya mwana wanu m'chikombole chake ndi botolo ndikupangira botolo kumawonjezeranso chiopsezo cha matenda am'makutu, makamaka ngati mwana wanu wagona.

Kodi mwana ayenera kunyamula botolo lake?

Mwana wanu atakhala ndi botolo lake, amawonetsa maluso ofunikira - kuphatikiza "kuwoloka pakatikati," kapena kufikira mbali ndi thupi ndi dzanja kapena phazi.

Koma makanda ena - makamaka ana oyamwitsa - samachita izi kudzera pakumangirira botolo, ndipo nzabwino. Palinso njira zina zokulitsira ndikugwiritsa ntchito luso ili.

Mwachitsanzo, khanda loyamwitsa, limatha kudumpha kuchokera pomwe akuyamwitsa mpaka kumwa chikho chokha, chomwe chimagwiritsa ntchito luso lomweli, pafupifupi zaka 1.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti analibe luso limeneli kale. Ntchito zina zimaphatikizapo kudutsa pakatikati, monga kugwiritsa ntchito dzanja lotsogola kuti mutenge chinthu mbali yosadziwika ya thupi kapena kubweretsa chidole mpaka pakamwa.

Kutenga

Kwezani manja anu m'mwamba ngati simusamala - mwana wanu wamwamuna akukhala wodziyimira pawokha! Zachidziwikire, mwina mukufunabe kudyetsa mwana wanu nthawi yayitali - kuti muzimanga, kumangirira, komanso chitetezo.

Ndipo kudya palokha ndi luso mwawekha lomwe ndilofunika kwambiri kuposa kukhala ndi botolo makamaka - makamaka popeza masiku a botolo amawerengedwa ngati mwana wanu akuyandikira chaka chimodzi.

Koma ngati mwana wanu akuwonetsa luso - nthawi ina pakati pa miyezi 6 ndi 10 - muzimasuka kuwapatsa botolo lawo nthawi iliyonse.

Ndipo ngati mwana wanu sakuwonetsa zizindikiritso zaukadaulo wapakati pa chaka chimodzi, lankhulani ndi dokotala wa ana. Adzatha kuyankha mafunso anu ndikuyankha nkhawa zanu.