Atsikana Achichepere Amaganiza Kuti Anyamata Ndi anzeru, Atero Phunziro Lopanikizika Kwambiri
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Pankhani yolimbana ndi malingaliro achikhalidwe, kungonena kuti "atsikana ali ngati anyamata" ndipo masewera #girlpower malonda sikokwanira.
Pakadali pano, tili pakumenyera ufulu wofanana (chifukwa, ayi, zinthu sizili zofanana) ndikudzaza mphotho ya malipiro (yomwe imakondera kwambiri, BTW). Zimamveka ngati tikupita patsogolo-kufikira titapeza cheke kuti tili ndi njira yongopita. (Kodi mumadziwa kuti jenda limakhudzanso kulimbitsa thupi kwanu?)
Lero, cheke chenichenicho chimabwera kudzera pagulu la atsikana azaka 6. Mwachiwonekere, pofika msinkhu umenewo, atsikana ali kale ndi malingaliro a amuna kapena akazi pa zanzeru: Atsikana azaka 6 samakhulupirira kuti amuna kapena akazi awo ndi "anzeru kwenikweni," ndipo amayamba kupeŵa zochitika zomwe zimanenedwa kuti ndizofunikira. ana amene “ali anzeru kwenikweni,” malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano wofalitsidwa m’magaziniyo Sayansi.
Lin Bian, wofufuza pa yunivesite ya Illinois, analankhula ndi ana a zaka 5, 6, ndi 7 m’maphunziro anayi osiyanasiyana kuti awone pamene malingaliro osiyanasiyana okhudza jenda amawonekera. Ali ndi zaka zisanu, anyamata ndi atsikana adalumikiza luntha ndikukhala "aluntha kwenikweni" ndi amuna awo. Koma ali ndi zaka 6 kapena 7, anyamata okhawo anali ndi maganizo omwewo. Pakafukufuku wapambuyo pake, Bian adapeza kuti zofuna za atsikana azaka zapakati pa 6 ndi 7 anali atapangidwa kale ndi malingaliro a anyamata-anzeruwa; mukapatsidwa chisankho pakati pa masewera a "ana omwe alidi anzeru, anzeru kwambiri" ndi ina ya "ana omwe amayesetsadi, molimbika kwambiri," atsikana analibe chidwi kwenikweni kuposa anyamata pamasewera a ana anzeru. Komabe, amuna ndi akazi onse anali ndi chidwi mofanana ndi masewera a ana olimbikira ntchito, kusonyeza kuti kukondera kwa amuna ndi akazi kumalunjika ku nzeru, osati ntchito. Ndipo iyi si nkhani yodzichepetsera - a Bian anali ndi udindo wa ana zina nzeru za anthu (kuchokera pa chithunzi kapena nkhani yopeka).
"Zotsatira zomwe zilipo zikusonyeza mfundo yochititsa chidwi: Ana ambiri amatengera lingaliro lakuti nzeru ndi khalidwe lachimuna ali aang'ono," akutero Bian mu kafukufukuyu.
Palibenso njira ina yonenera izi: zopeza izi ndizovuta. Kusankhana kwakhazikika m'malingaliro achichepere mwachangu kuposa momwe munganene kuti "mphamvu ya atsikana," ndipo zimakhudza chilichonse kuyambira momwe mtsikana amatenga nawo mbali kusukulu mpaka zomwe amakonda (Hei, sayansi).
Ndiye mkazi wamphamvu, wodziimira payekha ndi chiyani? Pitirizani kumenya nkhondo yabwino. Ndipo ngati muli ndi mwana wamkazi wamng'ono, muuzeni tsiku lililonse kuti ndi wanzeru kwambiri.