Matenda othandizira kuphatikizika kuyambira ali wakhanda kapena ali mwana

Matenda othandizira kuphatikizika ndi vuto lomwe mwana sangathe kupanga ubale wabwinobwino kapena wachikondi ndi ena. Zimawerengedwa kuti ndi chifukwa chosapanga cholumikizira ndi omwe amakasamalira ali achichepere kwambiri.

Matenda othandizira kuphatikizika amayamba chifukwa chakuzunza kapena kunyalanyaza zosowa za khanda pa:

• Zolumikizana ndi woyang'anira woyamba kapena wachiwiri
• Chakudya
• Chitetezo chakuthupi
• Kukhudza

Khanda kapena mwana akhoza kunyalanyazidwa pamene:

• Wosamalira amalephera nzeru
• Wosamalira alibe luso la kulera
• Makolo amakhala okhaokha
• Makolo ndi achinyamata

Kusintha pafupipafupi kwa omwe akuwasamalira (mwachitsanzo, malo osungira ana amasiye kapena olera ana) ndi chifukwa china cha matenda ophatikizika.

Kwa mwana, zizindikilo zimatha kuphatikiza:

• Kupewa wosamalira
• Kupewa kukhudzana
• Zovuta kutonthozedwa
• Osapanga kusiyanitsa mukamacheza ndi alendo
• Kufuna kukhala wekha m'malo mochita zinthu ndi ena

Wosamalira nthawi zambiri amanyalanyaza za mwana:

• Zosowa zakutonthozedwa, zolimbikitsidwa, komanso zachikondi
• Zosowa monga chakudya, chimbudzi, ndi kusewera

Matendawa amapezeka ndi:

• Mbiri yonse
• Kuyesedwa kwakuthupi
• Kuyesa kwamisala

Chithandizo chili ndi magawo awiri. Cholinga choyamba ndikuwonetsetsa kuti mwanayo ali pamalo otetezeka pomwe zosowa zam'maganizo ndi zakuthupi zimakwaniritsidwa.

Izi zikakhazikitsidwa, gawo lotsatira ndikusintha maubwenzi apakati pa olera ndi mwanayo, ngati wowasumirayo ndi vuto. Makalasi olera angathandize wosamalira kukwaniritsa zosowa za mwanayo komanso kulumikizana ndi mwanayo.

Uphungu umatha kuthandiza wowasamalira kuthana ndi mavuto, monga kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena nkhanza za m'banja. Social Services iyenera kutsatira banja kuti liwonetsetse kuti mwanayo akukhala m'malo otetezeka, okhazikika.

Kulowererapo koyenera kumatha kusintha zotsatira zake.

Ngati sanalandire chithandizo, vutoli limatha kukhudzanso mwanayo kuyanjana ndi ena. Itha kulumikizidwa ndi:

• Nkhawa
• Matenda okhumudwa
• Mavuto ena amisala
• Post-traumatic stress disorder

Vutoli limadziwika nthawi zambiri kholo (kapena woyembekezera kukhala kholo) ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu chonyalanyazidwa kapena pamene kholo lomwe likumulera likuvutika kuthana ndi mwana yemwe wangobadwa kumene.

Ngati mwangobereka kumene mwana wamasiye kapena malo ena omwe kunyalanyaza kumachitika ndipo mwana wanu akuwonetsa izi, onani omwe akukuthandizani.

Kuzindikira msanga ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa mwanayo. Makolo omwe ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu chonyalanyazidwa ayenera kuphunzitsidwa luso la kulera. Banja liyenera kutsatiridwa ndi wogwira nawo ntchito kapena dokotala kuti awonetsetse kuti zosowa za mwanayo zikukwaniritsidwa.

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