Ndinapulumuka Nkhondo 8 za Khansa. Pano pali 5 Moyo Tikuphunzira

Zamkati

• Phunziro 1: Dziwani mbiri ya banja lanu
• Phunziro 2: Dziwani zambiri za matenda anu
• Phunziro 3: Unikirani zonse zomwe mungasankhe, ndipo menyani zomwe zili zoyenera kwa inu
• Phunziro 4: Kumbukirani zomwe mwaphunzira
• Phunziro 5: Dziwani thupi lanu
• Tengera kwina

Pazaka 40 zapitazi, ndakhala ndikukhudzidwa kwambiri komanso kusakhulupirira mbiri ya khansa. Popeza ndalimbana ndi khansara osati kamodzi, osati kawiri, koma kasanu ndi katatu - komanso bwino - sikofunikira kunena kuti ndalimbana kwanthawi yayitali kuti ndikhale wopulumuka. Mwamwayi, ndadalitsidwanso kukhala ndi chithandizo chamankhwala chabwino chomwe chandithandiza paulendo wanga wonsewu. Ndipo inde, panjira, ndaphunzira zinthu zingapo.

Monga wodwala khansa angapo, ndakumanapo ndi kuthekera kwakufa kangapo. Koma ndidapulumuka atapezeka ndi khansa ndikupitilizabe nkhondoyo kudzera m'matenda a metastatic ngakhale lero. Mukakhala ndi moyo wonga wanga, zomwe mumaphunzira panjirayi zitha kukuthandizani tsiku lotsatira. Nazi maphunziro amoyo omwe ndidaphunzira ndikulimbana ndi khansa.

Phunziro 1: Dziwani mbiri ya banja lanu

Monga mtsikana wazaka 27, chinthu chomaliza chomwe mukuyembekezera kumva dokotala wanu akuwuza kuti, "Mayeso anu abweranso kuti muli ndi kachilombo. Ukhala ndi khansa. ” Mtima wanu umalumpha kukhosi kwanu. Mukuwopa kuti mudzatha chifukwa simungathe kupuma, komabe, dongosolo lanu lamanjenje lodziyimira pawokha likuyambika ndikupumira mpweya. Kenako, mumtima mwanu mumabwera lingaliro: Agogo anu anapezeka kuti ndi achichepere, akumwalira miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake. Iye sanali wamng'ono uyu, koma kodi ine posachedwa ndifa?

Umu ndi momwe matenda anga oyamba a khansa adasewera. Nditapumira pang'ono, nswala-mu-nyali-nkhungu zatuluka muubongo wanga ndipo mwakachetechete ndidafunsa dokotala wanga wamankhwala kuti, "Wati chiyani?" Dotolo uja atabwerezanso matendawa kachiwirinso, sizinali zopanikizika pang'ono kumva, koma tsopano osachepera ndinatha kupuma ndikuganiza.

Ndinayesetsa kwambiri kuti ndisachite mantha. Zinakhalanso zovuta kutsimikizira ndekha kuti kukhala mthandizi wa agogo anga aakazi ndili ndi zaka 11 sikunabweretsere khansa imeneyi. Sindina "igwire. " Ndinazindikira, komabe, kuti ndinatengera kwa iye kudzera mwa majini a amayi anga. Kudziwa mbiri ya banja ili sikunasinthe chenicheni changa, koma zidapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kuzama zenizeni. Zinandipatsanso chifuniro chomenyera chithandizo chamankhwala chabwino chomwe sichinapezeke kwa agogo anga azaka 16 zapitazo.

Phunziro 2: Dziwani zambiri za matenda anu

Kudziwa nkhani ya agogo anga kunandilimbikitsa kumenya nkhondo kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti ndipulumuka. Izi zikutanthauza kufunsa mafunso. Choyamba, ndimafuna kudziwa: Kodi matenda anga ndi ati makamaka? Kodi panali zambiri zomwe zinganditsogolere pa nkhondoyi?

Ndinayamba kuyimbira foni abale ndikufunsa zambiri za agogo anga aakazi komanso chithandizo chomwe amalandira. Ndinapitanso ku laibulale yaboma komanso malo opangira zida zachipatala kuti ndikapeze zambiri momwe ndingathere. Inde, zina mwa izo zinali zowopsa ndithu, koma ndinaphunziranso zambiri zomwe zilipo sizikugwira ntchito kwa ine. Umenewo unali mpumulo! M'masiku ano, zambiri zili pafupi pa intaneti - nthawi zina zochuluka kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri ndimachenjeza odwala ena a khansa kuti atsimikizire kuti aphunzira zomwe zikugwiritsidwa ntchito molingana ndi momwe mungadziwire nokha osakokedwa ndi zovuta zazidziwitso zosagwirizana.

Onetsetsani kuti mukugwiritsanso ntchito gulu lanu lachipatala. Kwa ine, dokotala wanga woyamba anali chisamaliro chambiri. Adalongosola zambiri zamaukadaulo okhudzana ndi matenda anga omwe sindimamvetsetsa. Anandilimbikitsanso kuti ndilandire lingaliro lachiwiri kuti nditsimikizire matendawa chifukwa izi zitha kundithandiza kusankha zomwe ndingachite.

Phunziro 3: Unikirani zonse zomwe mungasankhe, ndipo menyani zomwe zili zoyenera kwa inu

Nditalankhula ndi dokotala wabanja komanso katswiriyu, ndidapita patsogolo ndi lingaliro lachiwiri. Kenako, ndinalemba mndandanda wa chithandizo chamankhwala chomwe chilipo m'tawuni yanga. Ndidafunsa zomwe ndingasankhe potengera inshuwaransi yanga komanso zandalama. Kodi ndikadakwanitsa kulipirira chithandizo chomwe ndimafuna kuti ndikhale ndi moyo? Kodi zingakhale bwino kudula chotupacho kapena kuchotsa chiwalo chonse? Kodi njira iliyonseyi ingapulumutse moyo wanga? Kodi ndi njira iti yomwe ingandipatse moyo wabwino nditachitidwa opaleshoni? Ndi njira iti yomwe ingatsimikizire kuti khansa siyibwerera - osatinso malo omwewo?

Ndinali wokondwa kuphunzira za inshuwaransi yomwe ndinalipira pazaka zonse zokhudzana ndi opaleshoni yomwe ndimafuna. Komanso inali nkhondo kuti ndipeze zomwe ndimafuna ndikumva kuti ndikufunika motsutsana ndi zomwe zidalimbikitsidwa. Chifukwa cha msinkhu wanga, sindinauzidwe kamodzi, koma kawiri, kuti ndinali wamng'ono kwambiri kuti ndichitidwe opaleshoni yomwe ndimafuna kuchita. Achipatala analimbikitsa kuchotsa chotupacho. Ndinkafuna kuti chiberekero changa chichotsedwe.

Imeneyi inali mfundo ina pofufuza zonse zomwe ndingasankhe mosamala, ndikuchita zomwe zinali zoyenera kwa ine, zinali zofunika kwambiri. Ndinapita kunkhondo. Ndinakumananso ndi dokotala wabanja langa. Ndidasintha akatswiri kuti ndiwonetsetse kuti ndili ndi dokotala yemwe amathandizira pazosankha zanga. Ndili ndi makalata awo oyamikira. Ndinapempha zolemba zam'mbuyomu zamankhwala zomwe zimatsimikizira nkhawa zanga. Ndinatumiza apilo yanga ku kampani ya inshuwaransi. Ndidafunsa opareshoni yomwe ndimawona kuti ingandithandizire ndipo sungani ine.

Bungwe loyitanira apilo, mwamwayi, lidapanga chisankho mwachangu - mwina chifukwa cha nkhanza za khansa ya agogo anga. Anavomereza kuti ngati ndikadakhala ndi khansa yofananayi, sindikhala ndi nthawi yayitali yoti ndikhale ndi moyo. Ndinalumpha ndi chisangalalo ndikulira ngati khanda nditawerenga kalatayo yopereka chilolezo chandilipire chifukwa cha opaleshoni yomwe ndimafuna. Izi zidali umboni kuti ndiyenera kudzichirikiza, ngakhale munthawi yomwe ndimalimbana ndi njere.

Phunziro 4: Kumbukirani zomwe mwaphunzira

Izi zochepa zoyambirira zidaphunziridwa pankhondo yanga yoyamba ndi "Big C." Anali maphunziro omwe adayamba kumveka kwa ine pomwe amandipeza mobwerezabwereza ndi khansa zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo inde, panali maphunziro ambiri oti aphunzire pakapita nthawi, ndichifukwa chake ndili wokondwa kuti ndidasungabe zolemba nthawi yonseyi. Zinandithandiza kukumbukira zomwe ndimaphunzira nthawi iliyonse komanso momwe ndimasamalirira matendawa. Zinandithandiza kukumbukira momwe ndimalumikizirana ndi madotolo komanso kampani ya inshuwaransi. Ndipo zidandikumbutsanso kupitiliza kumenyera zomwe ndimafuna ndikufunikira.

Phunziro 5: Dziwani thupi lanu

Chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe ndidaphunzira pamoyo wanga wonse ndikudziwa thupi langa. Anthu ambiri amangoyenderana ndi matupi awo akamadwala. Koma ndikofunika kudziwa momwe thupi lanu limamvera mukakhala bwino - pomwe kulibe chizindikiro cha matenda. Kudziwa zomwe zili zachilendo kwa inu kumathandizanso kukuchenjezani china chake chikasintha komanso china chake chikapimidwa ndi dokotala.

Chimodzi mwazinthu zosavuta komanso zofunika kwambiri zomwe mungachite ndikupanga kukayezetsa chaka chilichonse, kuti dokotala wanu wamkulu azikuwonani mukakhala bwino. Dokotala wanu adzakhala ndi maziko omwe zizindikiro ndi mikhalidwe zitha kufananizidwa kuti muwone zomwe zikuyenda bwino komanso zomwe zingawonetse kuti pali zovuta zomwe zikubwera. Akhozanso kukuyang'anirani moyenera kapena kukuchitirani vuto lisanakule. Apanso, mbiri yazachipatala yabanja lanu iyambiranso pano. Dokotala wanu amadziwa momwe angakhalire pachiwopsezo, ngati chilipo. Zinthu monga matenda oopsa, matenda ashuga, ndipo, inde, ngakhale khansa nthawi zina imatha kupezeka isanakhale ngozi yayikulu ku thanzi lanu - komanso moyo wanu! Nthawi zambiri, kudziwika kumathandizanso pakuthandizira bwino.

Tengera kwina

Khansa yakhala yokhazikika pamoyo wanga, koma iyenera kupambana nkhondo. Ndaphunzira zinthu zambiri monga wopulumuka khansa zingapo, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kupitiliza kupitiliza maphunziro amoyo omwe andithandiza kwambiri kuti ndikhale pano lero. "The Big C" yandiphunzitsa zambiri za moyo komanso za ine ndekha. Ndikukhulupirira kuti maphunzirowa akuthandizani kuti muzitha kupeza matendawa mosavuta. Ndipo ndibwino, ndikukhulupirira kuti simudzafunika konse kuti mupeze matenda.

Anna Renault ndi wolemba wolemba, wokamba pagulu, komanso wowonetsa wailesi. Alinso ndi matenda a khansa, atakhala ndi khansa kangapo pazaka 40 zapitazi. Iyenso ndi mayi ndi agogo. Pamene sali kulemba, nthawi zambiri amapezeka akuwerenga kapena kucheza ndi banja komanso abwenzi.