Mafunso a 9 okhudzana ndi kudziletsa

Zamkati

• Ndi chiyani?
• Kodi ndizofanana ndi umbeta?
• Nanga bwanji zogonana?
• Kodi mungachite zilizonse zolimbitsa thupi?
• Kodi mungachite chiyani ndi wokondedwa wanu mukadali osadziletsa?
• Kupsompsona
• Kuyankhula konyansa kapena malemba
• Kuuma humping
• Kuchita maliseche pamagulu awiri (mumatanthauzidwe ena)
• Kukondoweza kwamanja (m'mawu ena)
• Kugonana pakamwa (m'mawu ena)
• Kugonana amuna kapena akazi (mumatanthauzidwe ena)
• Mumakhazikitsa malire ndi wokondedwa wanu?
• Kodi mimba ingatheke?
• Kodi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndiwotheka?
• Kodi ndi chiyani?
• Mfundo yofunika

Ndi chiyani?

Mwa njira yosavuta kwambiri, kudziletsa ndiye chisankho chokana kugonana. Komabe, zimatanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana.

Anthu ena atha kuwona ngati kudziletsa monga kupewa chilichonse kapena zachiwerewere. Ena amatha kuchita zachiwerewere, kupewa kulowerera m'mimba kapena kumatako.

Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti palibe njira "yoyenera" yotanthauzira kudziletsa.

Kutanthauzira kwanu ndikosiyana ndi inu. Mutha kusankha kudziletsa nthawi iliyonse yomwe mukufuna - ngakhale mutagonana kale. Nazi chifukwa chake anthu amachita, momwe zimagwirira ntchito, ndi zina zambiri.

Kodi ndizofanana ndi umbeta?

Ngakhale kudziletsa komanso umbeta nthawi zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mosinthana, umbeta nthawi zambiri umawoneka ngati chisankho chopewa zachiwerewere pazifukwa zachipembedzo.

Munthu amene walumbira pa umbeta ndi kudziletsa. Koma pamenepa, nthawi zambiri zimawoneka ngati chisankho chanthawi yayitali.

Lingaliro lodziletsa nthawi zambiri limangokhala kwakanthawi. Mwachitsanzo, wina atha kusankha kusuta mpaka atakhala ndi wokondana naye kwakanthawi.

Nanga bwanji zogonana?

Monga kudziletsa, kutulutsa mawu kumatanthauza zinthu zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana.

Kwa anthu ena, kudziletsa kumatanthauza kupewa kulowa nthawi yogonana.

Kutanthauzira kumeneku kumasiya malo okhumbira, kutikita minofu, ndi mitundu ina yakugonana.

Kwa ena, kudziletsa kungakhale chisankho chopewa zachiwerewere zilizonse - kuphatikiza zakugonana.

Kodi mungachite zilizonse zolimbitsa thupi?

Moona mtima, zimatengera tanthauzo lanu lodziletsa.

Ngati mukukhulupirira kuti kugonana ndichinthu chilichonse cholowera, ndiye kuti mutha kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika zina zakuthupi - monga kupsompsonana, kupukuta kowuma, komanso kukondoweza kwamanja - mukadali osadziletsa.

Kodi mungachite chiyani ndi wokondedwa wanu mukadali osadziletsa?

Chifukwa tanthauzo la kudziletsa limadalira pa munthuyo, zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu pomwe mukuchita zodziletsa zimasiyana.

Ndikofunika kukhala omasuka komanso owona mtima ndi okondedwa anu pazomwe mumakhala bwino kuti mulemekezane malire.

Kutengera ndi tanthauzo lanu lodziletsa, mutha kutenga nawo mbali pazinthu monga:

Kupsompsona

Ofufuza pa kafukufuku wina wa 2013 adapeza kuti maanja omwe anapsompsona ambiri akuti amasangalala kwambiri ndi maubale awo.

Kupsompsonana sikuti kumangotulutsa "mahomoni achimwemwe" omwe amakuthandizani kulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu, kumatha kukhala ndi gawo labwino pa thanzi lanu lonse.

Kuyankhula konyansa kapena malemba

Kafukufuku wina wa 2017 akuwonetsa kuti kulumikizana (pakamwa kapena mopanda tanthauzo) kumatha kulumikizidwa ndi kukhutira ndi kugonana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kukambirana pang'ono ndi mnzanuyo ikhoza kukhala njira yofufuzira zaubwenzi pamene mukudziletsa.

Komabe, ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti - pomwe kutumizirana zolaula kumatha kumasula - muyenera kupitiliza kukhala osamala. Mitundu ina ya kutumizirana zolaula imatha kukhala yosaloledwa.

Kuuma humping

Kuuma humping sikuyenera kukhala kovuta. M'malo mwake, ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino yodziwira thupi lanu. Musaope kuyesa malo osiyanasiyana, maluso, komanso zomwe mwavala.

Ingokumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse mukakumana ndi madzi amthupi, matenda opatsirana pogonana amakhala pachiwopsezo nthawi zonse. Matenda opatsirana pogonana amathanso kufalikira kudzera pakhungu pakhungu.

Kuchita maliseche pamagulu awiri (mumatanthauzidwe ena)

Palibe lamulo lomwe limanena kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kuyenera kukhala zochitika zokha. Ikhozanso kukhala njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi mnzanuyo ndikuphunzira zomwe amakonda.

Kuphatikiza apo, kuseweretsa maliseche kumakupindulitsani modabwitsa komanso thanzi lanu.

Kukondoweza kwamanja (m'mawu ena)

Monga kuseweretsa maliseche, kukondoweza kwamanja - kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu kapena zala zanu kuti musangalatse mnzanu - ikhoza kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri yokuthandizirani kufikira pamalungo osalowerera.

Muthanso kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito zoseweretsa zogonana kapena mafuta kuti mulimbikitsane.

Chiwopsezo chanu chokhala ndi pakati komanso matenda opatsirana pogonana chikuwonjezeka pamene madzi amthupi atenga nawo gawo, onetsetsani kuti muteteze.

Kugonana pakamwa (m'mawu ena)

Ponena za chisangalalo, pali zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mugwiritse ntchito pakamwa panu pa ziwalo zoberekera za mnzanu ndi madera ena owopsa.

Kaya mukuyesera ntchito zowomba, cunnilingus, rimming, kapena china chake, ndikofunikira kuwonetsetsa kuti mukugwiritsabe ntchito chitetezo ku matenda opatsirana pogonana.

Kugonana amuna kapena akazi (mumatanthauzidwe ena)

Kugonana kumatako kumatha kukhala njira yabwino kwambiri kwa amuna ndi akazi onse. Kulowera kumatha kuchitika ndi zala, chidole chogonana, kapena mbolo, chifukwa chake gwiritsani ntchito mwayiwu kusewera mosiyanasiyana.

Mumakhazikitsa malire ndi wokondedwa wanu?

Kulankhula zakugonana kapena kudziletsa kumatha kukhala kovuta, koma sikuyenera kutero.

Ngati mukudandaula za momwe mungayambitsire zokambiranazo, yesetsani kuyifikira kuchokera pamalo achikondi.

Aliyense amafuna kukhala wosangalala. Cholinga chanu chizikhala kungoti musangouza mnzanu zomwe inu akufuna, koma kuti aphunzire zomwe akufuna, nawonso.

Yesetsani kudikirira mpaka zinthu zitenge thupi - kapena mutakhala kuti simukukhulupirira - kukhazikitsa malire ndi mnzanu.

Koma ngati muli mukutentha kwakanthawi ndipo mukufuna kutsimikiziranso malire, musazengereze kulumikizana ndi mnzanu.

Kumbukirani, kuvomereza ndikofunikira komanso kulumikizana. Mumaloledwa kusintha malingaliro kapena zokonda zanu nthawi iliyonse.

Simuyenera kukakamizidwa - kapena kukakamiza mnzanu - kuti achite china chake chomwe sichimusangalatsa.

Kodi mimba ingatheke?

Kudziletsa ndiyo njira yokhayo yolerera yomwe imagwira bwino 100%, koma izi zimangogwira ntchito ngati mukulephera 100% yanthawiyo.

Zimangotenga kugonana kosaziteteza kamodzi - kapena umuna kulowa mu nyini kudzera munjira ina yakugonana - kuti mimba ichitike.

Ngati inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mwakonzeka kugonana, onetsetsani kuti mukukambirana za kondomu ndi njira zina zolerera.

Ngakhale simukudziwa ngati mukufuna kugonana, kumwa mapiritsi oletsa kubereka kapena kukhala ndi makondomu kudzakuthandizani kukhala okonzeka ngati mungasinthe malingaliro anu.

Kodi matenda opatsirana pogonana ndiwotheka?

Ngakhale mukuchita kudziletsa, matenda opatsirana pogonana atha kukhala otheka. Matenda opatsirana pogonana amatha kufalikira kudzera kumadzi amthupi. Ena amatha kufalitsa kudzera pakhungu ndi khungu.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti mutha kukhala pachiwopsezo nthawi iliyonse yomwe mungateteze mkamwa, kugonana kumatako, kugawana zoseweretsa zogonana, kapena kuchita zochitika zina zakumaso komwe kukhudzana ndi khungu ndi khungu kumatha kusamutsa madzi amthupi.

Kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu ndi madamu amano kungathandize kuchepetsa ngozi.

Ndikofunikanso kukayezetsa matenda opatsirana pogonana koyambirira kwa chibwenzi chatsopano - musanachite zogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu - kapena ngati mukuganiza zosagwiritsa ntchito kondomu.

Kodi ndi chiyani?

Anthu osiyanasiyana ali ndi zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zakudziletsa. Palibe yankho "lolondola".

Ndikofunika kuti muchite zomwe zingakupindulitseni, ndipo - ngati mnzanu ndi amene akufuna kukhala wodziletsa - nthawi zonse lemekezani malire omwe akhazikitsidwa.

Nazi zifukwa zina zomwe wina angasankhire kudziletsa:

• Mukufuna kufufuza mitundu ina yaubwenzi.
• Inu kapena mnzanu simuli okondweretsedwa kapena okonzeka kugonana.
• Mudagonana kale, koma adaganiza kuti simunakonzekere kudzachitanso.
• Mukufuna kuwonjezera chisangalalo chogonana kunja kwa kugonana.
• Simumva bwino kugonana, kumva kuwawa panthawi yogonana, kapena mukuchira zoopsa.
• Simungathe kupeza njira zina zolerera, monga mapiritsi oletsa kubala kapena makondomu.

Mfundo yofunika

Mumaloledwa kusankha kudziletsa nthawi iliyonse komanso pazifukwa zilizonse.

Simuyenera kuchita zogonana kuti mukhale gawo laubwenzi wokondana komanso wapamtima. Chofunikira kwambiri ndikuti mukuchita zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala omasuka.

Ndipo ngakhale mutakhala ndi zifukwa zotani, kudziletsa kungakhale njira yosangalatsa yoyesera zinthu zatsopano. Kufufuza zosangalatsa zosiyanasiyana kumatha kukuthandizani kuzindikira tanthauzo lachiwerewere kwa inu.