Kufunafuna V yangwiro: Chifukwa Chiyani Akazi Ambiri Akufuna Kukonzanso Nyini?

Zamkati

• Dziko lokonzanso nyini
• Kodi nchifukwa ninji akazi amafuna njira zoterezi?
• Kodi maziko a 'zokongoletsa' amachokera kuti?
• Komabe, palinso umboni wosonyeza kuti zolaula sizingakhale zolakwa.
• Maphunziro owonjezera amalimbikitsa chidwi cha thupi
• Kupeza malire pakati pazapanikizika zakunja ndi zamkati

"Odwala anga samadziwa kwenikweni za maliseche awo."

Maonekedwe a "chidole cha Barbie" ndipamene khola lanu lamaliseche ndi lopapatiza komanso losaoneka, zomwe zimapereka chithunzi chakuti kutsegulira kwa amayi kumakhala kolimba.

Mawu ena ake? "Dulani bwino." "Wofanana." “Wangwiro.” Ndi mawonekedwe omwe ofufuza ena amatcha "."

Komabe, azimayi ochulukirachulukira akupempha mawonekedwe awa, kapena malingaliro, zikafika poti azimayi azichita zodzoladzola, kapena - monga zimalengezedwera monga - opaleshoni yobwezeretsa ukazi.

“Nthawi ina ine ndi amuna anga tidaonera pulogalamu ya pa TV limodzi ndipo munthu wina adachita nthabwala za mayi wina yemwe ndili ndi labu wanga. Ndinamva manyazi pamaso pa mwamuna wanga. ”

Koma tisanatulutse zolimbikitsa za m'maganizo zomwe zimayambitsa kukonzanso kwazimayi komanso komwe zimachokera, ndikofunikira kuti tiyambe kukambirana mawu.

Dziko lokonzanso nyini

Mawu oti nyini ali ndi mbiri yogwiritsa ntchito molakwika pazofalitsa. Ngakhale "nyini" imanena za ngalande yamkati yamkati, anthu nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mochulukira potanthauza labia, clitoris, kapena mulu wa pubic. Chifukwa chake, liwu loti "kukonzanso kumaliseche" labwera pofotokoza njira zambiri kuposa momwe limayimira.

Mukayang'ana kukonzanso kwazikazi pa intaneti, mupeza njira zomwe zimafotokoza njira zonse zopangira opaleshoni komanso zosagwiritsa ntchito maliseche azimayi onse. Izi zikuphatikiza:

• alireza
• nyini kapena "wopanga vaginoplasty"
• hymenoplasty (yemwenso amadziwika kuti "kuyambiranso namwali")
• kukulitsa kwa O-shot, kapena G-banga
• clitoral hood yochepetsera
• labial yowala
• kuchepetsa kuchepa kwa pubic
• ukazi kumangika kapena kukula

Zambiri mwa njirazi, ndi zifukwa zowapezera, ndizovuta komanso zokayikitsa pamakhalidwe.

Ofufuzawa adapeza kuti njirazi zidafunsidwa makamaka ndikuchita zokongoletsa kapena zogonana komanso zosowa zachipatala.

Posachedwa, US Food and Drug Administration (FDA) idapereka chenjezo pakutsatsa njira zakubwezeretsa ukazi.

Kutsatsa kudagulitsa malonjezo kwa amayi maluso awo "angalimbitse ndikutsitsimutsa" nyini zawo. Ena adalimbikitsidwa kuti athe kusintha zizindikiritso za postmenopausal, monga kuuma kwa nyini kapena kupweteka panthawi yogonana.

Koma pali vuto limodzi. Popeza kulibe maphunziro a nthawi yayitali, palibe umboni uliwonse woti mankhwalawa amagwiradi ntchito kapena ali otetezeka.

Kuwunika kwa magazini azimayi 10 kunapeza kuti pazithunzi za azimayi amaliseche kapena ovala zovala zolimba, malo obisalako nthawi zambiri amabisika kapena amaimiridwa ngati akupanga khola losalala, lophwatalala pakati pa ntchafu.

Ngakhale kutenga nawo mbali kwa FDA kuthandizira kuti thanzi la amayi lizitha kuwongoleredwa komanso kukhala lotetezeka kupita mtsogolo, kukonzanso kwazimayi kukupezabe mphamvu.

Ripoti la 2017 lochokera ku American Society of Plastic Surgeons likuwulula kuti njira zopangira labiaplasty zidakwera ndi 39 peresenti mu 2016, ndi maopaleshoni opitilira 12,000. Ma Labiaplasties nthawi zambiri amaphatikizapo kudula ma labia minora (labia wamkati) kuti asapachike pansi pa labia majora (kunja kwa labia).

Komabe, American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) imachenjeza motsutsana ndi njirazi, kuyitanitsa njira yotsatsa - makamaka yomwe ikutanthauza kuti maopaleshoniwa ndi ovomerezeka komanso achizolowezi - achinyengo.

Zikafika pokhudzana ndi zovuta zakugonana, ACOG imalimbikitsa azimayi kuti awunike mosamala ndikudziwitsidwa bwino zovuta zomwe zingachitike komanso kusowa kwa umboni wothandizira njirazi.

Kodi nchifukwa ninji akazi amafuna njira zoterezi?

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa 2014 munyuzipepala ya Sexual Medicine, ofufuza adapeza kuti anthu ambiri amafuna kukonzanso kumaliseche pazifukwa zam'mutu, makamaka chifukwa chodzidalira.

Nazi zina mwazidule za akazi mu phunziroli:

• “Ndimadana ndi changa, ndimadana nacho, ndimadana nacho, NDIKUDANE nacho! Ndikumva ngati lilime lotuluka chifukwa chakumwamba! "
• "Bwanji ngati atawauza aliyense kusukulu kuti," Inde, ndi wokongola koma pali vuto lina kumeneko. '"

Dr. Karen Horton, dokotala wochita opaleshoni ya pulasitiki ku San Francisco yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito labiaplasties, akuvomereza kuti njirayi itha kuyendetsedwa ndi zokongoletsa.

"Amayi amalakalaka labia minora yawo itakonzedwa, yaukhondo, komanso yaukhondo, ndipo safuna kuwona labia minora ikulendewera pansi," akutero.

Wodwala m'modzi adamuwuza kuti "amangolakalaka zitawoneka zokongola kumusi uko."

Kodi maziko a 'zokongoletsa' amachokera kuti?

Chifukwa chosowa maphunziro komanso kukambirana momasuka pazinthu zachilendo zikafika pakuwonekera ndi kagwiritsidwe ntchito ka maliseche achikazi, kufunafuna nyini yangwiro mwina sikutha.

Amayi ena amatha kukhala ndi chidwi cholemba njira ngati labiaplasty ndi O-shot kuti athetse mavuto omwe "amadana nawo" kapena amawona kuti ndi abwinobwino. Ndipo komwe amapeza lingaliro lakudana ndi matupi awo mwina amachokera kuzinthu zofalitsa nkhani, monga magazini azimayi omwe amawonetsa ziwombankhanga, maliseche osatheka.

Zithunzi izi zitha kukhazikitsa mantha kapena kuyembekezera zomwe "zabwinobwino" mwa owonera, motero zimathandizira kukweza m'machitidwe obwezeretsa ukazi.

Kuwunika kwa magazini azimayi 10 kunapeza kuti pazithunzi za azimayi amaliseche kapena ovala zovala zolimba, malo obisalako nthawi zambiri amabisika kapena amaimiridwa ngati akupanga khola losalala, lophwatalala pakati pa ntchafu.

Iwalani zakusonyeza mkatikati mwa labia wamkati. Palibe ngakhale autilaini ya labia majora.

Kupangitsa kuti labia iwoneke yaying'ono kapena palibe - mawonekedwe osakwanira - atha kudziwitsa zabodza ndikukopa momwe azimayi amaganizira kuti labia wawo ayenera kuwonekera.

"Odwala anga sakudziwa kuti mavitamini" abwinobwino "amayenera kuwoneka bwanji ndipo samadziwa kwenikweni za momwe iwowo amaonekera." - Annemarie Everett

Anthu ena, monga Meredith Tomlinson, amakhulupirira kuti zolaula ndizo zomwe zikuyendetsa chikhumbo chofuna kumaliseche ndi nyini yangwiro.

"Ndi pati komwe tikuwona kutseka kwa maliseche a mayi wina?" Akufunsa.

Ndipo iye akhoza kukhala akulondola. Pornhub, tsamba lotchuka la zolaula, idalandira alendo opitilira 28.5 biliyoni chaka chatha. Mu lipoti lawo la pachaka, adawulula mawu osakira kwambiri a 2017 anali "zolaula kwa akazi." Panali kukula kwa 359 peresenti pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito akazi.

Akatswiri ochokera ku King's College London akuwonetsa kuti "zolaula" zachikhalidwe chamakono zitha kuyambitsa kukonzanso kwamaliseche, popeza abambo ndi amai amakhala ndi zolaula zambiri kudzera pa intaneti kuposa kale.

"Kunena zowona, ndikuganiza kuti lingaliro la 'nyini yangwiro ndi maliseche' limachokera kusowa chidziwitso cholongosoka chokhudza momwe maliseche amaonekera," akutero Annemarie Everett, katswiri wodziwika bwino wazachipatala wazimayi komanso wothandizira m'chiuno ndi pobereka.

"Ngati chinthu chokhacho chomwe tiyenera kutchula ndi zolaula komanso lingaliro loti maliseche amayenera kukhala ocheperako komanso owoneka bwino, ndiye kuti china chilichonse chakunja chikuwoneka chovomerezeka, ndipo tiribe njira yotsutsana ndi lingaliroli," akutero. .

Komabe, palinso umboni wosonyeza kuti zolaula sizingakhale zolakwa.

Kafukufuku wa 2015 omwe cholinga chake chinali kumvetsetsa kukhutira kwa amayi kumaliseche, kutseguka kwa labiaplasty, ndipo oyendetsa chisangalalo chawo komanso chidwi chobwezeretsa ukazi adayang'ana izi. Adazindikira kuti ngakhale kuwonera zolaula kumalumikizidwa ndi kutseguka kwa labiaplasty, sikunali kolosera zakukhala maliseche.

Zomwe apezazi zikutsimikizira kuti lingaliro loti zolaula ndizomwe zimayambitsa kukonzanso kwazimayi, ndikuti "pali olosera ena omwe akuyenera kuphatikizidwa mtsogolo."

Amayi ambiri kuposa amuna adalemba zomwe sakonda kuposa momwe amakondera kumaliseche kwawo ndi kumaliseche kwawo.

Mwanjira ina, ngakhale kuti zolaula sizili vuto lokha, itha kukhala imodzi mwazinthu zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa. Chinanso chingakhale chakuti azimayi amangodziwa malingaliro azomwe amuna amafuna komanso zomwe zimawoneka ngati zabwinobwino zikafika kumaliseche ndi kumaliseche.

"Odwala anga sakudziwa kuti mavitamini" abwinobwino "amayenera kuwoneka bwanji ndipo samakhala ndi lingaliro lokhazikika la mawonekedwe awo," akutero Everett. "Pachikhalidwe, timakhala nthawi yayitali kuyesera kubisa zomwe timachita komanso nthawi yocheperako yolimbikitsa achinyamata kuti azidziwa bwinobwino."

Atsikana ang'onoang'ono omwe amakula akuwona mapangidwe a Barbie okhazikika bwino, pulasitiki "V" ngati chifanizo chokhacho cha "pakati" chotupa samathandiziranso zinthu.

Maphunziro owonjezera amalimbikitsa chidwi cha thupi

Anafunsidwa amuna 186 ndi akazi a 480 za zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda zokhudzana ndi maliseche ndi nyini kuti amvetsetse malingaliro awo kumaliseche achikazi chifukwa cha zikhalidwe komanso zikhalidwe.

Ophunzira adafunsidwa, "Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe simukuzikonda zokhudza maliseche azimayi? Kodi pali makhalidwe ena amene mumawakonda poyerekeza ndi ena? ” Mwa amuna omwe adayankha, yankho lachinayi lofala kwambiri "palibe".

Chosakonda kwenikweni chinali kununkhiza, kutsatiridwa ndi tsitsi lamuba.

Mwamuna wina anati, “Mungatani kuti musawakonde? Mosasamala kanthu za malingaliro a mkazi aliyense payekha, nthawi zonse pamakhala kukongola komanso wapadera. ”

Amuna amathanso kufotokozedwa amakonda maliseche osiyanasiyana. "Ndimakonda mawonekedwe ndi makulidwe osiyanasiyana a labia ndi clitoris," adayankha.

Wina akuti, mwatsatanetsatane, "Ndimakonda milomo yayitali, yosalala, yofanana - chinthu chodzaza, chomwe chimakopa chidwi ndi malingaliro. Ndimakonda ma clits akulu, koma sindimakondwera nawo monga ndimachitira milomo ndi zotupa. Ndimakonda maliseche kukhala aakulu, otsegula milomo yake, ndiponso ozama pakatikati pake. ”

M'malo mwake, azimayi ambiri kuposa amuna adalemba zomwe sakonda kuposa momwe amakondera kumaliseche kwawo ndi kumaliseche kwawo, zomwe zidapangitsa olembawo kunena kuti: "Popeza kuchuluka kwa zomwe sakonda kuzitchula azimayi, chifukwa chimodzi chazomwe apezazi ndi chakuti akazi akungosunga mosavuta mauthenga olakwika okhudza ziwalo zawo zoberekera ndikukonzekera pamatsutso. ”

Milungu isanu ndi umodzi ndi madola 8,500 a ndalama zomwe munatulutsa mthumba pambuyo pake, Meredith ali ndi vuto lobisika - ndipo amachira.

Ndipo mauthenga olakwika, akabwera, amatha kukhala ankhanza komanso otanthauzira, makamaka mukawona kuti palibe V.

Amuna omwe amafotokoza zomwe sakonda amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ankhanza, monga "wamkulu," "flappy," "flabby," "kutuluka," kapena "motalika kwambiri." Mzimayi wina ananena kuti mwamuna yemwe amagonana naye adachita mantha ndi milomo yake yayikulu yamkati ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "nsalu yotchinga" kuwafotokozera. Mwamuna wina anati, "Ndikuganiza kuti maliseche aubweya pa mkazi ndi akulu, zimamupangitsa kuti aziwoneka ngati wanyalanyaza dera lomwe amakhala."

Ngati magazini amawonetsera zitsamba zenizeni za akazi muulemerero wawo wonse, wawung'ono, waubweya, kapena wopanda tsitsi, mwina mafotokozedwe oluma, opwetekawa sangapangitse zovuta.

Ngati panali maphunziro ochulukirapo okhudzana ndi momwe maliseche ndi nyini za amayi zimawonekera pa nthawi yonse ya moyo wawo, mwina njira yolandirira kuvomereza thupi ndi chiyembekezo ingalimbikitsidwe.

Kupeza malire pakati pazapanikizika zakunja ndi zamkati

Koma chikuchitika pakadali pano kwa mibadwo yomwe yapita osaphunzira ukazi kapena yawona kufunika kokonzanso nyini?

Meredith, yemwe tamutchula kale uja, nthawi zonse amakhala akudzidera nkhawa za labia kuyambira ali mwana. Makamaka, izi zinali chifukwa kuti labia wake wamkati anali wotsika kwambiri kuposa labia wake wakunja, masentimita angapo pansi pa labia majora ake.

"Ndinkangokhalira kukayikira kuti ndine wosiyana, koma ndidazindikira ndikakhala wamaliseche pafupi ndi atsikana ena kuti ndimasiyana," akutero.

Zotsatira zake, Meredith ankapewa kusambira mosasamala kanthu. Sankafuna kuyika malaya ake amkati akutuluka kuti dziko liziwona. Ankawona kuti sangathenso kuvala mathalauza a yoga oterowo, chifukwa amatchulanso mawonekedwe ake ndi mawonekedwe ake.

Akavala ma jean, amayenera kugwiritsa ntchito maxi pad, kungoti labia yake iyamba kukomoka ndikutuluka magazi. "Tsiku lina, nditatha njinga tsiku lonse," akukumbukira, "ndidazindikira kuti labu wanga akutuluka magazi. Zinali zopweteka kwambiri. ”

Izi zidakhudzanso maubwenzi ake am'mbuyomu, popeza Meredith amanjenjemera akawona wamaliseche ndikukhudzidwa kumeneko. Bwanji ngati atayang'ana, ndikuseka nthabwala za 'nyini zophika nyama,' kapena akuganiza kuti ndizoyimitsa?

Ndipo ngakhale atakwatirana, Meredith adakali ndi nkhawa.

"Nthawi ina ine ndi amuna anga tidaonera pulogalamu ya pa TV limodzi ndipo munthu wina adachita nthabwala za mayi yemwe ndili ndi mtundu wanga wa labia," akukumbukira. “Ndinkadzichitira ulemu pamaso pa mwamuna wanga.”

Atawerenga nkhani yapaintaneti yonena za opaleshoni ya pulasitiki, Meredith adakumana ndi mawu oti "labiaplasty" - mtundu wa opaleshoni ya pulasitiki yomwe imachepetsa labia wamkati wamayi.

"Iyi inali nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidazindikira kuti pali njira yosinthira zomwe ndimavutika nazo ndipo ambiri anali mumkhalidwe wofanana ndi ine," akukumbukira. "Ndikosavuta kumva kukhala osungulumwa ndi izi. Izi zinatimasula. ”

Atangopeza kumene intaneti, Meredith adapita kukafunsira kwa Dr. Karen Horton. "Ndinalibe chithunzi, koma Dr. Horton adapereka malingaliro amomwe ndingachepetsere labia wanga wamkati," akutero.

Ndipo mwamuna wa Meredith sanamuuze konse kapena kumukakamiza iye kuti achite labiaplasty. "Anadabwa koma amandithandizira," akukumbukira. "Anandiuza kuti sasamala ndipo sindiyenera kuchita, koma kuti andithandiza zivute zitani."

Patatha milungu ingapo, Meredith adalandira labiaplasty, njira yatsiku limodzi yomwe amafotokoza kuti ndi "yosavuta, yofulumira, komanso yowongoka," ngakhale kuti anesthesia wamba amafunikira. Dr. Horton adalimbikitsa kutenga sabata kuntchito, kupewa masewera olimbitsa thupi kwa milungu itatu, komanso kupewa kugonana milungu isanu ndi umodzi.

Koma Meredith anamva mphamvu zokwanira kuti abwerere kuntchito tsiku lotsatira.

Milungu isanu ndi umodzi ndi madola $ 8,500 a ndalama mthumba mtsogolo pambuyo pake, Meredith ali ndi kachilombo koyipa - ndikudzichiritsa payekha.

Iye anati: “Sindikunong'oneza bondo, ndipo ndinachita bwino kwambiri. “Sindikubisalanso. Ndimamva bwino. ” Ndipo inde - tsopano amavala zovala zapansi pa bikini, jinzi wopanda maxi pad, ndipo nthawi zonse amaimitsa njinga yake kwakutali.

Kuchokera pa opaleshoniyi, Meredith ndi mwamuna wake sanakambiranepo za njirayi. "Ndidadzichitira ndekha. Ndinasankha ndekha. ”

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