Audio Erotica: Chifukwa Chomwe Anthu Ambiri Amamvera Zolaula
Zamkati
Laura, wolemba nkhani wa "Hot Vinyasa 1," nkhani yomwe mungamvetse papulatifomu ya Dipsea, ndiwodabwitsa kwambiri. Amapanikizika ndi ntchito, amadzidera nkhawa kuti akuchedwa kupita ku kalasi ya yoga, ndipo amasangalatsidwa ndi aphunzitsi ake atsopano, a Mark, omwe amamangidwa ngati Hemsworth ndipo ali ndi chidwi chazosintha pamanja.
"Kodi amayandikira izi kwa aliyense?" Laura akudabwa, manyazi.
Nkhani ya mphindi 15 isanathe, mkuntho wa chisanu umamupeza Laura ndi Mark ali okha mu studio yoyatsa makandulo. Palibe chodabwitsa, zovala zawo za thukuta la yoga zimachokera ku Shavasana.
Mukufuna kumva zambiri? Muli ndi mwayi. Pali zambiri zomwe "Hot Vinyasa" idachokera. Tili mukubwezeretsanso zolaula zolaula, ndimitu yambirimbiri ya mawu omvera, komanso mawu olankhulidwa, ofotokoza mafilimu ogonana, ndi ma podcast a NSFW.
Zithunzi zolaula sizikuchepa kutchuka - ngakhale pafupi. Chaka chatha, kuchezera zolaula ku Pornhub kunakwana 33.5 biliyoni. Koma anthu akupeza chisangalalo kudzera pazosagwirizana ndi malingaliro omwe mwadala amasiya zochulukira.
Ubwino wogonana
Dipsea ndi situdiyo yokhazikitsidwa ndi akazi yomwe imakhala ndi "nkhani zachigololo zomvera zomwe zimakhazikika komanso zimakweza malingaliro anu," malinga ndi tsamba lawo.
Pulatifomu imapereka malangizo othandizira kuti mupindule kwambiri ndikumvera kwanu kopatsa chidwi: Konzani ménage a moi. Konzekerani tsiku. Sinthani foreplay kukhala nthawi yosangalala. Kwa Gina Gutierrez, woyambitsa mnzake wa Dipsea ndi CEO, zonsezi ndizolimbikitsa "kukhala bwino pakugonana."
“Kukhala ndi thanzi labwino pogonana kumaphatikizapo kumverera momwe thupi lanu limakonzekereratu, komanso kukhala ndiubwenzi wabwino ndi inu nokha ndi anzanu. Ndipo zikutanthauza kuti timadzimva kuti ndife otetezeka kuti tifufuze ndikufotokozera zosowa ndi zokhumba zathu, "a Gutierrez akufotokoza.
Ntchito ya Dipsea ndikupereka zolemba zazifupi zomwe zingathandize ogwiritsa ntchito kukulitsa kukondana ndi anzawo, kumasula chidaliro ndikukulitsa moyo wabwino.
"Kugonana komanso kudzisangalatsa ndi njira zodziwira kuti munthu ali ndi moyo wathanzi, wogwirizana kwambiri ndi machitidwe monga kusinkhasinkha kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi." Mwina ndi chifukwa chake mndandanda wa "Hot Vinyasa" - inde, pali nkhani zingapo - ndiwotchuka kwambiri ku Dipsea.
Kumvetsera mu
Kuperewera kwa zinthu zowoneka kumapangitsa ubongo kuchita zambiri, atero a Carol Queen, wogwira ntchito zachiwerewere komanso wolemba nawo buku la "The Sex & Pleasure Book: Maupangiri Abwino Otsogolera Kugonana Kwakukulu Kwa Aliyense."
"Sikuti sikuti tikungoyankha zowoneka zomwe sizikusangalatsa ife, timapatsidwa gawo lomasuka kuti tiganizire otchulidwa ndikudziyika tokha powonekera m'njira zosiyanasiyana," akutero.
Anthu ena amakumana ndi chodabwitsa chotchedwa (ASMR), momwe chimamveka ngati kunong'oneza, kutsetsereka, kugwedeza, ndi kutafuna kumabweretsa kunjenjemera, kunjenjemera kwa khungu komwe kumatchedwa kuti "ubongo-ubongo."
Mavidiyo a ASMR amathandiza anthu ena kumasuka, kupsinjika, kapena kugona. Kafukufuku wamaganizidwe aubongo akuwonetsa kuti mwina ndichifukwa chake zimawunikira zigawo zomwe zimakhudzana ndikudzidziwitsa komanso kuchita nawo zinthu limodzi.
Palinso zolaula za ASMR, zomwe zimaphatikizira zokopa ndi zomvera kapena makanema azakugonana. Ngakhale, sikuti ndikutembenukira kwa aliyense. Kwa ena, mawu a ASMR amachititsa kukwiya komanso kuda nkhawa. Ena amangokonda zogonana kuposa, chabwino, phokoso monga kugonana.
A Brianne McGuire ndi omwe adayambitsa podcast Sex Communication, pomwe omvera amapemphedwa kuti azimvera zochitika zosiyanasiyana monga kugonana mkamwa, kuponderezana, komanso maliseche. Magawo ena akuwonetsa anthu omwe amalankhula mosapita m'mbali za kugonana kwawo.
Kutchuka kwawo ndi kufunsa kwa amuna awiri ndi akazi omwe ali pachibwenzi chomwe chimakhudzanso ukapolo wazingwe.
Ngakhale amachokera ku "magulu onse amoyo," mafani a McGuire amasangalala kumvera pazifukwa zomwezo - kukopa, mawonekedwe apamtima azomwe adalemba. "Ena anena kuti ndi 'kugonana kwa munthu wachitatu' kapena ngati kubisala m'chipinda cha munthu wina," akutero McGuire.
"Ndikufuna kusintha zokambirana zokhudzana ndi kugonana," akufotokoza. "Ngakhale tili ndi zoulutsa nkhani zachiwerewere, anthu ambiri akadali ndi manyazi, mantha, komanso manyazi kunena zomwe akufuna, malire awo, komanso zokumana nazo zawo."
Kumva vs. kuwona
"Pali umboni woti anthu amatengeka kwambiri ndi chilimbikitso chambiri," akufotokoza a Nicole Prause, PhD, katswiri wazamaubongo ku Los Angeles yemwe amafufuza zamakhalidwe azakugonana. "Mwachitsanzo, zolaula zapaintaneti [zitha kukhala] zokopa kuposa malingaliro azakugonana okha, ndipo makanema olaula amafotokoza zambiri kuposa zongomvera."
Chikhumbo cha Dipsea chofotokozera nthano zonyansa zomwe zachitika ndi Kinsey Institute zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti azimayi amagwiritsa ntchito "malingaliro amisala" - aka choyerekeza kapena chosangalatsa - kuti ayambitsidwe.
Zithunzi zolaula, ngakhale zitakhala zaulere / 24/7, sizimangochitira aliyense.
Caroline Spiegel, mlongo wazaka 22 wazaka za CEO wa Snapchat Evan Spiegel, posachedwapa wakhazikitsa tsamba lazithunzi zosawoneka lotchedwa Quinn.
Pokambirana ndi TechCrunch, Spiegel adalongosola kuti akulimbana ndi vuto logonana chifukwa cha vuto lakudya komanso chikhulupiriro chake kuti zolaula zimawonjezera kukakamizidwa kwa thupi. Sali yekha pakumverera kutalikirana m'malo motseguka.
"Ndamva kuchokera kwa azimayi ambiri kuti mitundu yazolaula imawapangitsa kukhala opanda chiyembekezo kuti wina angaganize kuti ndi achiwerewere," akutero Queen. "Amamva kuti amuna amawayerekezera ndi zolaula. Palinso azimayi ena omwe sangaganize kuti azimayi omwe ali pazenera akusangalala. "
Madandaulo ena wamba omwe Mfumukazi imamva ndi kuwunikira koyipa, zilembo zosamveka bwino, kutseka kwazimayi, kuwombera kopitilira muyeso. Ndipo titha kuyimitsa ndikufotokozera za Pizza Guy, kale?
M'maganizo mwathu mokha, mwachiwonekere, ndiomwe tili akatswiri pamadongosolo athu. Ndipo ndi zolaula zomvera, titha kupanga zojambula zathu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zomwe timakonda komanso zomwe timakonda, ngakhale zitakhala zosiyana bwanji.
Kufikira
Kwa ena, zolaula zosawoneka sizokhudza zokonda - ndizofikira.
Mu 2016, Pornhub idakhazikitsa gulu la "Video Yofotokozedwa" lomwe limafotokozera zaanthu omwe ali ndi vuto lowonera. Palinso "Mawonekedwe Owonongeka" okhala ndi mawonekedwe owonjezera, kusiyanasiyana kwamitundu, ndi njira zazifupi.
"Kupezeka ndichinthu chomwe takhala tikuganizira kwambiri," akufotokoza Corey Price, wachiwiri kwa purezidenti wa Pornhub. "Tikufuna kuti anthu azitha kuyenda papulatifomu yawo mosasunthika komanso kuti azisangalala ndiulemerero wonse waanthu. Timangokhalira kufunafuna njira zopangira ... kuti aliyense athe kuzifikira. ”
Kuwonetsedwa m'magulu awa kwadutsa zoyembekezera.
"Tsopano tikutha kudzisamalira tokha kwa anthu pafupifupi 1.3 biliyoni padziko lonse lapansi omwe amakhala ndi vuto linalake la kuwona," akutero a Price.
Tengera kwina
Zopeka ndi gawo lachilengedwe lachitetezo chodzutsa chilakolako chogonana, atero Mfumukazi. "Ogwira ntchito zachiwerewere ambiri amapanga ndalama zawo kulimbikitsa makasitomala kuti azingoyerekeza kapena kuchita nawo manyazi omwe angagwirizane ndi izi komanso zina zokhudzana ndi kugonana."
Zingakhale zotsika mtengo, osanenapo zosangalatsa kwambiri, kumvera kena kake komwe kumakupatsani mwayi.
Palinso chisangalalo chachinsinsi chokhoza kusangalala ndi zolaula zamtunduwu panokha pagulu, a McGuire akutero. "Ndani angaganize kuti angadutse m'zomvera m'makutu kapena muma stereo m'galimoto ya munthu amene wakumana ndi magalimoto ambiri?"
Stephanie Booth ndi wolemba ku Portland, Oregon, yemwe nkhani zake zidawonekera ngati Real Simple, O, Psychology Today, The Washington Post, ndi Salon. Akakhala kuti sakulemba, amasankha kukayenda kapena kukachita kalasi ya yoga, koma kumwa khofi ndibwino.
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