Chifukwa Chomwe Anthu Ambiri Akugawana Matumba Awo Ostomy pa Social Media

Zamkati

• Kuzunzidwa kunali koipa kotero kuti mkalasi yachiwiri, ndidalemba zotsatira zanga za scoliosis
• Izi ndi zomwe ana ambiri komanso achinyamata olumala amakhala nazo
• Kukhala m'dera lomwe limamvetsetsa zomwe mukukumana kungakhale kusintha kwamphamvu modabwitsa

Ndikulemekeza Milatho Isanu ndi iwiri, mwana wamwamuna wamng'ono yemwe adamwalira podzipha.

"Ndiwe wamisala!"

"Vuto lanu ndichiyani?"

"Simuli bwino."

Izi ndi zinthu zonse zomwe ana olumala amamva kusukulu komanso pabwalo lamasewera. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, ana olumala anali pachiwopsezo chowapezerera kuzunzidwa kuwirikiza kawiri kapena katatu kuposa anzawo omwe sanasinthe.

Ndili kusekondale, tsiku lililonse ankandipezerera chifukwa chofooka komanso kuphunzira. Zinandivuta kuyenda ndikutsika masitepe, ndikunyamula ziwiya kapena mapensulo, ndimavutanso kwambiri poyenda bwino.

Kuzunzidwa kunali koipa kotero kuti mkalasi yachiwiri, ndidalemba zotsatira zanga za scoliosis

Sindinkafuna kuvala nsapato zakumbuyo ndikuzunzidwa koopsa ndi anzanga akusukulu, chifukwa chake ndinayimirira molunjika kuposa momwe ndimakhalira ndipo sindinauze makolo anga kuti adotolo adalangiza kuti tiwone.

Monga ine, Ma Bridges Asanu ndi awiri, mwana wazaka 10 waku Kentucky, anali m'modzi mwa ana ambiri omwe amamuchitira zoyipa chifukwa cha kupunduka kwake. Asanu ndi awiri anali ndi matumbo osachiritsika komanso matumbo. Ankazunzidwa mobwerezabwereza. Amayi ake akuti adanyozedwa m'basi chifukwa cha fungo lochokera m'matumbo mwake.

Pa Jan. 19, asanu ndi awiri adadzipha.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wocheperako yemwe ali pamutuwu, kudzipha pakati pa anthu omwe ali ndi zolemala zamtundu wina ndiwokwera kwambiri kuposa kwa anthu osatetezeka. Anthu olumala omwe amadzipha amadzipha chifukwa cha mauthenga omwe timalandira kuchokera kwa anthu zakuti ali ndi chilema.

Palinso kulumikizana kwamphamvu pakati povutitsidwa ndikumva kudzipha komanso mavuto ena amisala.

Pasanapite nthawi isanu ndi iwiri atamwalira, wogwiritsa ntchito Instagram wotchedwa Stephanie (yemwe amapita ndi @lapetitechronie) adayambitsa hashtag #bagsoutforSeven. Stephanie ali ndi matenda a Crohn komanso ileostomy yokhazikika, yomwe adagawana nawo chithunzi pa Instagram.

Ostomy ndikutsegula m'mimba, komwe kumatha kukhala kosatha kapena kwakanthawi (ndipo mwa Seven, kunali kwakanthawi). Ostomy imamangiriridwa ku stoma, kumapeto kwa matumbo omwe asokeredwa ku ostomy kulola kuti zinyalala zizituluka mthupi, ndi thumba lomwe limamangirira kusonkhanitsa zinyalala.

Stephanie adagawana nawo chifukwa amatha kukumbukira manyazi komanso mantha omwe amakhala nawo, atapeza colostomy ali ndi zaka 14. Nthawi imeneyo, samadziwa wina aliyense ndi Crohn's kapena ostomy. Ankachita mantha kuti anthu ena amupeza ndikumuzunza kapena kumusala chifukwa chosiyana nawo.

Izi ndi zomwe ana ambiri komanso achinyamata olumala amakhala nazo

Timawoneka ngati akunja ndiyeno kutinyoza mosalekeza ndikudzipatula ndi anzathu. Mofanana ndi Stephanie, sindinadziwe aliyense kunja kwa banja langa wolumala mpaka nditakwanitsa kalasi yachitatu, pamene ndinaikidwa m’kalasi yapadera ya maphunziro.

Panthawiyo, sindinagwiritsepo ntchito thandizo loyenda, ndipo ndikulingalira kuti ndikadakhala kuti ndikudzipatula ndikadagwiritsa ntchito ndodo ndili wachichepere, monga momwe ndikuchitira pano. Panalibe aliyense amene ankagwiritsa ntchito chithandizo chothandizira kuyenda mpaka kalekale m'masukulu anga oyambira, apakatikati, kapena apamwamba.

Kuyambira pomwe Stephanie adayamba hashtag, anthu ena omwe ali ndi ma ostom akhala akugawana zithunzi zawo. Ndipo monga munthu wolumala, kuwona omenyera ufulu ndikutsogolera njira yaunyamata kumandipatsa chiyembekezo kuti achinyamata ambiri olumala amatha kumva kuthandizidwa - ndikuti ana ngati Seven sayenera kulimbana pawokha.

Kukhala m'dera lomwe limamvetsetsa zomwe mukukumana kungakhale kusintha kwamphamvu modabwitsa

Kwa anthu olumala ndi matenda osachiritsika, ndikusintha kuchoka kumanyazi ndikupita kunyada yolemala.

Kwa ine, anali #DisabledAndCute wa Keah Brown omwe adathandizira kukonzanso malingaliro anga. Ndinkakonda kubisa ndodo yanga pazithunzi; tsopano, ndine wonyadira kuti ndawonetsetsa.

Ndinali m'gulu la anthu olumala pamaso pa hashtag, koma ndimaphunzira zambiri za anthu olumala, chikhalidwe, ndi kunyada - ndipo ndawona olumala osiyanasiyana azikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana akugawana zomwe akumana nazo mwachimwemwe - Ndatha kuwona kuti ndine wolumala ngati woyenera kukondwerera, monganso dzina langa lakale.

Hashtag ngati #bagsoutforSeven ili ndi mphamvu zofikira ana ena ngati Zilatho Zisanu ndi ziwiri ndikuwonetsa kuti sali okha, kuti miyoyo yawo ndiyofunika kukhala nayo, komanso kuti chilema sichinthu chochititsa manyazi.

M'malo mwake, imatha kukhala yosangalatsa, yonyada, komanso yolumikizana.

Alaina Leary ndi mkonzi, woyang'anira media, komanso wolemba waku Boston, Massachusetts. Pakadali pano ndiwothandizira mkonzi wa Equally Wed Magazine komanso mkonzi wazama TV ku bungwe lopanda phindu lomwe timafunikira.