BDSM Yapulumutsa Banja Langa Losalephera Kutha Kwa Banja

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Mukaganizira za munthu yemwe angayambe kugonana ndi kinky, ndine munthu womaliza yemwe mungaganizire. Ndine mayi wa awiri (ndimatchulazi) kuti ndakhala m'banja losangalala kwazaka pafupifupi 20. Ndimagwira ntchito mongodzipereka kusukulu, ndimagwira ntchito yaganyu m'malo ovala suti ndi tayi, ndipo ndimagona 10 usiku wambiri. Ine kwenikweni ndili kutali ndi stereotype dominatrix momwe ndingathere. Ndipo mausiku ambiri ndizomwe ndimachita ndi amuna anga. Anthu angadabwe ngati atadziwa zomwe zimachitika mnyumba mwanga usiku-zomwe ndizosangalatsa kuzichita. (Zogwirizana: Upangiri Woyambitsa ku BDSM)

Chinthu choyamba chimene mukuwona mukamayenda m'chipinda changa chogona ndi zomangira zathu zogonana, zolendewera padenga. (Timawauza ana kuti ndi "pachimake" ndipo mpaka pano sanakayikire.) Ndizatsopano zomwe tapeza chifukwa takhala tikupanga pang'onopang'ono zosewerera zathu za kink ndi fetish pazaka zambiri. Ndipo ndidzakhala woonamtima: Ambiri aiwo amawoneka owopsa poyang'ana koyamba, makamaka omwe amagwiritsa ntchito magetsi.

Koma moyo wathu wogonana wa BDSM sichowopsa chilichonse. Ndipotu, ndinganene kuti zinapulumutsa banja lathu.

Ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinali okondana ku koleji. Tinakondana kwambiri komanso mwachangu ndipo tinakwatirana tisanamalize maphunziro athu. Kaya chifukwa tidasunthika mwachangu kwambiri kapena tidali achichepere kwambiri, zaka zochepa chabe muukwati wathu tinkamenyanabe mosalekeza ndipo tili pafupi kutha kwa banja. Ndipo mwina sizikunena kuti moyo wathu wogonana sunali wopanda pake. Pamapeto pake ndinayamba chibwenzi. Iye anapeza za izo, ndithudi. Ndipo sindinasamale zaukwati wanga mokwanira panthawiyo kuti ndiyesetse kubisa. Koma ndinakhumudwa kwambiri nditaona mmene anapwetekera. Tinafika pamphambano: Mwina tinkafunika kusiyana kapena kuyesa kukonza ukwati wathu. Tinaganiza zopatsa ubale wathu mwayi womaliza. Kwa ine, izi zidayamba ndikubwezeretsanso moyo wathu wakugonana.

Ndinazindikira kuti ndinkakonda kuchita chinyengo kuposa mmene ndinkakondera munthu amene ndinkakhala naye. Chifukwa chake tidayamba kuyesa pang'ono pang'ono (Ndine woyamwa pazovala). Ndipo seweroli lidapangitsa kuti azikambirana mosapita m'mbali za zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe timafuna, chimodzi mwazo chinali chidwi cha amuna anga ku BDSM. Sindinadziwe zambiri za izi panthawiyo - izi zinali kale 50 Mithunzi ya Imvi zinali zotchuka ndipo zinapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kuyankhula - kotero ndinali wamantha momveka. Koma titayamba kuyesera limodzi, kusewera nawo malingaliro ake, ndidazindikira mwachangu momwe zimasangalatsira, komanso kupatsa mphamvu.

Pamene tinalowa kwambiri mu kink scene tinakhala nthawi yochuluka tikufufuza njira zosiyanasiyana, zoseweretsa, ndi zochitika. Tinaphunzira zomwe timakonda ndi zomwe sitinachite, ndipo zinandithandiza kwambiri makamaka kuti ndigwirizane ndi zomwe zimandiyambitsa. Mwachitsanzo, ndili mgulu lamagetsi koma osati zikwapu, zingwe koma osamangidwa maunyolo, ndipo ndimakondabe zovala. Anthu ambiri amadandaula kuti BDSM ndi chivundikiro cha nkhanza zapakhomo koma kwa ife, ngati chirichonse, izo zapangitsa mwamuna wanga kulemekeza kwambiri thupi langa. Popita nthawi zakhala zosangalatsa kwa banja lathu ndikukuwuzani, ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kuwonera mbalame kapena kuonera TV!

Pamene 50 Mithunzi ya Imvi mabuku anatuluka, ndiyeno mafilimu, msika unaphulika ndi malingaliro atsopano ndi mankhwala-zonse takhala okondwa kuyesa.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti zinthu zonse zayenda bwino. Zambiri mwazovuta zathu zimakhudzana ndi kayendetsedwe ka zinthu, makamaka ana athu. Ndi achichepere kwambiri ngati atatiyendera "tikusewera" zitha kuwavutitsa. Tili ndi maloko abwino pakhomo ndipo timadikirira mpaka atagona, koma nthawi zonse timafunika kuunikanso zomwe zimagwira ntchito komanso zomwe zingayambitse maloto. Mwabwino, tikadakhala ndi "chipinda chofiira" monga Christian ndi Ana. Koma zachisoni, sitiri olemera okha!

Gawo lovuta kwambiri lakhala likusunga chilichonse kutsika. Ndili ndi anzanga ambiri omwe amadandaula chifukwa cha kusowa kwa moyo wawo wogonana ndipo pamene ndikufuna kutsegula za zomwe takumana nazo, ndaphunzira kwa zaka zambiri zomwe ndikuyenera kugawana nawo mosamala kwambiri. Tataya abwenzi abwino pa izi, ndiye tili osankha tsopano.

Ndizofunika kwa ife, komabe, chifukwa zathandizanso kuti ubale wathu ukhale kunja kwa chipinda chogona. Kuti mupambane mu BDSM, muyenera kulumikizana zambiri. Ndipo ngakhale timaganiza kuti timalankhulana bwino kale, sizinali choncho. BDSM yatiwonetsa momwe tingakhalire abwinoko pankhaniyi. Nthawi zambiri timakambirana zomwe timakonda ndi zomwe sitikonda ndipo tili ndi ma code ndi mawu apadera omwe timagwiritsa ntchito wina ndi mnzake kuphatikiza mawu "otetezeka". Mawu amtunduwu akangonena, zatha. Titha kukambirana chifukwa chake pambuyo pake, koma kukana kuchokera kwa aliyense wa ife sikungakambirane.

Pakhala njira yayitali kuyambira tsiku lomwelo pomwe tinali kufunafuna maloya osudzulana mpaka pano. Ngakhale moyo wathu wogonana sichinali chinthu chokha chomwe tidasintha, BDSM yatipangitsa kukhala olimba komanso osangalala limodzi kuposa kale lonse. Ndipo moyo wathu wogonana uli ayi wotopetsa, chimene si chinachake anthu ambiri amene akhala m'banja bola ife tinganene!

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