Demi Lovato Anati Kutha Kwa Chibwenzi Chawo Ndiye 'Chinthu Chabwino Kwambiri Chomwe Chachitika' Kwa Iwo

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Kwa anthu ambiri, kusiya chibwenzi kungakhale kopweteka. Kwa Demi Lovato, komabe, kuthetsa chibwenzi ndi munthu amene angakhale naye moyo wonse kumawoneka kuti ndiwopambana, wolakwika.

Pa Cha 19 Akuyimira Msonkhano Wapadera wa 2021 Lachinayi, woyimba wazaka 28 adalankhula zakulekana kwawo ndi wosewera a Max Ehrich ndipo adafotokoza za "kutha" kwa ubale wawo ngati "chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chachitika [kwa iwo]." (Zokhudzana: Demi Lovato Amakondwerera 'Kudalira Thupi Lanu' Pomwe Akujambula Nkhani Yawo Yoyamba Kugonana)

"Ndinatha kuyimilira ndekha popanda kusowa wina wonditsimikizira kapena kundipangitsa kuti ndikhale wovomerezeka. Nditatsanzikana ndi ubale umenewo, ndinatsanzikanso pa chilichonse chomwe chimandilepheretsa kukhala munthu weniweni. , "adalongosola wojambula wosankhidwa ndi Grammy.

Lovato adati adayamba kudziwika kuti ndi osagwirizana mu Marichi 2020, nthawi yomweyo "adakumana ndi wina" (Ehrich) ndikuyamba chibwenzi. "Izi zidandipangitsa kunyalanyaza mbali zonse zanga zomwe sindimaganiza kuti sizingagayike kwa mnzanga panthawiyo," adagawana nawo. Awiriwa atasiya chibwenzi mu Seputembara 2020 (pambuyo pa miyezi isanu ndi iwiri ali pachibwenzi komanso pachibwenzi), Lovato adamasuka kuyamba "kudzizindikiritsa monga momwe [amene] amachitira lero."

Pamafunso, nyenyezi yakale ya Disney idagawananso kuti adayamba kukayikira za jenda pamene anali "m'kalasi lachinayi kapena lachisanu."

"Nthawi yanga yopuma, ndimapeza kuti ndikumakhala bwino ndi anyamata, kapena ndikulingalira panthawiyo, kuchita nthabwala, zilizonse zomwe ana asukulu yachisanu amachita. Ndinazindikira kuti sindine msungwana," adakumbukira. "Mpaka nditapita kusukulu yapakati pomwe ndidasinthiratu mawonekedwe anga ndi chizindikiritso changa kuti ndikhale wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi anthu aku sekondale chifukwa ndimangodziwa kuti sangakhale ochezeka monga momwe analiri sukulu ya pulaimale. Ndipo zowonadi, ndinali kulondola! "

Kuthamangira kwa Meyi 2021 ndipo Lovato adatuluka ngati osakonda pagulu pa podcast yawo, 4D ndi Demi Lovato. Ndipo atafunsidwa kuti kukhala osakhala abinary kumatanthauza chiyani kwa iwo pa zokambirana za Lachinayi, Lovato anayankha, "Kuti ndine wochuluka kwambiri kuposa amuna ndi akazi." (Zogwirizana: Demi Lovato Amatseguka Ponena Zolakwika Popeza Kusintha Mau Awo)

Anapitiliza kuti, "Zikungotsutsana ndi zonse zomwe ndadziwa, zonse zomwe ndakhulupirira kuti ndiyenera kuwoneka ndikuchita mwanjira inayake, ndipo zikungosekera pazenera ndikukhala ngati, 'uyu ndi ndani , itenge kapena siyani. Sindikufuna kuti mutenge koma ndimamva bwino ngakhale simutero. '"

Koma ndizo pomwe pano. Lovato anapitiriza kufotokoza kuti akuganiza kuti ulendo wawo wa jenda udzakhala "kwamuyaya," ndipo "pakhoza kukhala nthawi yomwe [iwo] amadziwikiratu kuti ndi trans." "Kapena pali nthawi yomwe ndimakalamba yomwe ndimadzizindikiritsa ngati mkazi, sindikudziwa kuti zikuwoneka bwanji, koma kwa ine, pakadali pano, ndi momwe ndimadziwira," adatero. (Zogwirizana: LGBTQ + Glossary of Gender and Sexuality Tanthauzo Zomwe Allies Ayenera Kudziwa)

Ndipo kumapeto kwa tsikulo, zonse zomwe zimafunikira ndikuti Lovato amadzidalira komanso amakhala omasuka pakhungu lawo - ngakhale atakhala otani.

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